What’s one decision that completely changed how you see yourself as a man?

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What’s one decision that completely changed how you see yourself as a man?

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  1. Ban-Circumcision-Now Avatar

    Therapy, I went in thinking my level of denial that I had in my teens about denying to myself that I was circumcised was unique and I felt I was hiding some mental issue, I realized from therapy that my denial is basically the same denial that most circumcised men have about the harm their entire lives, it’s just that mine encompassed a bit more and didn’t hold up. This really opened my mind to how hard I was being on myself.

    After realizing that and starting to actually address the trauma, I’ve finally been healing

  2. Icy-Gene7565 Avatar

    When we decided to keep our oldest daughter. 
    I was fully aware of the consequences and responsibility.

  3. Killybug Avatar

    Replacing my old cracked bathroom mirror with a brand new one.

  4. DragonflyLopsided619 Avatar

    Sobriety from alcohol, pot, and caffeine. It hasn’t been long but I feel like a different person than I’ve been the past 20 years, kinda like I have to discover my dreams again.

  5. FutureGhost81 Avatar

    Getting sober. It’s been three years and it was the starting line for so many other changes.

  6. Ok_Life2653 Avatar

    2 years since I quit corn, I feel more in control

  7. nuxz_got_banned Avatar

    I stopped caring about my wants and started prioritizing my responsibilities.

    I feel heartless sometimes but it’s for the best.

  8. LBoogie4x Avatar

    I know you have to feel better as a person thought. I know I did.

  9. Pepperjones808 Avatar

    Therapy. Idgaf what other people say, I know how I feel and how it has helped me

  10. HusKimbo Avatar

    Cut contact with a ex after i left town

  11. ExtraLargePotatoMan Avatar

    I dont have any vices so i look boring compared to others .. I have severe introversion but I have hobbies and joined some communities. Now Im acquainted to alot of people because of it. It still feels awkward to interact with others but iguess this is progress.. I have a small circle of friends and realized that Im more sociable compared to them soooooo

  12. last-hope-ever Avatar

    I cleaned my mirror.