Multiple kids from multiple partners, and not looking after them to a good enough standard, unable to afford them without state benefits, and then still having more.
Using the word “judge” without an adverb. Judge fairly? Judge negatively? Judge unfairly? I’m going to judge OP negatively because s/he used “judge” in such a way.
I judge a lot but I keep it in my head. What I feel most guilty judging about is very overweight people who obviously don’t care to get better. I feel guilty because I was over 300# at one point. Now that I am in shape and hit the gym daily I find myself judging the 300# person with a basket full of junk at the wm checkout line.
People driving and not signaling when turning or switching lanes. That little knob on the left of your steering wheel isn’t just for hanging air fresheners
Trash and stuff all over the yard. I’ve seen a lot of it in rural places. I grew up on a farm but my Dad is very particular about his property. I don’t understand how you can just let your land end up like that
I used this one recently to answer a similar question, but when people move or perform tasks unnecessarily slowly or efficiently. It bothers me irrationally that my wife walks all the way across the kitchen to dump coffee grounds in the trash because she thinks dumping them in the sink is a hassle because she sometimes has to flick the disposal switch for a quarter second to flush them down. From a strictly utilitarian sense of time/energy management, it’s faster and expends far less BTU’s to do the latter, but she’s deadset on doing it her way. She only does one task at a time, and I’m all “let the coffee start and THEN fill in the ice and the creamer”, and she’s like “Let me do it the way I want to, and YOU CHEATED ON ME!?!?” and then we’re off the the races, all bets off.
People who have kids at all. They are so clearly zombiefied and empty afterwards. Then I get called “lucky” for traveling and having hobbies… no, I’m just not dumb enough to throw my life away just to be a child’s 24/7 chef, maid, and taxi driver. I truly cannot imagine a worse existence.
People who ride in their convertibles with their pets in the front sit, looking around waiting for people to compliment them on how cute their dog is—ugh. Going through the drive thru the other day and the lady in front of me was holding up the line while she waited for everyone to make googling eyes at her dog.
NOT Returning a shopping cart, parking or idling in the Fire Lanes, parking in the handicap parking area because they’re lazy( people who clearly are not struggling to walk) lazy people using the mobility scooters at the big box stores, when they’re clearly not handicapped. I could go on…😅
Oh also if they are goth/emo. I’m straight but support lesbian and gay peeps. People can love who they wanna love and we shouldn’t judge them for that ♥️
Facial modifications. Tons of piercings and/or tattoos. Intellectually I believe in the freedom of expression, but I see young people with all that, and I can’t help thinking how poorly that will age in the next forty years.
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The way they dress. Im not totally critical but some choices make no sense to me at all!
Multiple kids from multiple partners, and not looking after them to a good enough standard, unable to afford them without state benefits, and then still having more.
I shouldn’t judge them cause I know they love animals, but people who talk for their pets.
That and “puppers” and “doggo” makes me physically ill.
Being religious.
Parents of children who have tantrums in public spaces
How smart someone is/appears
Their shoes.
Having a bunch of kids, going to Church literally every weekend, or having a high body count
Having more than 2 baby daddies
Grammar
I hate this trait, but I get super annoyed when people don‘t understand / comprehend something as quickly as I do ㅠ.ㅠ
Using the word “judge” without an adverb. Judge fairly? Judge negatively? Judge unfairly? I’m going to judge OP negatively because s/he used “judge” in such a way.
Overt racism.
Ugly Children
I’m so sorry
People who clap when the plane lands. Can’t help it.
People who blast TikToks on full volume in public. I know it’s petty, I know I shouldn’t care… but my ears are not your personal theater.
When people read slower than I do.
Manners
Beliefs
I judge a lot but I keep it in my head. What I feel most guilty judging about is very overweight people who obviously don’t care to get better. I feel guilty because I was over 300# at one point. Now that I am in shape and hit the gym daily I find myself judging the 300# person with a basket full of junk at the wm checkout line.
Being stupid
People driving and not signaling when turning or switching lanes. That little knob on the left of your steering wheel isn’t just for hanging air fresheners
Promiscuous unsafe sex.
The cars they drive
being an only child
People who clap when the plane lands. I know it’s harmless, but my inner snob activates every time.
Tattoos
There. I said it
Slow walkers. At this rate I don’t care how old you are or aren’t MOVE BITCH.
Or at least get the fuck out the way. You don’t have to speed walk like me
Trash and stuff all over the yard. I’ve seen a lot of it in rural places. I grew up on a farm but my Dad is very particular about his property. I don’t understand how you can just let your land end up like that
I judge people for being judgmental, but that’s their ignorance so I shouldn’t judge
Being a white male.
Parking in front of my house when I don’t know you. I know logically it’s public property but also… mine.
Hair colour straight up, hair colour blindness is so reallll
Parents with Rude kids
Lack of respect.
How they treat their pets.
Jumping from one partner to the other, i dont know what goes in their heads and behind the scenes but it makes me think less of them
Liberals
Shitty shopping/eating habits.
You might not catch me scowling when I see your cart full of pizza rolls, Doritos, and Mountain Dew. But, I did.
Wearing pajama pants in public.
I used this one recently to answer a similar question, but when people move or perform tasks unnecessarily slowly or efficiently. It bothers me irrationally that my wife walks all the way across the kitchen to dump coffee grounds in the trash because she thinks dumping them in the sink is a hassle because she sometimes has to flick the disposal switch for a quarter second to flush them down. From a strictly utilitarian sense of time/energy management, it’s faster and expends far less BTU’s to do the latter, but she’s deadset on doing it her way. She only does one task at a time, and I’m all “let the coffee start and THEN fill in the ice and the creamer”, and she’s like “Let me do it the way I want to, and YOU CHEATED ON ME!?!?” and then we’re off the the races, all bets off.
Knife and fork in wrong hands.
Not being able to use a knife and fork in general.
I am so terribly “judgey” I’ve just learned to keep my old man mouth shut. Really, it’s awful.
Fake nails and lashes. They’re just gross.
People who wear Crocs.
They are for children under seven, line cooks and people in health care. There is no reason for an adult to wear them in public.
Oh and don’t get me started on adding junk on them.
Slang, certain slang or trendy words, “oof” was very popular for a moment, and if you used it I was judging hard and making presumptions
Chipped nail polish.
People who have kids at all. They are so clearly zombiefied and empty afterwards. Then I get called “lucky” for traveling and having hobbies… no, I’m just not dumb enough to throw my life away just to be a child’s 24/7 chef, maid, and taxi driver. I truly cannot imagine a worse existence.
People who say “I don’t like music.” Like… are you okay?
Blink twice if you need help.
Is bad that I agreed with most of the answers? I have some self reflection to do
People who ride in their convertibles with their pets in the front sit, looking around waiting for people to compliment them on how cute their dog is—ugh. Going through the drive thru the other day and the lady in front of me was holding up the line while she waited for everyone to make googling eyes at her dog.
If they have autism. I know i shouldn’t but I do. Also if they’re jerks. That’s fair though! 😜
Walking slowly, in the way, or on the wrong side of whatever.
Parents of obese children. Especially if the parents are also obese themselves.
NOT Returning a shopping cart, parking or idling in the Fire Lanes, parking in the handicap parking area because they’re lazy( people who clearly are not struggling to walk) lazy people using the mobility scooters at the big box stores, when they’re clearly not handicapped. I could go on…😅
Who they voted for.
People who smoke in their cars. I know it’s their property, but it’s just horrible.
Oh also if they are goth/emo. I’m straight but support lesbian and gay peeps. People can love who they wanna love and we shouldn’t judge them for that ♥️
When people are in front of me and walking slower than me. But just enough that it’s awkward to overtake them
When people care too much about celebrities.. like iknow it’s none of my business but who gives ashit about who Justin Bieber is dating???
Facial modifications. Tons of piercings and/or tattoos. Intellectually I believe in the freedom of expression, but I see young people with all that, and I can’t help thinking how poorly that will age in the next forty years.