When people close to you don’t respond at all when you do something upsetting or not okay. It implies they have taken distance from you as a person and is the last stage after they have given up on expecting things from you
I’m not sure what’s a good word for it but just resignation.
That feeling of not hating the other person, not feeling sad, just not feeling anything . Your soul and being have completely given up on them and you can’t even bring yourself to be upset. You just feel, nothing
A full on threat, I preferred the disappointment rout back in the day cuz it would make me want to change myself, but the fear of being beaten half to death and being left out in the cold was way more potent. That’s just going off emotions though, I’d feel so much hate and just stand over my mom as she slept contemplating killing her since she abused me and I didn’t want my sister to get abused too.
I chose the better path though, why give her the satisfaction? But even that path was not the way, killing myself gave her a cushy life down in hell.
Now the worst thing that can happen to me is my loved ones dying because it means I did something wrong
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I’m angry.
“i’m not upset because I didn’t expect anything more from you”
“I’m both angry and very disappointed.”
Saying “I was raised better than that” when replying to my father’s conservative BS.
The look. It haunts me. It’s been three years and I still can see it.
Silence is the worst of all
“Yeah, of course you would fuck up”
“I’m done with you” – walks away
“It’s my fault for not drinking enough folic acid during your pregnancy.”
I give up on you – dad.
It is impossible to underestimate you.
“I’m angry and I’m going to kill you and your dog”
Gross.
Silence.
Facepalm
“I love you, but I don’t like you right now.”
I love you, but I just don’t like you at this moment
“it was a failed experiment, child-rearing” -my dad, completely unprovoked during a ride to the dentist
“I’m not angry, I don’t care about you one way or the other.”
When people close to you don’t respond at all when you do something upsetting or not okay. It implies they have taken distance from you as a person and is the last stage after they have given up on expecting things from you
I expected nothing and I was still let down
I don’t care x
“I’m angry and very disappointed.”
I should have swallowed instead.
“I am angry.”
“It’s fine”
“That hurts my feelings :(”
Always catches people off guard and makes them feel much worse about their actions. Crying is good too
Trust between us is broken, and I don’t think I want to fix it now.
The court finds you guilty and sentences you to …
Abusive anger is worse
My Mom used to use: ” I’m just not sure where I went wrong that you feel this is ok.”
“Well, can’t say I’m disappointed.”
The silent treatment
I’m done.
I’m not sure what’s a good word for it but just resignation.
That feeling of not hating the other person, not feeling sad, just not feeling anything . Your soul and being have completely given up on them and you can’t even bring yourself to be upset. You just feel, nothing
A parents silence
I’m not angry. I don’t care anymore.
You’re not being the person Mr. Rogers knew you could be.
“”I’m not angry. I’m just very disappointed.”?”
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I blame you 15%, and myself 30%. So I blame myself twice as much as I blame you.
The remaining 55% is some combination of biology and feminism.
I expected more from you.
I can depend on you being undependable, so I planned ahead for this.
“I’m not just disappointed. I’m angry.”
“My days of not taking you seriously are certainly coming to a middle.”
Don’t be sorry. Be better
A full on threat, I preferred the disappointment rout back in the day cuz it would make me want to change myself, but the fear of being beaten half to death and being left out in the cold was way more potent. That’s just going off emotions though, I’d feel so much hate and just stand over my mom as she slept contemplating killing her since she abused me and I didn’t want my sister to get abused too.
I chose the better path though, why give her the satisfaction? But even that path was not the way, killing myself gave her a cushy life down in hell.
Now the worst thing that can happen to me is my loved ones dying because it means I did something wrong