What’s one thing you assumed was normal in sex, but later discovered it isn’t something everyone does?

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What’s one thing you assumed was normal in sex, but later discovered it isn’t something everyone does?

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  1. Mr_Gaslight Avatar

    Holding in farts.

  2. Tall-Performer2500 Avatar

    creampies. my first girlfriend never spoke up and said anything about them so i just assumed every girl like them. Then i had a one night stand and just unloaded in her and ive never seen a girl more mortified in my life

  3. Saiyanjin1 Avatar

    The women having orgasms from PIV specifically. I didn’t know how not common it was.

  4. deadblackgoose Avatar

    Finger in the butt

  5. gabrielleraul Avatar

    Spontaneous anal you see in movie and tv shows – no prep, straight to the act.

  6. HardAlmond Avatar

    I never even made a sound during orgasm as a teenager and only later on learned most people do.

  7. StillSimple6 Avatar

    Orgasm from anal. As a guy I always thought you just liked the feeling.

    Not all guy’s can reach hands free like that

  8. krisdarling Avatar

    Lick his ass…but ill keep doin it.

  9. Lord_DJay Avatar

    All of the Payments….

  10. alphagaia Avatar

    eating your gals butt. Past 2 girls I dated have never had a guy lick their butthole. My girl now is 44, I’m 43. It odd cause they have done anal but no licking….. strange to me

  11. ugh-_- Avatar

    Being passionate

  12. BaylisAscaris Avatar

    Hardcore BDSM. I discovered it before sex so I assumed sex was just one thing you could do in the bedroom to spice up BDSM if you felt like it.

  13. drowningintime Avatar
  14. boatslut Avatar

    Sex Ed in school.

    Actual education not just “Bible says don’t stick your dick in it till you I-Do”

  15. Charming_Psyduck Avatar

    I used to think that sex = penetration.

  16. coconutdon Avatar

    After my ex and I were first intimate, I sat down with her and just asked her what she liked and didn’t and if there was anything she’d like to try, or something I could improve on. She was very surprised. Apparently that’s not common

  17. Technical_Goose_8160 Avatar

    Sooooo many things. I was with my first gf for almost a decade. Luckily she was very sexual and playful. So we had a lot of fun learning about sex

    I didn’t know most women can’t cum from piv sex. Or don’t have multiple orgasms. Or sometimes don’t cum. I thought all girls were into being teased for hours and light bdsm. I thought most girls had big bouncy boobs, and we’re down for just about anything at least once.

  18. Driftbeerd Avatar

    Post nut crying

  19. IamATrainwreck88 Avatar

    Starting young. I.know there will be those thinking it’s a crack, but it isn’t.

  20. Darth-Binks-1999 Avatar

    Flossing your teeth with your partner’s butthole hair.

  21. Superb-Creme9631 Avatar

    Getting head pushed during bj

  22. ryunista Avatar

    One of my mates went to uni and one of his housemates was a virgin. It became a bit of a saga and they were all routing for him every time he went out.
    Anyway one night theyre out and he seems to be doing well with a girl. Things look promising as people go their separate ways towards the end of the night.
    The next morning it doesn’t go unnoticed that he never returned from the night out so speculation mounts and people gather to speculate. He hadn’t returned any texts or calls.
    After a short while the door opens and he comes in but doesn’t look as happy as they expect him to.
    Whats the matter they ask?
    I dont know, I woke up and she kicked me out. I dont understand.
    So they go through what happened, what might have upset her.
    Turns out he finished on her face. Hed only ever watched porn and thought that was the norm.
    Turns out she didnt agree

  23. PM_ME_BIG_PUSSYLIPS Avatar

    Man I’m like the only guy that likes 69ing or something, this shit is such a hard sell. Most women would rather just suck my dick unreciprocated than do the double wham bam, boggles me mind