Now it’s my car that broke down last weekend while I was traveling. I don’t have money, so I had to leave it in a town in the countryside. I’m really upset…
Deep dissatisfaction with the capitalist model that requires 99% of us to slave away at meaningless jobs to afford to live in the world we had no say in creating. I mean, the medical advances are fantastic, but I’d much rather be living in a hut and foraging to get by if I had the choice.
30 years of depression and anxiety have caused me to pretty much hate everyday. My daughter is my only saving grace. If I didn’t have her in my life, I’d probably just disappear forever.
I decided to go for a run 12 years ago. An intoxicated driver put me into an 11.5 day coma in the ICU. Traumatic Brain injury, broken sternum, skull, shoulder, etc. I haven’t been able to taste or smell a thing in 12+ yrs. Kinda messed up the whole momentum of my life up until that point as well as causing new, additional stress & heartache.
I discovered music composition therapy while in recovery though. I gave many years to writing music since. If you’re interested, the album 9fm, by artist 9fm is the music that I made during recovery. Silver lining, I guess.
My #1 problem in life is that I was born with a body that requires 8 hours of sleep, 3 meals a day, emotional support, exercise, hydration, and a will to live… and I can only commit to maybe 1 of those on a good day.
I would say there is a filter to your number on issues. If you issues start at tier 1 all other problems below it won’t matter, same with 2 or 3.
1 – Health, if you’re unhealthy or injured this will always be your number one issue, as you can’t escape it.
2 – Finances, if you can’t pay your bills it’s incredibly overwhelming and will be a focal point.
3 – Relationships, spouses, friends, family, etc, doesn’t really matter a negative relationship will ruin your day to day especially if you care for them.
4 – Time, this would be being tired, not able to do something you love, maybe kids get in the way or work, etc etc.
My family (Just so we’re clear, I can’t leave them. If I mess up, I could literally get killed. And if I actually pull it off, they’ll ruin my sisters’ lives out of spite. I live somewhere where girls don’t get any real protection from the system — and I’m not just guessing, I studied law. I know how this sh*t works.)
My sickly shyness.
That’s my biggest problem and the most worrying thing about it is that I don’t really know how I will resolve this huge deal.
I have other problems too : my sleep is not good, my diet is very random, and I don’t do enough exercise.
But for each of these, I precisely know what I have to do to solve them. So that’s good.
I get so nervous on dates that I almost become a different version of myself. No matter how much work I do on myself, my career, etc. I can’t shake feelings of unworthiness. It has made me so lonely.
It’s not the money. It’s not the worsening state of the economy and world in general. It’s not the spinal injury. Hell, it’s not even the seven disabilities (genetic and acquired) from about the waist-down.
My brain’s wiring is fucky. Full stop. I’ve spent over half my life dealing with chronic suicidality and who the fuck knows what else.
Trying to find out what career I want for myself and actually do all the work needed omggg, and trying to forget about someone I loved so much that betrayed me so much, but I still love him somehow
I feel like I have too many people depending on me, money is alright but I’m trying to save more for retirement and time. Time I feel like is in many ways not my own.
Mine is probably not nearly as bad as others but I’m still trying to accept that my estranged narcissistic mother may never change. She ghosted me and it’s been hard.
That I set the bar to high early in life to the point where I’m not an individual, just a caricature of the person everyone expects me to be. Faking through the motions of responsibility when all I really want is to not be needed by anyone for long enough to remember who I am.
Right now? Probably the fact I was muted and temporarily banned from my was-favorite subreddit for using ‘I’ statements. Personal experiences? Big no-no. What a life.
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I am so chronically tired it’s hard to get anything done.
I’m hungry.
Mine is finding balance between everything school, work, and personal time is my biggest challenge
Keep logging onto reddit
Anxiety and trauma
Finding enough hours to watch all the Netflix shows I want.
Money. Always money.
Not stopping hanging around people who make me feel depressed and contribute to more trauma😀
I got 99 problems.
Debt, and living from paycheque to paycheque
stupid people
My head
Chronic anxiety. It’s killing me.
MAGA pricks
Property Taxes
Too soon old, too late smart.
Chronic pain. It casts a pall on everything.
the fact that I need to work a 9-5 to survive. Work takes up so much of our time that we don’t have any time left to enjoy life.
My own ignorance/pride
Being surrounded by toxic roommates.
Health
Mental health stuff and the way i cope with jt
Poor and tired
Being disciplined for a while and then falling back into old habits.
People.
Just never having the motivation to want to do better
Full time job with a kid. How do people do this?
Me
Now it’s my car that broke down last weekend while I was traveling. I don’t have money, so I had to leave it in a town in the countryside. I’m really upset…
Deep dissatisfaction with the capitalist model that requires 99% of us to slave away at meaningless jobs to afford to live in the world we had no say in creating. I mean, the medical advances are fantastic, but I’d much rather be living in a hut and foraging to get by if I had the choice.
I am really bat at it
Depression!
insomnia
Finances. Or more precisely, the lack thereof.
Time
Low self-esteem. I feel invisible unless I reach my fitness goals.
procrastinating <:(
Myself. I can do better financially in life (getting by now) but I really am not motivated to do so.
Siblings
My brain
Chronic back pain from a traffic injury
Getting a house
Not enough time
My life.
Finding meaning in life.
Loneliness
Lack of money
Loneliness. Still haven’t found my future husband.
30 years of depression and anxiety have caused me to pretty much hate everyday. My daughter is my only saving grace. If I didn’t have her in my life, I’d probably just disappear forever.
What to have for dinner tonight…every night
I financial step forward, 10 steps back
Phone addiction and the feeling like the entire world is all bullshit. Everything online is one outrage after another. Its exhausting
Traumatizing childhood still fueling my anxiety and telling me I’m not doing enough.
Trying to do everything at once and then wondering why I’m exhausted.
crippling debt
Myself
Getting 8 hours of sleep without the world falling apart in the meantime.
I decided to go for a run 12 years ago. An intoxicated driver put me into an 11.5 day coma in the ICU. Traumatic Brain injury, broken sternum, skull, shoulder, etc. I haven’t been able to taste or smell a thing in 12+ yrs. Kinda messed up the whole momentum of my life up until that point as well as causing new, additional stress & heartache.
I discovered music composition therapy while in recovery though. I gave many years to writing music since. If you’re interested, the album 9fm, by artist 9fm is the music that I made during recovery. Silver lining, I guess.
It used to be Mother in law. Husband and I have gone no contact and it’s been peaceful since🤣
I’m a natural born hater, pain is laughter, and I don’t have laser vision.
Lack of nudes in my inbox. Oh, and I’m out of Doritos.
you
Comparing myself to others and as a result, engaging in negative self-talk.
puffy nipples(not sure if it’s gyno or what),not full man boobs.
My #1 problem in life is that I was born with a body that requires 8 hours of sleep, 3 meals a day, emotional support, exercise, hydration, and a will to live… and I can only commit to maybe 1 of those on a good day.
I don’t have enough money to live
Que no soy millonario
Money. Living paycheck to paycheck.
Anxiety
Time. I wish I had more time in the day.
trump
I would say there is a filter to your number on issues. If you issues start at tier 1 all other problems below it won’t matter, same with 2 or 3.
1 – Health, if you’re unhealthy or injured this will always be your number one issue, as you can’t escape it.
2 – Finances, if you can’t pay your bills it’s incredibly overwhelming and will be a focal point.
3 – Relationships, spouses, friends, family, etc, doesn’t really matter a negative relationship will ruin your day to day especially if you care for them.
4 – Time, this would be being tired, not able to do something you love, maybe kids get in the way or work, etc etc.
If you’re lucky you only have tier 4 issues.
I keep disappointing and losing people.
Tinnitus anxiety existential dread
My family (Just so we’re clear, I can’t leave them. If I mess up, I could literally get killed. And if I actually pull it off, they’ll ruin my sisters’ lives out of spite. I live somewhere where girls don’t get any real protection from the system — and I’m not just guessing, I studied law. I know how this sh*t works.)
I’m addicted to nicotine.
My sickly shyness.
That’s my biggest problem and the most worrying thing about it is that I don’t really know how I will resolve this huge deal.
I have other problems too : my sleep is not good, my diet is very random, and I don’t do enough exercise.
But for each of these, I precisely know what I have to do to solve them. So that’s good.
Capitalism
Pain
Loneliness
Lack of sleep and people’s general lack of consistency and follow through on there word
Not enough time.
Money. Or lack thereof.
I don’t know how to afford life on 19000 a year.
Myself
Not knowing what I want.
My severe ocd
Not enough money and not enough cute clothes 😮💨. Im lucky those are my issues, Im not complaining
I get so nervous on dates that I almost become a different version of myself. No matter how much work I do on myself, my career, etc. I can’t shake feelings of unworthiness. It has made me so lonely.
It’s not the money. It’s not the worsening state of the economy and world in general. It’s not the spinal injury. Hell, it’s not even the seven disabilities (genetic and acquired) from about the waist-down.
My brain’s wiring is fucky. Full stop. I’ve spent over half my life dealing with chronic suicidality and who the fuck knows what else.
I am le tired.
Myself haha
My brain is broken and it makes everything harder than it needs to be
Not getting pregnant
my people
My mind
My partner not pulling his weight around the house. My mental load would be halved and I would be less stressed if I just had some more support.
My mouth, it’s always getting me in trouble
not having enough money
Overthinking everything, even the stuff I already decided on. It’s like my brain just refuses to chill.
Understanding who I am
My career, it not only drains me but also destroys my health. I wish I had enough money to not work due to my health and disability.
Money….
My mind
complex regional pain syndrome aka the suicide disease
Me.
Trying to find out what career I want for myself and actually do all the work needed omggg, and trying to forget about someone I loved so much that betrayed me so much, but I still love him somehow
Depression, fatigue, not having passion for anything, all i do is work and sleep and maybe game if i have the energy to do even that.
My mouth.
Work. I want to work again. I’ve got a plan and working towards it but kind of chomping at the bit 😉 Just kinda want to get stuck in already 🥰
Focus. Or rather. An inability to maintain it, at all.
Google Zen Macrobiotics by George Ohsawa
🙏 ☯️
Not having enough money for sure
Money
I feel like I have too many people depending on me, money is alright but I’m trying to save more for retirement and time. Time I feel like is in many ways not my own.
PCOS. It has messed me up physically and mentally. We’ve been trying to get pregnant for 10 years to no avail.
I have no a life
I need a heart transplant.
Lack of self esteem
Mental illness and what it did to my family.
I’m really bad at socialising. Can’t talk well unless it’s about something I’m interested in.
I’m utterly burnt out on everything and so, so many years away from retiring.
Mine is probably not nearly as bad as others but I’m still trying to accept that my estranged narcissistic mother may never change. She ghosted me and it’s been hard.
Money, anxiety from not having just a little more money
That I set the bar to high early in life to the point where I’m not an individual, just a caricature of the person everyone expects me to be. Faking through the motions of responsibility when all I really want is to not be needed by anyone for long enough to remember who I am.
I can’t find my cat
Not finding the right woman for my life.
The feeling of being unloved drives me crazy every day, life is sad.
weed🍃
Money
I blame society.
loneliness.
Loneliness.
Life
My brain
Insecurities
So many insecurities
Loneliness
My brain
Procrastination— root of all failures and disappointments I have.
Lonely. Just want someone to come home to.
Money and the lack of it.
Hormones!!!!! Jesus tap dancing Christ. 47 is no joke as a female. Be kind, throw chocolate from a safe distance and run fast!
I live in an emotionally abusive relationship.
Very tired of everything
Right now? Probably the fact I was muted and temporarily banned from my was-favorite subreddit for using ‘I’ statements. Personal experiences? Big no-no. What a life.
Chronics deseases and quality of public health services in my country🫠
Becoming aware of the way that the world works. It’s best not to know
Executive function.
gestures vaguely at everything
Money, like most others I’m guessing
Money and loneliness due to lack of friends.
Caring too much about things I can’t control.
OCD, trauma, and lonliness
Depression.
Debt, fatigue
My life itself
Chronic fatigue syndrome, I am so exhausted just being awake is hard work
Money