Making a relative’s wedding reception all about himself. He ran around like a maniac on the dance floor, a few people fell down, jumping up and down while a handful of people encouraged him, and when it came time for the garter and bouquet toss, he had to catch both of them by running across the room with the garter, and shoving a woman to the floor.
For me, it’s a tie between treating their car and how they drive it as their entire personality, and believing in those silly “alpha” and “beta” male labels that losers spread around online.
The guys who go through one bad experience and make it their whole life and personality. They act like no one else can understand what they’ve been through even though most people have their own trauma. Like getting rejected and having your heart broken is just part of life, it doesn’t mean you need to hate women forever and pretend you’re batman
Not sure how to phrase it. But the way some men act when they know a woman is watching- like, trying to emulate what they think are the mannerisms of a super tough guy.
Really any sort of tough guy bravado is very cringe, whether it be Tate-speak, bar fights, roid rage, loud car revving… ugh.
Every self loathing man that thinks self deprecating himself to get into a woman’s good graces means to hate biologically who he is and his natural urges.
One of the guy on our group is really chill when we are all together but as soon as another girl comes around he’s just too good for us and talk down about us. He acts really goofy almost like the mask. Doing weird voices and trying to show off. I don’t get it. Not once him doing that got him the girls number.
One of the guy on our group is really chill when we are all together but as soon as another girl comes around he’s just too good for us and talk down about us. He acts really goofy almost like the mask. Doing weird voices and trying to show off. I don’t get it. Not once him doing that got him the girls number.
When they always attack under the guise of a joke or prank, but they get bruised when someone does it back to them. If you don’t like getting punched then stop initiating the punching. They always want to come across as the toughest meanies out there but they’re so insecure about how weak they are that they can’t take it back. IDK anybody, male or female, who likes this in a guy.
Toxic masculinity in general. They need to beat things (people or objects) up, or do the most drunk risky stunts to be the life of the party. I do condone, however, a random person not in the altercation knocking out a dick who is preying on someone weaker than them.
Putting down another man in order to try and make himself look better towards another woman in the group. Theres a word for this, I forgot what it was though, happened a lot to me in middle school because I was a gamer that got a lot of girls and there would be the odd guy who couldn’t make a girl laugh so he would try and put me down for whatever reason to get her attention.
Putting down another man in order to try and make himself look better towards another woman in the group. Theres a word for this, I forgot what it was though, happened a lot to me in middle school because I was a gamer that got a lot of girls and there would be the odd guy who couldn’t make a girl laugh so he would try and put me down for whatever reason to get her attention.
Probably the fact that, fundamentally, we’ve revealed ourselves to be so similar in such a way
Like, historically, the attitude of men has been to disparage women and femininity as a lesser form of the human experience
Then, you get to modern days? They make more money, men hoe themselves out at least as much, if OnlyFans had a market for it, we’d be twerking in skimpy bikinis too, etc.
At the same time, women are taking more of a no-holds-barred approach to life that harkens back to masculine roles
It’s kinda humiliating but it’s to be expected. Nothing in life is more similar to men than women. And vice versa.
It kinda seems like modern life is just a massive “see? I told you so” between both genders.
When they stare fixedly at you with a fixed smile and ask nonstop questions, barely giving you time to respond before the next question comes. It’s creepy and makes me feel trapped.
Acting too cool to be polite. We had this guy in our friends group who it was so clear he only talked to women if he thought he could sleep with them. So when he found out I was sleeping with(and now dating)another guy in our friends group and that my best friend had zero attraction to him he stopped being cordial with us. Which was fine, we didn’t love his company anyways.
Well something really funny happened in the group and ms and my best friend were talking about it and he was standing next to us, the guys in the group were smoking or something. He interrupted us talking and said “I really don’t care about any of this” and we said “that’s fine, you’re allowed to leave”. About 30 minutes later, when the guys were back they started talking about said funny thing and the guy from before asked us why we didn’t tell him about it. We told him we tried to, but he interrupted and we didn’t care to any longer.
I’m so very happy my bf has made comments that his sexism has just gotten too much and he doesn’t enjoy his company anymore cause hanging out with someone who just shows contempt unless you show an interest in his dick is miserable.
Lifting the bottom of your shirt so much you do it all the time unconsciously. You got abs! That’s dope. We all workout. Some of us have them too. But also, like communication skills. While sadly it does work Ina. Couple women a year, that’s about all my guys got. And about all he gets. Them m vapid hoes aren’t many.
The guys on social media who post videos of themselves over music while they are shirtless and looking at the camera all sensually. Like, hey, girl, look at me. I have muscles, and I’m kind of shy. Licks their lips and gives doe eyes to the camera. I mean, don’t get me wrong, most of them are fine as hell, but that shit is so cringe to me.
Flexing about having a car/the type of car they own.
One of my friends (a former Influencer/fitness model) talked about how a guy tried to hit on her at the gym by talking about his Car. She sad “I have a car too”.
When they are too nonchalant. Like you’re telling me you don’t get excited about anything? Nothing is important to you? No opinions?? And you don’t say anything except “nah” and “yuh.” You don’t look as cool as you’re trying to be, everyone just thinks you have some kind of mental handicap.
You have monopolized the only cable machine for 45minutes, ogled your own biceps so much the mirror quit, yes we have allll noticed how hard you work out, now take your inside sunglasses, nipple showing tank top and cap somewhere else please.
Talking about all the women they have slept with like its a contest to make it seem as though they are desirable. IMO it just makes them look trashy and rapey as well as super insecure.
I’ve been talking to this girl who thinks emotions and vulnerability is the answer to this question. What do you think about that? Feels so toxic to me
Bragging about how much money they make or trying to buy people’s affection. They manage to work it into almost every conversation. Like I really don’t care how many designer handbags you bought your ex and I fail to see how that’s relevant.
Male here but this makes me cringe endlessly. When men change their personality and peacock in the presence of a woman. Then when the woman leaves everyone’s presence, they all change back to how they were to begin with. I see guys get super friendly with each other and act out things in order to draw attention to themselves when a woman is present. The entire dynamic changes. People who normally have nothing to do with me otherwise suddenly become my best friend for a few minutes. It’s sickening actually. Im one of the only people that i know of that doesn’t peacock or change when a woman is around. I act like they don’t even exist. But I’m also happily married and I’m always myself anyways at all times. I’m secure in myself and i think that’s one reason why i don’t act this way. But man i notice it. And it tells me alot about a person.
I see this at work all the time. I work in an alpha male dominated environment, and we rarely have women around. But when we do, people lose their minds over it. They act like best friends suddenly and start making jokes outloud to be funny and a reason to smile. It’s so over the top. It’s a black and white difference.
My classmate who gets angry at us because we didn’t say “get well soon” on him when he is sick. He told us that he broke he’s ankle but we saw him running in the fields afterwards. Attention seeker awards goes on him obviously 🙄🙄
I go to the gym often. Every time I use the bathroom, I always hope there isn’t a dude posing in front of the mirror. Very often is that, and sometimes with their shirt off, and sometimes they take pics, and sometimes they do it in group!
I try so hard not to scoff every time I see it. And the mirror is right next to the hand dryer 😭
Having anything to do with that alpha/high value male crap.
Thinking any podcast bro is worth listening to (exception for the basement yard).
Bragging about money/being a finance bro.
Whinging about gold diggers when they have no gold to dig.
Ridiculously loud cars and music.
Playing guitar at you and/or writing you a song or poetry then reading it at you.
Mistaking controlling behaviour for protectiveness.
Being self-deprecating to fish for compliments.
Baby talk. Ever. Seriously, ever.
This one is real specific but there’s been an upturn in men reading romance/romantacy then making it their entire personalities thinking it makes them irresistible. It’s so embarrassing. See also: men who cosplay as fictional characters, specially from romance books.
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white-knighting
Bragging about their prowess or conquests. Dull AF.
Making a relative’s wedding reception all about himself. He ran around like a maniac on the dance floor, a few people fell down, jumping up and down while a handful of people encouraged him, and when it came time for the garter and bouquet toss, he had to catch both of them by running across the room with the garter, and shoving a woman to the floor.
The guy that plays fight or plays wrestle with people who clearly don’t want it. My friend is like that and it’s horrible lol
Anything and everything that a Tate or Paul brother has posted online.
Designer fashion. Getting ripped off to look weird sf isn’t the move to make
Negging.
Truck nuts.
Weaponized incompetence. There’s nothing sexy or cute about pretending you don’t know how to make macaroni and cheese, Ryder.
Loud lifted trucks.
Self deprecation to fish for complements.
“I’m so ugly, nobody would date me”
“You’re not ugly”
“Oh so you’d date me?”
wants sympathy any chance he gets
Lmao I feel like there are two interpretations of this question, so these comments are about to be funny as fuck
Talking more than listening.
Breadcrumbing.
anything that has to do with being an “alpha male”
Fishing for compliments
Shirtless anything
When you insult your friends to make yourself look better.
bragging about beating people up
Grunting loudly at they gym.
Boasting in any way.
Negging.
Anything involving material possessions.
For me, it’s a tie between treating their car and how they drive it as their entire personality, and believing in those silly “alpha” and “beta” male labels that losers spread around online.
Loud vehicles. Nothing cool about driving up and down a street at ungodly hours of the night and waking everyone up with your loud ass car.
Incessant storytelling.
“Where my hug at”
Revving a (heavily financed) car
Speaking in a low, gravelly voice on the call, or voice notes on dating apps, etc. especially when the original voice isn’t like that
The way they rev their car’s engines really loud. Sirrr this is a residential area and we just want to enjoy our walk.
Constant boasting and bragging.
Blasting music out your car window. It’s not advertising what you thought it would.
The guys who go through one bad experience and make it their whole life and personality. They act like no one else can understand what they’ve been through even though most people have their own trauma. Like getting rejected and having your heart broken is just part of life, it doesn’t mean you need to hate women forever and pretend you’re batman
Creating a Signal chat to share work stuff.
Not sure how to phrase it. But the way some men act when they know a woman is watching- like, trying to emulate what they think are the mannerisms of a super tough guy.
Really any sort of tough guy bravado is very cringe, whether it be Tate-speak, bar fights, roid rage, loud car revving… ugh.
Undermining your friends to impress girls.
Guys who try to date every woman they meet.
quoting Nietzsche on IG after a breakup, trying to rebrand themselves as a stoic
Every self loathing man that thinks self deprecating himself to get into a woman’s good graces means to hate biologically who he is and his natural urges.
One of the guy on our group is really chill when we are all together but as soon as another girl comes around he’s just too good for us and talk down about us. He acts really goofy almost like the mask. Doing weird voices and trying to show off. I don’t get it. Not once him doing that got him the girls number.
One of the guy on our group is really chill when we are all together but as soon as another girl comes around he’s just too good for us and talk down about us. He acts really goofy almost like the mask. Doing weird voices and trying to show off. I don’t get it. Not once him doing that got him the girls number.
Being the richest man in the world, but begging women through Xitter DMs to be artificially inseminated by his sperm and gestating his offspring.
When they always attack under the guise of a joke or prank, but they get bruised when someone does it back to them. If you don’t like getting punched then stop initiating the punching. They always want to come across as the toughest meanies out there but they’re so insecure about how weak they are that they can’t take it back. IDK anybody, male or female, who likes this in a guy.
Toxic masculinity in general. They need to beat things (people or objects) up, or do the most drunk risky stunts to be the life of the party. I do condone, however, a random person not in the altercation knocking out a dick who is preying on someone weaker than them.
Putting down another man in order to try and make himself look better towards another woman in the group. Theres a word for this, I forgot what it was though, happened a lot to me in middle school because I was a gamer that got a lot of girls and there would be the odd guy who couldn’t make a girl laugh so he would try and put me down for whatever reason to get her attention.
Putting down another man in order to try and make himself look better towards another woman in the group. Theres a word for this, I forgot what it was though, happened a lot to me in middle school because I was a gamer that got a lot of girls and there would be the odd guy who couldn’t make a girl laugh so he would try and put me down for whatever reason to get her attention.
Talking down to people to appear powerful
Envious but wants to know all about you!
Probably the fact that, fundamentally, we’ve revealed ourselves to be so similar in such a way
Like, historically, the attitude of men has been to disparage women and femininity as a lesser form of the human experience
Then, you get to modern days? They make more money, men hoe themselves out at least as much, if OnlyFans had a market for it, we’d be twerking in skimpy bikinis too, etc.
At the same time, women are taking more of a no-holds-barred approach to life that harkens back to masculine roles
It’s kinda humiliating but it’s to be expected. Nothing in life is more similar to men than women. And vice versa.
It kinda seems like modern life is just a massive “see? I told you so” between both genders.
Insulting others in an attempt to get laughs
Putting down other women to flirt with someone.
Being in public, not just swimming, shirtless.
When they stare fixedly at you with a fixed smile and ask nonstop questions, barely giving you time to respond before the next question comes. It’s creepy and makes me feel trapped.
Whining. Being bad at something and getting upset and blaming it on being competitive.
Constantly inserting themselves into conversations they know nothing about and trying to change the topic to what they want.
Acting too cool to be polite. We had this guy in our friends group who it was so clear he only talked to women if he thought he could sleep with them. So when he found out I was sleeping with(and now dating)another guy in our friends group and that my best friend had zero attraction to him he stopped being cordial with us. Which was fine, we didn’t love his company anyways.
Well something really funny happened in the group and ms and my best friend were talking about it and he was standing next to us, the guys in the group were smoking or something. He interrupted us talking and said “I really don’t care about any of this” and we said “that’s fine, you’re allowed to leave”. About 30 minutes later, when the guys were back they started talking about said funny thing and the guy from before asked us why we didn’t tell him about it. We told him we tried to, but he interrupted and we didn’t care to any longer.
I’m so very happy my bf has made comments that his sexism has just gotten too much and he doesn’t enjoy his company anymore cause hanging out with someone who just shows contempt unless you show an interest in his dick is miserable.
Sympathy seeking
Nip piercings
Moaning at the gym. Relax, it’s biceps not birth.
When i’m trying to get my gfs attention by farting while doing the helicopter
Lifting the bottom of your shirt so much you do it all the time unconsciously. You got abs! That’s dope. We all workout. Some of us have them too. But also, like communication skills. While sadly it does work Ina. Couple women a year, that’s about all my guys got. And about all he gets. Them m vapid hoes aren’t many.
The guys on social media who post videos of themselves over music while they are shirtless and looking at the camera all sensually. Like, hey, girl, look at me. I have muscles, and I’m kind of shy. Licks their lips and gives doe eyes to the camera. I mean, don’t get me wrong, most of them are fine as hell, but that shit is so cringe to me.
Being really loud
Being really loud
„Youre a gym girl? What do you do.. ass training ;)“ 🤮
Negging
Cologne!!!! It gives me pick me vibes
Males who act like they were born in a gym.
Rich and famous people who make a donation to a charity and have their “image makers” market the effort. Just give and shut up.
Flexing about having a car/the type of car they own.
One of my friends (a former Influencer/fitness model) talked about how a guy tried to hit on her at the gym by talking about his Car. She sad “I have a car too”.
Beardy McBeardson guys. Their entire personality revolves around their beard.
Edit: I like beards, I have one.
When they are too nonchalant. Like you’re telling me you don’t get excited about anything? Nothing is important to you? No opinions?? And you don’t say anything except “nah” and “yuh.” You don’t look as cool as you’re trying to be, everyone just thinks you have some kind of mental handicap.
Heavy grunting and over flexing etc at the gym.
You have monopolized the only cable machine for 45minutes, ogled your own biceps so much the mirror quit, yes we have allll noticed how hard you work out, now take your inside sunglasses, nipple showing tank top and cap somewhere else please.
Talking about all the women they have slept with like its a contest to make it seem as though they are desirable. IMO it just makes them look trashy and rapey as well as super insecure.
People who make their entire identity about one or 2 things.
And conforming non-conformitists. “I don’t subscribe to your societal norms! (I dogmatically conform to my subculture norms instead!)”
I’ve been talking to this girl who thinks emotions and vulnerability is the answer to this question. What do you think about that? Feels so toxic to me
Feminists and Alpha males.
Showing off the size and volume of your engine.
When they’re trying to act cool and they keep glancing to see if you’re watching lol
Sending a dick pic.
There are some men who refuse to wipe after number 2 because it’s too gay. SMH
Bragging about how much money they make or trying to buy people’s affection. They manage to work it into almost every conversation. Like I really don’t care how many designer handbags you bought your ex and I fail to see how that’s relevant.
Peacocking
Peacocking
Male here but this makes me cringe endlessly. When men change their personality and peacock in the presence of a woman. Then when the woman leaves everyone’s presence, they all change back to how they were to begin with. I see guys get super friendly with each other and act out things in order to draw attention to themselves when a woman is present. The entire dynamic changes. People who normally have nothing to do with me otherwise suddenly become my best friend for a few minutes. It’s sickening actually. Im one of the only people that i know of that doesn’t peacock or change when a woman is around. I act like they don’t even exist. But I’m also happily married and I’m always myself anyways at all times. I’m secure in myself and i think that’s one reason why i don’t act this way. But man i notice it. And it tells me alot about a person.
I see this at work all the time. I work in an alpha male dominated environment, and we rarely have women around. But when we do, people lose their minds over it. They act like best friends suddenly and start making jokes outloud to be funny and a reason to smile. It’s so over the top. It’s a black and white difference.
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Talking loudly and being obnoxious when being with friends
My classmate who gets angry at us because we didn’t say “get well soon” on him when he is sick. He told us that he broke he’s ankle but we saw him running in the fields afterwards. Attention seeker awards goes on him obviously 🙄🙄
Interrupting people or derailing conversations because he needs to be the main character in the elevator
Synthoil muscles
Looks stupid, does not actually make you strong
I go to the gym often. Every time I use the bathroom, I always hope there isn’t a dude posing in front of the mirror. Very often is that, and sometimes with their shirt off, and sometimes they take pics, and sometimes they do it in group!
I try so hard not to scoff every time I see it. And the mirror is right next to the hand dryer 😭
Negging
Skateboarding /s
Malicious damage.
Revving their car
The dad who yells his political propaganda at elementary school events
Starting a podcast where the content is about “Alpha Male” shit.
Wearing a maga hat
Taking a picture of your hand wearing a rolex on the steering wheel of a supercar. No thanks, Ill take the guy holding the fish.
Being a gym bro.
Telling you you’re not like other girls 🙄.
Having anything to do with that alpha/high value male crap.
Thinking any podcast bro is worth listening to (exception for the basement yard).
Bragging about money/being a finance bro.
Whinging about gold diggers when they have no gold to dig.
Ridiculously loud cars and music.
Playing guitar at you and/or writing you a song or poetry then reading it at you.
Mistaking controlling behaviour for protectiveness.
Being self-deprecating to fish for compliments.
Baby talk. Ever. Seriously, ever.
This one is real specific but there’s been an upturn in men reading romance/romantacy then making it their entire personalities thinking it makes them irresistible. It’s so embarrassing. See also: men who cosplay as fictional characters, specially from romance books.
Ryan Reynolds.
Any dude that asserts that he’s “an alpha”.
Shitting on others hobbies/taste in certain stuff (music, games etc etc) so they can show them “super niche” stuff (does this make sense???)
Copying someone else.
Being rude to waiters or rude to people in general