I know that sounds weird! But I promise I don’t go around hitting women. I like what I like, not sure why. If any psych students or anything know, please tell me
Tummies. I like a little belly on a guy. And on a woman, apron belly. I love mom and dad bods. Abs and flat tummies are fine but tummies are so soft and natural.
Honestly, I really like when people have a unique laugh. Like not the usual kind, but the ones that sound a bit weird or different. Idk why but it just makes them more interesting to me.
A woman that gives passionate hugs. Like when I first meet up with a woman (if we met on a dating app) and she gives good warm hugs, I’m instantly hooked. Weird, I know
Hands. I love strong hands, that some may consider “man hands.” I’ve always seen them as “artist hands.” I once dated a painter that had amazing, strong, precise hands. I’ve loved it ever since.
I actually find this more just draws me to really want to be someone’s friend, but anyone who will violently twist their hoodie drawstrings while they talk unapologetically about something they like to talk about
Potential. It’s my big abstract I look for. It’s a pretty harsh limiting factor, but there’s a certain flavor of human that feels right, like finding a sequoia sapling.
As a dude, I find it weird I’m so attracted to gay women, then kind that looks more like a dude, a tomboy…but the thing is tho, I don’t feel any kind of romantic or sexual attraction to other dudes, I actually wish I did tho my sex and love life would be way more active, even as a straight dude who doesn’t try pulling dudes for obvious reasons dudes are still easy, but just not attracted to them in that way or penises, but tomboys holy hell they’re my weakness
When they smell like they just came from their blue collar job (mechanic, oilfield, etc). In the least weird way possible, it reminds me of my dad, and I find it very comforting.
Don’t know about weird, but I love me some pragmatism in a woman. I’m a carpenter and a machine fitter so I don’t think I’m boasting if I call myself handy. But every time I start some project or other I ask my wifes opinion. She’s an engineer and albeit not having the same manual skills and abilities, she just really understands a good work process and sees shorter paths to get from an idea to a finished object.
Big noses, lazy eyes, speech impediments, I dunno why, I just find them cute. I don’t specifically look for partners with these of course, but if they do, oh man. Bonus answer, like, weirdos, people who like weird stuff, like some people might find the witchy stuff weird, or bone collectors, or people who don’t follow trends and act the way they want and don’t give a damn about trends. I love that shit sooo much.
(Edit 2hrs later) I of course do not consider any of these traits weird myself, other people do though and it is a shame. I didn’t think thoroughly originally that this comment may be hurtful or perceived the wrong way, my apologies!
Wide flat noses that look like a lions nose are my favourite, I think they’re stunning.
And I dated a guy with the most phenomenal hook nose one time. Shame he had it altered because it was gorgeous.
I love definition of Kim Ks nostrils, even if it isn’t natural.
Dislikes: round noses, bad surgery noses, weak skinny noses.
Sometimes people just have nice body features. Like they may or may not be attractive overall, but sometimes you look at someone and you’re like wow that’s an incredible neck you have there. Just really fits you. Nice neck man
Some acne looks so aesthetically pleasing like freckles from afar
Doesn’t matter who, but when I hear someone talk about something their so passionate about and excited for I get the giggles and want to hear more too— I guess it’s really not WHAT they say but HOW they say it. This isn’t weird but not really the conventional thing either
If someone’s wearing boots. Man or Woman, idc. If they’re working boots it’s better
Having some recreational license (PPL, Fishing, Motorcycle, you name it)
If you’re quiet and reserved but loud and comfy when you meet the right people with the right aura
Please don’t judge, but women with body hair with the exception of mustaches or unibrows. I don’t know why but it just makes the woman seem more “real”.
When a guy wears sandals (proper sandals, no flipflops or slides). I like feet, but specifically when a guys wears sandals, it does things to me. That’s pretty weird
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Little abnormalities and unique things on people’s faces like freckles acne scars etc
When the ears stick out a little bit from the hair
Bruises.
I know that sounds weird! But I promise I don’t go around hitting women. I like what I like, not sure why. If any psych students or anything know, please tell me
I have a feeling this thread is gonna cure my insecurities
Quiet confidence — the kind that doesn’t need a stage
Hairy kitty
When someone feels really passionate about a topic and they start to raise their voice when they talk about it
Women that aren’t loud.
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Tummies. I like a little belly on a guy. And on a woman, apron belly. I love mom and dad bods. Abs and flat tummies are fine but tummies are so soft and natural.
Turkey necks
I like it when a girl has a little bit of a buck tooth smile. Nothing over the top, but just a little bit.
Honestly, I really like when people have a unique laugh. Like not the usual kind, but the ones that sound a bit weird or different. Idk why but it just makes them more interesting to me.
Large, spidery hands with long, skinny fingers. I love a nice pair of hands.
Police men on duty just policing 🥰
Hands, arms, and necks!
Girls with shaved heads
Teeth. Especially a snaggle tooth or a front tooth gap or buck teeth. It gives their smile so much character.
Treasure/Happy Trail 😅
A woman that gives passionate hugs. Like when I first meet up with a woman (if we met on a dating app) and she gives good warm hugs, I’m instantly hooked. Weird, I know
hand veins, collarbones, hairy arms
Hands. I love strong hands, that some may consider “man hands.” I’ve always seen them as “artist hands.” I once dated a painter that had amazing, strong, precise hands. I’ve loved it ever since.
I don’t think this is weird, but a guy who can be authentic with his goofiness. Makes me feel like I’m not alone in my quirky habits 🙂
Voices: a little deep and kind of gravely/growly. It vibrates through me, huge turn on.
Jawlines: angular and strong. A soft face seems child like to me.
Crows feet: I like those laugh lines.
A little bit a grey in the hair.
I actually find this more just draws me to really want to be someone’s friend, but anyone who will violently twist their hoodie drawstrings while they talk unapologetically about something they like to talk about
Quirkiness.
Rosacea
Scars. It makes people so much more interesting and it adds character.
Slightly crooked teeth
Elbows
My wife. She’s weird as hell, but i love her
Women’s armpits, smooth ones
Girls who can make you laugh
My earbuds have this Japanese lady who says “Your headset is connected”. She’s hot.
People who don’t shut up about politics.
My ex
Women with a prominent vein running down their forehead (see Angelina Jolie)
bad tattoos they regret but are too small/hidden to really care about
Big hand and long fingers on men.
If I don’t like your hands, there is no future for a relationship
Red hair! I love me a ginger!
Potential. It’s my big abstract I look for. It’s a pretty harsh limiting factor, but there’s a certain flavor of human that feels right, like finding a sequoia sapling.
Toe knuckles
Slightly strabismus 😞
As a dude, I find it weird I’m so attracted to gay women, then kind that looks more like a dude, a tomboy…but the thing is tho, I don’t feel any kind of romantic or sexual attraction to other dudes, I actually wish I did tho my sex and love life would be way more active, even as a straight dude who doesn’t try pulling dudes for obvious reasons dudes are still easy, but just not attracted to them in that way or penises, but tomboys holy hell they’re my weakness
Veins on the hands and feet
Blinking a lot or stuttering when talking
an introvert nerd. 🤭
A man that can fix/build things.
back dimples and abs but the exact lowest part
When they smell like they just came from their blue collar job (mechanic, oilfield, etc). In the least weird way possible, it reminds me of my dad, and I find it very comforting.
Guys with a foot fetish 😏😏
Decipline
I guess you are attracted to something you lack
Annihilating all competition in trivia games.
Ginger dudes, idk why
If a guy can pull off a nice firefighter stache. Oof
Lisps.. I think they’re cute lol
Tall shy awkward nerds.
Noses
Ankles
Don’t know about weird, but I love me some pragmatism in a woman. I’m a carpenter and a machine fitter so I don’t think I’m boasting if I call myself handy. But every time I start some project or other I ask my wifes opinion. She’s an engineer and albeit not having the same manual skills and abilities, she just really understands a good work process and sees shorter paths to get from an idea to a finished object.
My wife is the weirdest and I’m crazy attracted to that weirdo.
Calf muscles
Big noses, lazy eyes, speech impediments, I dunno why, I just find them cute. I don’t specifically look for partners with these of course, but if they do, oh man. Bonus answer, like, weirdos, people who like weird stuff, like some people might find the witchy stuff weird, or bone collectors, or people who don’t follow trends and act the way they want and don’t give a damn about trends. I love that shit sooo much.
(Edit 2hrs later) I of course do not consider any of these traits weird myself, other people do though and it is a shame. I didn’t think thoroughly originally that this comment may be hurtful or perceived the wrong way, my apologies!
Hairy wrists
I love a large nose, I think they add a lot of character to a face
Non-verbal communication, like body language, gestures, facial expressions.
a person that writes poems
Noses.
I love a well designed strong shnoz.
Wide flat noses that look like a lions nose are my favourite, I think they’re stunning.
And I dated a guy with the most phenomenal hook nose one time. Shame he had it altered because it was gorgeous.
I love definition of Kim Ks nostrils, even if it isn’t natural.
Dislikes: round noses, bad surgery noses, weak skinny noses.
Noses. I think it gives character or when guys have a pretty full thick eyebrows.
Sometimes people just have nice body features. Like they may or may not be attractive overall, but sometimes you look at someone and you’re like wow that’s an incredible neck you have there. Just really fits you. Nice neck man
Some acne looks so aesthetically pleasing like freckles from afar
Doesn’t matter who, but when I hear someone talk about something their so passionate about and excited for I get the giggles and want to hear more too— I guess it’s really not WHAT they say but HOW they say it. This isn’t weird but not really the conventional thing either
If someone’s wearing boots. Man or Woman, idc. If they’re working boots it’s better
Having some recreational license (PPL, Fishing, Motorcycle, you name it)
If you’re quiet and reserved but loud and comfy when you meet the right people with the right aura
Cruelty and dishonesty
Big hands
Penny stock’s
Confident bug women. My wife is one and it’s incredible
A female that has a long aesthetically pleasing neck or aesthetically pleasing hands 🥰
Hipbones! I love hipbones. Also collarbones. Bony wrists. Just… bony men in general.
Nose rings!
Ears. I don’t know why but the ear lobes 🤤🤤 love nibbling on them 😌 i know im weird, sorry.
Women who are lefthanded like I am.
Long sleeve t shirts on a dude
Stinky armpits…..
Hairy private area ( seems people overwhelmingly like shaved)
Acne + pale skin combo
Women who are into alternative topics like the paranormal, geek culture, etc.
I like a strong unibrow on a man.
Please don’t judge, but women with body hair with the exception of mustaches or unibrows. I don’t know why but it just makes the woman seem more “real”.
Odd humor, people who wear grungy clothes with holes in them 🤣
Wrinkly feet🤷♂️
dark under eyes and messy hair
Driving.. when I see my other half drive I find it sooooo sexy! lol
I love a strong nose…
Dad bod
Watching my boyfriend eat a sandwich.
Large Roman noses
Sapiosexual – highly intelligent men.
My husbands body odour. Catch me huffing that pit.
When a guy wears sandals (proper sandals, no flipflops or slides). I like feet, but specifically when a guys wears sandals, it does things to me. That’s pretty weird
Effort. I classify it as “weird” bc it’s seems very scarce and unique atp
Men with large noses 👃
I’m a sucker for a girl with dimples.
Cute noses