What’s the difference between men and women? Do women spend too much energy TRYING to feel various emotions when it’s not even necessary or appropriate to the situation meanwhile men are more chill and don’t do that shit?

For example girls who will go listen to emo music like Lana deal Rey or whatever stirs their emotions. Bitch i can’t listen to this emotional music anymore unless I’m actually feeling some way. I don’t wanna hear dramatic emotional music !!! It takes my energy away and it’s a waste. I know I used to be different a little. But it reminds me how some older guy told me women like to expand on their feelings and see how much they can feel, and no that’s not a good thing but young women tend to think it is. That’s why we women might go on and on about how we feel love or any other emotion for some guy. When guys in the same situation woild just call it a day and say yeah that person is cool or they suck and they’d just act accordingly. Not sit and expand on their emotions and try to feel more and more. Men seem to focus more on reality. I like that. You guys is cool.