Is there any career or relationship advice you would give to your 20 year old self? Anything that you believe would have made your 20s less confusing, resulting in your 30s being easier.
Is there any career or relationship advice you would give to your 20 year old self? Anything that you believe would have made your 20s less confusing, resulting in your 30s being easier.
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If you ever report a man for harassment, you will 100% be retaliated against. Oh and other women will maybe take his side.
Anyone who thinks your boundaries are an invitation to argue with, or to ignore, should be cut out of your life as much as humanly possible. You will avoid so much toxicity if you cut out anyone like this, including in your career. It may take time to cut people out, for instance, if it’s a roommate, landlord, coworker or boss, but it’s still vitally important to aim to cut them out as soon as possible.
In your dating life, focus on their actions and their treatment of you, especially on what’s consistent over time, and don’t put much weight on what suitors say.
When someone shows you who they really are, believe them.
Don’t waste time on men who have you second guessing how they feel about you. Relationships are not supposed to be hard. I strongly believe if your relationship or marriage is difficult, you’re with the wrong person. It should be easy with hardly any fighting day today.
I would tell myself to focus less on romantic relationships and focus more on personal growth, my career, and friends. I remember constantly worrying about boyfriends when I was in my 20’s and in hindsight it seems like I wasted time with people who didn’t matter in the end. I just think it would have been more productive focusing on myself.
Bangs are like kids, they look cute but they are hard work. So really think about making this commitment.