Hmmm. I feel like most people are aware of it but I’ve never said it out loud.. lack of confidence. Confidence is a big turn on, but indecision and pack of confidence is just so off-putting. Followed closely by false bravado.
I think this is why truly learning to love yourself and learning about yourself is so important.
Licking and leaving slobber all over, like are you a dog?! There are ways to lick/kiss the body without leaving me feeling like I’ve just been licked by a K9.
Someone I slept with a few years was really into acting like she was in a porn, and did this weird aheago face thing, and stuck her tongue out after sucking me off to prove she swallowed, and something about all of that performative stuff gave me the ick. So we never fucked again (she didn’t take my broaching the subject terribly well the next day).
A dude going down on me (female). Like men are sooooo hung up on going down on you and making you cum that if you tell them you don’t actually enjoy it, it’s like you just crushed their one and only magic trick. Also “did you cum yet? You gonna cum soon?” Is very annoying.
When the wife and I text sexy stuff all
Day. Talk about the deed. And then she gets out the shower and farts and stinks the room up that were meant to be making out in. Why !? 😂. I still love her though.
My husband discovered early on that the tiniest hint of roleplay would shut everything down immediately lol. It makes me cringe so hard. Just, nope. Nope nope nope.
Nasty breath. I understand morning breath, I really do, but if I’ve invited you over for hookup or vice versa and you didn’t take the time to brush your teeth, I’m out. I usually try to find an excuse to bail at the point I realize they haven’t brushed, I can’t power through it.
On the flip side, I will say, as someone sensitive to smell, something that drove me feral was a man who sprayed his downstairs area with cologne. It wasn’t strong but it was absolutely potent. A true gamechanger. I don’t normally use this word to describe men but I would call him a genius. Wherever he is, I hope he’s making the next girl’s day.
Speaking at all, I’m slightly hard of hearing and I always have to ask people to repeat themselves. Asking that two or three times when someone says something in the heat of the moment is such a major turn off.
Moaning is no issue obv. Just actual words and sentences that I’d have to respond to.
Not person related but when my cat decides to jump on the bed or meow at me, his innocent eyes can’t witness me like this, I end up feeling so embarrassed or like ashamed lmfao
One time I was having sex with this girl, and she asked me if she could call me ” daddy.” I said that I didn’t mind but then she said, “Faster daddy, before mommy comes home.” 😳
When guys say “come for me baby” it’s the most embarrassing thing ever. Like do you really think what you have done in the last ten mins is going to make me cum 😭 so out of touch lol
When a guy stops himself from cumming early or prolongs it on purpose for the sole reason that they think I prefer it. It’s different if it’s for their pleasure or something they can’t control. I just think cumming early is a compliment and I get bored of PIV penetration pretty quickly. So when they keep stopping because they insist I need a proper pounding I start to wish it would end.
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Saying something you usually hear in porn, it just cringes me
honestly vibes, if u can feel something being even slightly off it kills the whole mood
Smells
Hmmm. I feel like most people are aware of it but I’ve never said it out loud.. lack of confidence. Confidence is a big turn on, but indecision and pack of confidence is just so off-putting. Followed closely by false bravado.
I think this is why truly learning to love yourself and learning about yourself is so important.
When I come out from the closet or crawl out from under the bed. Seems to stop most couples almost immediately
When she asks if it’s in yet.
Baby talk. I can’t stand it.
Removing little pieces of toilet paper from the coochie before eating her out. Kills the vibe for a second, but I aint no bitch 🤣
When I say I like something then he stops or does something different.
No equal participation. Don’t lay there like dead fish…lol
A kid knocking on the door
The daddy thing
Holding in a fart
Being awful at dirty talk. If you can’t do it, please just be unintelligible or quiet.
Having to pee
Bad breath.
If it killed the mood I’m making it known as I move away from her lol.
Whispering in my ear “it’s free real estate”
Feeling like my partner thinks they’re doing me a favor.
One whiff of bad dental hygiene
When he calls himself “Daddy.”
You’d think it’s a one-time thing, but no…I’ve seen it more than once
Spitting in my mouth. It’s so gross, I hate it and the people I’ve slept with never ask for permission first…
Tickling me, dear god nothing kills my mood faster
Jackhammer coupled with “Did you cum yet?”
Apparently listening to your favourite sex song, but what do I know
Had a girl say Beat It Upppppppp! I couldn’t stop laughing
Licking and leaving slobber all over, like are you a dog?! There are ways to lick/kiss the body without leaving me feeling like I’ve just been licked by a K9.
Pain
Someone I slept with a few years was really into acting like she was in a porn, and did this weird aheago face thing, and stuck her tongue out after sucking me off to prove she swallowed, and something about all of that performative stuff gave me the ick. So we never fucked again (she didn’t take my broaching the subject terribly well the next day).
A dude going down on me (female). Like men are sooooo hung up on going down on you and making you cum that if you tell them you don’t actually enjoy it, it’s like you just crushed their one and only magic trick. Also “did you cum yet? You gonna cum soon?” Is very annoying.
Degradation
When the wife and I text sexy stuff all
Day. Talk about the deed. And then she gets out the shower and farts and stinks the room up that were meant to be making out in. Why !? 😂. I still love her though.
My husband discovered early on that the tiniest hint of roleplay would shut everything down immediately lol. It makes me cringe so hard. Just, nope. Nope nope nope.
Nasty breath. I understand morning breath, I really do, but if I’ve invited you over for hookup or vice versa and you didn’t take the time to brush your teeth, I’m out. I usually try to find an excuse to bail at the point I realize they haven’t brushed, I can’t power through it.
On the flip side, I will say, as someone sensitive to smell, something that drove me feral was a man who sprayed his downstairs area with cologne. It wasn’t strong but it was absolutely potent. A true gamechanger. I don’t normally use this word to describe men but I would call him a genius. Wherever he is, I hope he’s making the next girl’s day.
A bad odor. Anywhere.
Butt smell.
As a guy, hair pulling. I hate having my hair pulled during sex.
Speaking at all, I’m slightly hard of hearing and I always have to ask people to repeat themselves. Asking that two or three times when someone says something in the heat of the moment is such a major turn off.
Moaning is no issue obv. Just actual words and sentences that I’d have to respond to.
Silence. It actively pisses me off
What are you doing?
Constanza- Uhhh, pleasuring you
It feels like aliens poking at my body
Moob comments.
I know I have moobs. I’m trying my best to ignore my moobs during sex. Pointing out my man titties to me does not enhance my moob.
I mean, mood.
Him asking me to suck his dick the entire foreplay. And him not caring to trying to make me feel good.
CBAT by Hudson Mohawk.
Bold of you to assume I’m having sex
Not person related but when my cat decides to jump on the bed or meow at me, his innocent eyes can’t witness me like this, I end up feeling so embarrassed or like ashamed lmfao
Trying to dominate me like in hentai/porn; it’s super cringe and instantly kills the whole experience
A guy meowed at my nipple once.
Tongue in my ear. Gross
Finger bashing.
The dog staring at us 👀
One time I was having sex with this girl, and she asked me if she could call me ” daddy.” I said that I didn’t mind but then she said, “Faster daddy, before mommy comes home.” 😳
Any fowl odor! I’m out! Peace be with you I’ll finish this myself.
A tongue in my ear.
When guys say “come for me baby” it’s the most embarrassing thing ever. Like do you really think what you have done in the last ten mins is going to make me cum 😭 so out of touch lol
Lazy Starfish
Had a girl’s cat repeatedly swat at my balls while in the act. I just couldn’t after that.
“are you nearly there”
not moaning or not making anyt sounds
2 situations:
‘Are you in?’
‘your free trial has ended. Pay me for full access’
Taking too long 🫣
Mid sex conversations. Burping 😞
Anything that sounds like fake pleasure. Immediately eye roll and it’s over
When he quietly says something sexy to me and I can’t hear him. So of course I reply “huh?”
I giggle every time but I’m so frustrated at myself.
Bad breath. It’s the one thing that kills it for me. I’ve actually offered gum partway; was a bit awkward, but did the trick.
Unbroken shark eyes stare coupled with being completely silent and hard mouth breathing..
Not enough kissing.
I’m can’t get into daddy talk I think it’s so weird
seeing myself in the mirror. why oh why does our wardrobe have a mirror on it …
Rape kink. As a dude my ex had one and I just didn’t fucking feel alright. If anyone and I mean ANYONE walked in on us. I’m straight going to jail
Switching positions too much. A few is chill but new positions every minute is annoying and not every position feels good.
I hate being called “daddy,” it makes me want to drive to the corner store for some milk and a pack of smokes
I did actually tell my current girlfriend this but I’ve put up with it before, being called daddy.
It’s not sexy, I don’t want to think about family relationships during sex.
Porno dialogue dirty talk
When she says, “deeper”, but you’re already balls deep. 🫠
Fake moans
“whose pussy is this?” or even worse “this is my pussy”
When ur on top and he puts his hands behind his head. No sir- you need to be grabbin ass & titties!!!
when you hear her son raging on call of duty nextdoor
When a guy stops himself from cumming early or prolongs it on purpose for the sole reason that they think I prefer it. It’s different if it’s for their pleasure or something they can’t control. I just think cumming early is a compliment and I get bored of PIV penetration pretty quickly. So when they keep stopping because they insist I need a proper pounding I start to wish it would end.