When they’re not controlling their kids in public.
I know it’s difficult being a parent, and the lack of sleep and burnout is real, but goddamn do I hate when kids do that screeching thing they sometimes do
If they have more than 4 kids. Barely anyone in this country can reliably raise that many children, and most still end up not being good parents because they spread themselves too thin.
Bad driving. It’s kind of an asshole move on my part because my driving is just as bad, if not worse at times. We all speed or cut people off by accident sometimes, but there’s definitely a subconscious bias of believing it’s fine when you do it and deplorable when anyone else does, lol.
Being uneducated. In the year 2025, with smartphones and nearly unlimited knowledge a few taps away in your pocket.. it just makes me think the person has no common sense. How can anyone just blindly trust something they are told or hear without checking for sources, or researching themselves? Idk if it makes me elitist honestly. even most people experiencing homelessness have phones..
People who go out drinking. And I mean that’s all they want to fucking do. Once in a while with friends, sure of course. But you want to go out and get drunk EVERY time we hang out? Like people make drinking their personality at that point and you can’t even hold a proper conversation with these certain individuals without them having a little buzz. It’s like, am I actually talking to the real you?
Having more kids than they can afford. I don’t mean people who fell on hard times, but when someone who is on social assistance and can barely afford rent announces a pregnancy, I judge.
People who give their kids r/tragedeigh names like Mykkynslee or Jaxxson. You might think the name is cute while they’re a kid, but it’s gonna be kind of odd when they’re in their 60’s.
When they don’t even attempt to park in between the lines. Idk what their story is but I wanna know who signed off on giving them a drivers license. 😂🙄
People who buy dogs that shouldn’t have been bred. Double Merle’s and fluffy frenchies and the like. I love all dogs and it’s not their fault but man have we failed them.
I hate it when people have extremely poor literacy skills and are paid thousands more than me a year 😅 I KNOW it’s not a real indicator of their intelligence but I was always drilled at school that I would never do well unless I had good grammar and could spell
People who have nice hair cuts, nails done, lips done, new tattoos, brand name everything while their kids are in a coat 4 sizes too small with ripped school shoes. Even more when it’s the middle of winter and the kid doesn’t have a hat or coat while they’re swanning around in a brand new parka.
People who don’t leash their dogs or who have their dogs on leashes but still let them walk up on ppl or other dogs. Not everyone wants dog slobber on them and some people are afraid. Some dogs might attack. Like keep your dog to yourself!
When a middle class person has an overly expensive car or truck. I ask myself “who are you trying to impress”. ? You should put that extra money into your retirement account. I know.Me bad.
People who dont speak to kids with respect or awareness to what they have the capacity for, developmentally. Like, meet them where they’re at; stop trying to “handle” them because you lack your own emotional regulation.
Hustle culture, it’s just so brainwashed to me, like oh no my value as a person is exclusively determined by how much money I make, meanwhile upwards mobility is pretty much a myth, so hustle culture is just capitalism apologists drinking more of the Kool Aid and they won’t even succeed. They very desperately need to believe in a meritocracy but are really just burning themselves out. It’s sad to me, because I’ve seen people get destroyed by it. And Shark Tank is basically hustle culture, the TV show, so many many desperate employees coming up with desperate ideas so they can join the ownership class, because they realize no one got rich off of a job.
Hustle culture just makes us all sick, tired and desperate without making anyone richer. It’s absolute propaganda.
People who are overly patriotic. Like i get it, you can think your country is nice and everything but usually when people think that it is because it’s the only country they know. Or they have been so heavily propagandised that they can’t see the good elsewhere while being unable to see the bad where they live
Lip/breast/butt implants. I believe everyone has a right to do whatever they want with their body, and if they want to get implants done, they should. If they like it, great for them. But there is a part of me that jugdes them for their looks, and then I also judge myself for judging them for how they look. It’s a constant inner battle.
People stopping shopping carts in an aisle and then standing in the other side of the same aisle, blocking the passage of everyone else trying to shop. Extra hatred if they also hold onto their cart with their extended arm.
Posting their kids and where they go to school. Using small kids for content creation. I’m so sorry, I don’t want to judge other people’s parenting. But I just hate it.
People give their kids iphones or iPads at a super young age. You’re literally ruing their brain.
People who complain about having no money but then spend it on stupid stuff. You’re struggling to pay your $800 a month rent but somehow have money for latest whatever just got released?
I have one from the other side: I am being treated for skin cancer on my face, and a recent procedure left me with bright red blotches (I assume/hope they will fade). I was walking around downtown yesterday and noticed people kind of scowling at me, and not looking me in the eye. When I got home I looked in the mirror and realized I could be mistaken for a meth addict. So lesson learned: Don’t judge people on their appearances.
How fast their windshield wipers are going when it’s raining. I don’t know why, but when I see someone’s wipers going super fast when it’s barely sprinkling, I think they’re being dramatic.
Being a fan of anime/vtubers to a worrying degree (particularly adult American men).
If you’re a grown man who collects figurines/stickers/toys/body pillows, etc., of female characters (especially if they are/look like children, and/or are “sexy” animals), use terms like “waifu” unironically, spend a bunch of time online obsessing over vtubers (including attending “concerts”), heavily sexualize animated characters, and/or use Japanese words and phrases out of context when you don’t speak the language, I’m sorry, but I’m judging the hell out of you, and I’m also very concerned about your mental state.
When people lack empathy. I am aware that there are mental disorders than are incurable that cause a severe lack of Empathy…or that abuse and trauma can cause a lack of empathy.
However, I HATE when people show little to no empathy over issues such as basic human rights.
People who own large dogs in apartments. This big animal wants to be outside galloping through a field, but instead it’s stuck just laying on your floor most of the day.
Then when you get home from work and take it out to pee, you get mad at it for running off because it’s so happy to finally be outside.
People who constantly drive in the left lane on the highway when they aren’t passing anyone. I low key think they are selfish assholes that have no regard to anyone else driving on the highway.
I know this makes me an asshole and I’m working on it, but people with very limited palates. I’m not really talking about people who have problems with texture and things like that. But adult people with no interest in different kinds of foods who eat chicken fingers and fries, macaroni and cheese, no vegetables but green beans and corn, and basically nothing else. My husband has a somewhat limited palate but he’s occasionally open to trying new things. But I even feel a little irritation with him (though I don’t say anything) when he won’t try things and orders the blandest thing on the menu. I know I should mind my own plate. I know this makes me an asshole.
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When they’re not controlling their kids in public.
I know it’s difficult being a parent, and the lack of sleep and burnout is real, but goddamn do I hate when kids do that screeching thing they sometimes do
If they have more than 4 kids. Barely anyone in this country can reliably raise that many children, and most still end up not being good parents because they spread themselves too thin.
Bad driving. It’s kind of an asshole move on my part because my driving is just as bad, if not worse at times. We all speed or cut people off by accident sometimes, but there’s definitely a subconscious bias of believing it’s fine when you do it and deplorable when anyone else does, lol.
Bad parenting
When someone says something not very godly or someone’s behavior isn’t very Christian. Not every body is Christian Karen.
Being uneducated. In the year 2025, with smartphones and nearly unlimited knowledge a few taps away in your pocket.. it just makes me think the person has no common sense. How can anyone just blindly trust something they are told or hear without checking for sources, or researching themselves? Idk if it makes me elitist honestly. even most people experiencing homelessness have phones..
People who go out drinking. And I mean that’s all they want to fucking do. Once in a while with friends, sure of course. But you want to go out and get drunk EVERY time we hang out? Like people make drinking their personality at that point and you can’t even hold a proper conversation with these certain individuals without them having a little buzz. It’s like, am I actually talking to the real you?
If they don’t read anything other than text messages or social media.
Having more kids than they can afford. I don’t mean people who fell on hard times, but when someone who is on social assistance and can barely afford rent announces a pregnancy, I judge.
Confrontationally political shirts.
People who let their dog bark and bark and bark.
Grammar
People who give their kids r/tragedeigh names like Mykkynslee or Jaxxson. You might think the name is cute while they’re a kid, but it’s gonna be kind of odd when they’re in their 60’s.
People who have several kids, all with different dads/mom’s.
People who say they hate all animals.
Like yeah, people have preferences, so I know it’s wrong to judge – but it just screams “psychopath” to me
When they don’t even attempt to park in between the lines. Idk what their story is but I wanna know who signed off on giving them a drivers license. 😂🙄
How clean your house is. Sorry, but have some fucking pride for your belongings. Not how high-end, just how clean and tidy.
Women with artificial eyelashes big enough to cause a tornado: You look so much better without them.
People who buy dogs that shouldn’t have been bred. Double Merle’s and fluffy frenchies and the like. I love all dogs and it’s not their fault but man have we failed them.
Only knowing one language and making fun of those who speak multiple.
When they are obsessed with astrology and make their sign their whole personality .
Indecisive, timid driving!
Especially the 40mph brigade.
I hate it when people have extremely poor literacy skills and are paid thousands more than me a year 😅 I KNOW it’s not a real indicator of their intelligence but I was always drilled at school that I would never do well unless I had good grammar and could spell
People who have nice hair cuts, nails done, lips done, new tattoos, brand name everything while their kids are in a coat 4 sizes too small with ripped school shoes. Even more when it’s the middle of winter and the kid doesn’t have a hat or coat while they’re swanning around in a brand new parka.
That and smoking at the school gate.
People on speaker phone really loud.
People who get married too young. If you marry at 22, how do you even know who you are? It’s such an easy way to fuck up your life.
Or
Getting married just because someone is pregnant. What the fuck. We do not need to be doing this.
Edit: I might just have marriage issues lol
People who don’t leash their dogs or who have their dogs on leashes but still let them walk up on ppl or other dogs. Not everyone wants dog slobber on them and some people are afraid. Some dogs might attack. Like keep your dog to yourself!
People who smoke cigarettes and then whine about how broke they are – particularly if they are prioritising money for smokes over other needs.
When a middle class person has an overly expensive car or truck. I ask myself “who are you trying to impress”. ? You should put that extra money into your retirement account. I know.Me bad.
People who dont speak to kids with respect or awareness to what they have the capacity for, developmentally. Like, meet them where they’re at; stop trying to “handle” them because you lack your own emotional regulation.
Hustle culture, it’s just so brainwashed to me, like oh no my value as a person is exclusively determined by how much money I make, meanwhile upwards mobility is pretty much a myth, so hustle culture is just capitalism apologists drinking more of the Kool Aid and they won’t even succeed. They very desperately need to believe in a meritocracy but are really just burning themselves out. It’s sad to me, because I’ve seen people get destroyed by it. And Shark Tank is basically hustle culture, the TV show, so many many desperate employees coming up with desperate ideas so they can join the ownership class, because they realize no one got rich off of a job.
Hustle culture just makes us all sick, tired and desperate without making anyone richer. It’s absolute propaganda.
People who don’t put their dogs on a leash when they’re in a public place (except for dog parks)
People who are overly patriotic. Like i get it, you can think your country is nice and everything but usually when people think that it is because it’s the only country they know. Or they have been so heavily propagandised that they can’t see the good elsewhere while being unable to see the bad where they live
Lip/breast/butt implants. I believe everyone has a right to do whatever they want with their body, and if they want to get implants done, they should. If they like it, great for them. But there is a part of me that jugdes them for their looks, and then I also judge myself for judging them for how they look. It’s a constant inner battle.
When a parent talks harshly to their kids. Your kid isn’t going to respect you if you don’t respect them.
People stopping shopping carts in an aisle and then standing in the other side of the same aisle, blocking the passage of everyone else trying to shop. Extra hatred if they also hold onto their cart with their extended arm.
People who don’t spay and neuter their pets.
People with poor grammar who are in leadership roles and make way more money than me.
Screaming children.
Posting their kids and where they go to school. Using small kids for content creation. I’m so sorry, I don’t want to judge other people’s parenting. But I just hate it.
Allowing you kids to have phone/tablets as a toddler/young child.
I very much have the bias that it makes you a bad parent.
People who brag about not reading. What do you want a cookie?
People give their kids iphones or iPads at a super young age. You’re literally ruing their brain.
People who complain about having no money but then spend it on stupid stuff. You’re struggling to pay your $800 a month rent but somehow have money for latest whatever just got released?
People who use social media as a diary. No sense of privacy, posting their children with those boards with what grade and teacher, overly sharing.
Also people who put a tablet in their child’s hands as soon as they can grab.
I have one from the other side: I am being treated for skin cancer on my face, and a recent procedure left me with bright red blotches (I assume/hope they will fade). I was walking around downtown yesterday and noticed people kind of scowling at me, and not looking me in the eye. When I got home I looked in the mirror and realized I could be mistaken for a meth addict. So lesson learned: Don’t judge people on their appearances.
How fast their windshield wipers are going when it’s raining. I don’t know why, but when I see someone’s wipers going super fast when it’s barely sprinkling, I think they’re being dramatic.
People who propose the table to split the bill evenly
Being a fan of anime/vtubers to a worrying degree (particularly adult American men).
If you’re a grown man who collects figurines/stickers/toys/body pillows, etc., of female characters (especially if they are/look like children, and/or are “sexy” animals), use terms like “waifu” unironically, spend a bunch of time online obsessing over vtubers (including attending “concerts”), heavily sexualize animated characters, and/or use Japanese words and phrases out of context when you don’t speak the language, I’m sorry, but I’m judging the hell out of you, and I’m also very concerned about your mental state.
People who will watch videos in public with their volume up really high…. I don’t wanna hear that😭
When people lack empathy. I am aware that there are mental disorders than are incurable that cause a severe lack of Empathy…or that abuse and trauma can cause a lack of empathy.
However, I HATE when people show little to no empathy over issues such as basic human rights.
Loud cars and trucks. You sound horrible, and you look like an idiot.
Lip injections
People who own large dogs in apartments. This big animal wants to be outside galloping through a field, but instead it’s stuck just laying on your floor most of the day.
Then when you get home from work and take it out to pee, you get mad at it for running off because it’s so happy to finally be outside.
People who constantly drive in the left lane on the highway when they aren’t passing anyone. I low key think they are selfish assholes that have no regard to anyone else driving on the highway.
When you’re well off, own your own home and then have 1 ply toilet paper in the toilet.
Redditors never fail to ignore all nuance in a question and turn it into ‘what things don’t you like’
How does judging someone for bad parenting or taking up three parking spaces make you an asshole?
The answers should be socially acceptable things that irrationally bug you, not things everyone hates already
People who don’t use any of the following correctly:
There’s probably more to be added to this list.
And I’m not even an english speaker…
I know this makes me an asshole and I’m working on it, but people with very limited palates. I’m not really talking about people who have problems with texture and things like that. But adult people with no interest in different kinds of foods who eat chicken fingers and fries, macaroni and cheese, no vegetables but green beans and corn, and basically nothing else. My husband has a somewhat limited palate but he’s occasionally open to trying new things. But I even feel a little irritation with him (though I don’t say anything) when he won’t try things and orders the blandest thing on the menu. I know I should mind my own plate. I know this makes me an asshole.