Probably just “you’re an asshole” or “you’re awful”. Nothing that seems too bad when you aren’t actually experiencing the argument. But, in the moment, when it’s actually being said to you, it stings. Of course, what she means is “you’re being an asshole”/”you’re being awful”. I don’t take it too hard because people say such things when they are really pissed off.
Not me but my friend said his wife told him he had a small dick and that’s why she didn’t want to have sex anymore…like what the fuck is wrong with some people
“If you __ again I’m going to leave you”. Hasn’t said this since I started giving her physical touch and quit criticizing her directly. I’ve gone indirect by asking questions and she actually listens! It’s amazing how some small differences can drastically change things.
We’ve never said anything to each other we can’t take back, which I guess is a sign we’re in a healthy relationship. Not to say we haven’t had some good yelling matches, doors slamming, and people leaving the room, but we always talk it through.
About a week prior, my childhood dog passed away. I was more hurt by her in that moment than any other time.
It was a poor turn of phrase in the moment, she saw how badly it hurt me, and immediately pulled me into a hug and apologized. Fight ended right there and she’s NEVER said anything like that since.
She got mad at me and told her whole family (parents and grandparents, sister and her family) that I just watch porn every night. We were out of town and staying at her sister’s, so I had nowhere to go, I just went to the room we were staying in. Her dad comes in about 5 minutes later and says “you know you have to delete your history, right.”
I can’t believe I’ve married my stepdad. He was a fat lazy piece of shit who just leeched off my mom and I didn’t want to believe that you were like that but holy shit! I can’t believe I was so dumb.
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I don’t think it was during a big argument, but my ex-wife said something like “my dad said I shouldn’t have married you.”
A big reason why I choose to stay with someone is because we pretty much never fight.
Probably just “you’re an asshole” or “you’re awful”. Nothing that seems too bad when you aren’t actually experiencing the argument. But, in the moment, when it’s actually being said to you, it stings. Of course, what she means is “you’re being an asshole”/”you’re being awful”. I don’t take it too hard because people say such things when they are really pissed off.
Not me but my friend said his wife told him he had a small dick and that’s why she didn’t want to have sex anymore…like what the fuck is wrong with some people
“If you __ again I’m going to leave you”. Hasn’t said this since I started giving her physical touch and quit criticizing her directly. I’ve gone indirect by asking questions and she actually listens! It’s amazing how some small differences can drastically change things.
I think I married the wrong one.
We’ve never said anything to each other we can’t take back, which I guess is a sign we’re in a healthy relationship. Not to say we haven’t had some good yelling matches, doors slamming, and people leaving the room, but we always talk it through.
“You act like I just killed your dog!”
About a week prior, my childhood dog passed away. I was more hurt by her in that moment than any other time.
It was a poor turn of phrase in the moment, she saw how badly it hurt me, and immediately pulled me into a hug and apologized. Fight ended right there and she’s NEVER said anything like that since.
She got mad at me and told her whole family (parents and grandparents, sister and her family) that I just watch porn every night. We were out of town and staying at her sister’s, so I had nowhere to go, I just went to the room we were staying in. Her dad comes in about 5 minutes later and says “you know you have to delete your history, right.”
I can’t believe I’ve married my stepdad. He was a fat lazy piece of shit who just leeched off my mom and I didn’t want to believe that you were like that but holy shit! I can’t believe I was so dumb.
She called me a bad husband (and other variations with more aggressive language) back when I was a model partner, liberal, empathetic beta male.
I got my asshole on and it saved our relationship.
Obviously I say this in jest but it’s more or less true. Married 13 years.
She should have married a millionaire…🤬
My now ex-wife said “why can’t you be the man I saw in you.”
Why can’t you accept the man who supported you for almost 20 years when you never held any job longer then a year…for the whole 3 times?