What’s the real point of life? Since we were kids, we hear: study, get good grades, make your parents proud. Graduate, go to university, get a respectable job with a good salary, everyone claps for you. Boom, you’re a “success.” You buy a nice car, buy a house, get married. But deep down, there’s a question that won’t go away. You look at your wife and ask yourself: Does she love me? Or does she love what I have? You travel, buy the things you dreamed of, post pictures, people praise you, maybe even get jealous. But when you get back home, and quiet covers the place, when you’re alone, a voice in your head says: Is this all there is? You try to be a good person, help others, go to the mosque or church, pray, give to charity, do good. But there’s a feeling that won’t disappear: if in the end we’re all going to die, what’s the point of all this? I feel like nothing… smaller than a speck of dust in this vast universe. Why am I here? Just to work, chase money, die, and be forgotten? Sometimes I feel like the whole world is an act, it has no real meaning. And if everything’s an act… what’s the point of everything we’re doing?
What’s our purpose on this life?
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Life means whatever meaning you give it.
I know, it’s terrifying to have that much power and control. Most forfeit it and live a life someone else chooses for them. Only the truly courageous will forge their own path.
Good luck! You got this!
Do you mean “what is the meaning of life”? That’s easy: to make it an even better experience for the next generation.
It works on all levels. Evolutionarily/biologically. Religiously. Morally.
I’m hoping it’s for someone to stop by and say, hey…let’s do lunch. Hasn’t happened. 🤷🏼♀️
Assuming there is a purpose? Don’t say there has to be. We might just live, pay the bills, and then wait to die. I’m cool with no purpose.
There is no purpose – we’re born, we die, and we decide what we will do in that little piece in between. If we have any purpose in life, it’s whatever purpose we choose to assign to ourselves.
Just make your story what you want and enjoy the journey
It’s those connections with people, the little things you enjoy, or even just trying to be a decent human while you’re here. It’s okay to feel small in the grand scheme of things, but your own experiences and how you live them is what feels real.
There is no purpose. You have to be selfish to a point, and enjoy it. It’s a gift that can turn into a curse if you let it.
To have the human experience. For me that has meant learning to untangle the hurt done to me and learning to be fully present and appreciative
Enjoy life without asking for its purpose otherwise you will drive yourself nuts. The end will be the same for all of us.
You’re here to be a continuation of the process. For a time.
I just want to have a nice time with my family, and have a comfortable life without hurting anyone. I don’t need any other purpose. Also, I know what I’m like. If there was any purpose assigned to me that I didn’t pick for myself I would just nope out of it and do something else.
Literally NO REASON! I have been stuck on this for a couple months now and the more I think about it, the more depressed I get.
Unless you contribute something that will be forever memorable, you will not even be known to have been alive. After a generation or two, your family forgets you even existed. Nothing you did matters. Your job didn’t matter. Your money didn’t matter. Your house doesn’t matter. All this stress in the world is causing so much suffering for NOTHING! There’s no purpose to it! It won’t freaking matter. In the grand scheme of things we are tiny ants in the universe.
Just imagine looking at an ant colony and imagining that they are the people and that what we are living through, is happening to them. It doesn’t matter does it?
It affects nobody in the long run.
if you’re open to it, there is a series and a book called Imagine Heaven. (I’d like to image life after this one, where it’s like this earth, but everything is good and perfect. art and creativity, reuniting with love ones (and pets) that have gone, and more.)
Getting 1 million upvotes is the purpose of life
My purpose is to make my wife happy and to provide for my kids. Secondary to that is to try to make life better for others and to make myself happy.
Why does there need to be a point or purpose? Why can’t we just be?
To give.
the purpose of life is to live in a way that keeps life going
My purpose was to raise awesome, considerate kids and leave a legacy of kindness. My work here is almost done.
Breathing
Loving those
Who need it
My purpose is to love, contribute to society and try leave the world a slightly better place than it was when I entered it.
Depends on which aspect of life you are looking at, i guess. Biologically, it’s propably creating offspring and making sure it’s able to survive until adulthood, then the cycle repeats. As for religion, being a good christian/ muslim/ whatever so you are allowed to enter heaven (I am not religious, so please correct me if I’m wrong).
Then we can look at philosophy. According to nihilism and/ or absurdism, there is no inherent meaning in life. Which means you can either create your own meaning based upon your own values and wishes, or you lose yourself in an endless search for a purpose that doesn’t exist. It’s equally as disturbing as it is freeing, if you ask me.
At the end of the day, nothing really matters in my opinion. Make experiences (good or bad), try to learn from them, have fun, try to be a good person, see the world (or explore your part of it), read, educate yourself, enjoy art, spend time with people you like. Or don’t. It’s up to you 🙂
I’ve spent my life helping others.
I have come to think that there really isn’t a lot of “meaning” so you might as well try to be happy while you’re sucking air.
I’m 52 years old, and over the years, I’ve come to believe that the purpose of life is to be useful and to help others. It might sound simple or old-fashioned, but in my experience, it leads to the most meaningful and lasting rewards.
There’s an important difference between happiness and fulfillment. Happiness can be fleeting, but fulfillment comes from the choices you make—professionally and personally—that lead to meaningful relationships and experiences. Over time, those choices add up to something deeper.
Life isn’t always fair. It’ll throw unexpected challenges your way. But those moments—however difficult—are where the most growth happens.
I’ve traveled to more than 50 countries and chose to prioritize experiences over chasing titles or climbing ladders. Now, in my peak earning years, I find myself with more resources than I ever imagined—and even more appreciation for the path that led here.
To give love in everything you do, is the meaning of life
Dont want to start a debate…according to religion the purpose of this life is it is a test…you have to lead a good life…as a good human being…and believe in God and believe in the afterlife.
this life is a real time rpg, or the matrix where we start from different economic, social whatever etc background…but the purpose is the same..life is a journey starting from the mothers womb…the life on earth…the life in the grave…and the ultimate life in the after life….
Dont want to upset anyone..but this is one explanation of the purpose in life thats been told…
For me life is like a test ….everyday.
dont know about others.
Have fun
to live and die
there’s no purpose otherwise
everyone wants to believe that they matter but everything is subjective or arbitrary
nothing matters unless you choose to give it meaning and even then very few will matter after they’re gone
everything is irrelevant and temporary until we’re dead
To eat good BBQ.
I think it’s kind of different for everyone. Like, sure, some people chase big goals, build empires, cure stuf but for a lot of us, it’s more about the little moments. Waking up to a sunny morning. Laughing so hard your stomach hurts. Finding people you click with. Feeling proud after doing something tough. Eating that one meal that hits the soul just right. I feel like we’re not here to figure it all out in some deep cosmic way. We’re here to live. Grow. Mess up. Learn. Love. Maybe help a few people along the way.