Because I try to be a good man to the women I get with and it always ends up in “You’re too good of a guy, you deserve better” then they go back to their fucking shitty abusive ex.
Being surrounded with toxic relationships that my parents had made me not want a partner and made me a bit of a control freak and I wouldn’t want to hurt someone accidentally with that controlling.
The problem with being single for too long is you start to enjoy it. (Which I am at that level) I can’t justify why would I share my wealth with somebody because they have a heart beat.
I was sick and a mess in my younger years so I isolated myself from everybody. As a result there was zero opportunity to meet anyone, and even if I had met anyone I wasn’t in any position to be in a relationship.
Now I’m healthy and dealt with my shit, but at this age around 3/4 of women are married, and many of those who aren’t have children – which I don’t want kids.
So the biggest reason I’m single is because I wasn’t ready for relationships when I was young enough to easily find a partner.
To lazy to go to social events or any occasion where I meet women. When your life consists of work at school, gym, and going to the stadium, you’re not gonna meet a lot of women
I’m educated, financially secure, gainfully employed, physically active, well liked by most people I meet, respectful to others, and regularly out of the house trying new things and exploring new places.
But I’m kind of socially awkward, and as far as women are concerned, that undoes every single good quality I have.
The woman who brought me into this world abused the shit out of me and now I am supposed to trust a woman?
I’m seeing a girl right now, and I’d fucking love to be able to trust her. She has done absolutely nothing to warrant a lack of trust. But, I don’t trust her.
I stopped caring. I’ve gone on multiple dates in the past few years I’ve been single. All nice attractive girls that I’m sure would make great partners but as of right now I’m just not about that life and honestly really not much of a relationship guy. I just like doing my own thing, on my own time, on my own.
It’s probably a combination of things. I’m good looking, am fit, average to below average height, and have a really prestigious job.
It’s probably because of the type of women i am interested in. The women I am interested in are usually very physically attractive but, perhaps as a result, act entitled to special treatment because of it, which is a turn off since I come from very humble roots (I was food insecure as a child). And those are the ones that even consider me since I am under 6 feet tall. That and I don’t want to date a single mother.
A few reasons. I’m not that attractive so I don’t get much attention to start beyond basic politeness. Hard to flirt if you’re pretty much ignored.
And a bit bigger reason is my own hang ups. And not about my looks. I struggle to open up simply because I’ve been hurt too many times, I suck at texting and talking until I’m comfortable, I know I’m not an interesting person anymore. The list goes on and on. And it’s not conducive to a healthy relationship to have these hangups to begin with. Therapy helped, but it’s only helped me just be normal around women. I basically give off the “I’m your older brother, so you can always talk to me!” Vibes now and not seen beyond that. It’s kind of my lot in life I suppose. At least I can support my friends better even if I’m probably not finding anyone. It’s got a silver lining
I’m a handsome man I do get looks my way, I got a lot of things going for me career wise, I make a genuinely good boyfriend judging by the past women I dated. But, I just don’t approach. Not because of confidence issues necessarily but, because I assume every girl will leave me eventually so why even try? I need to see something that makes me think she is worth it and looks aren’t enough
Some guys are happy chasing everything that moves im not.
If I sleep with her and she leaves I feel that’s a loss not a win
Because after experiencing and exploring dating and folks, most are so lame and without real self knowledge and experiences.
When you are well traveled, full of life and self sufficient your own company is more than enough without wasting time and energy on wasted folks whatever cute or sexy they can be, lack of dept is the real problem.
Because I wanted the last one and didn’t handle things how I should have and know that she deserved better than that. so if I can’t fix and correct it, then I’m not ready and have more work to do so I don’t hurt someone else.
Because of a brain tumour, and i have to do weird shit to rehabilitate and the ‘normal’ shit people do, I do a bit different.
I somehow got one female friend who I’m close with, and there’s no attraction there, and she says I’m putting way too much pressure on myself, but I’m literally just talking to people and if I’m attracted to a woman then I go for it.
I’m 6’2 in shape decent looking, have my own place, earn six figures, have a bunch of hobbies and speak multiple languages and even I find dating rough. I’ve been on two dates in 2 years.
The biggest reason might be I don’t have a large social circle. If you’re reliant on dating apps or approaching women it’s an uphill struggle.
I’m not happy with my body or financial status yet. I’m a college student with no real stable job but I get by. I think I’m too mediocre to entertain the idea of talking to a girl. As for the second factor of my body, I keep saying when I’m happier with my frame I’ll likely get my game up, I probably can considering my facial features aren’t cracked but I can’t shake off the mediocrity I have in my self validation in getting with a women.
TLDR: I want to offer the best me before I give myself to someone that isn’t a one night stand as I think that’s the least they deserve from me. Internet psychologist I’m all ears if I’m right to do this or ease up or I can elaborate further.
i genuinely don’t want to be in a relationship. i like my freedom and the expectations that are held on me in a relationship make me feel trapped. i just prefer it alone. although i will say there are perks that i do miss sometimes.
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I’m the table.
Everyone around me wants a serious relationship not because they are ready, but because their friends are “taking the next step”
The more I think about that, the more I realize that I enjoy my own company a lot more and haven’t found someone who amplifies this experience
given up.
Because women are emotional irrational sensitive monsters that I just do not want to deal with. My life is so peaceful being single.
personality.
Because I try to be a good man to the women I get with and it always ends up in “You’re too good of a guy, you deserve better” then they go back to their fucking shitty abusive ex.
Being surrounded with toxic relationships that my parents had made me not want a partner and made me a bit of a control freak and I wouldn’t want to hurt someone accidentally with that controlling.
CBA.
Waiting for that one girl
I just struggle with confidence, I worry that I’m uninteresting, I’m working on it.
Oh, I also dislike the dating experience at early stage.
Not handsome enough to just get by with just that, too lazy to compensate with personality.
Because I choose to be single.
The problem with being single for too long is you start to enjoy it. (Which I am at that level) I can’t justify why would I share my wealth with somebody because they have a heart beat.
I’m not ambitious and tall.
I’m weird
It saves not just money but more importantly mental health. No nagging, comparing, fights etc
Milti nhi
Disabled and broke
I was sick and a mess in my younger years so I isolated myself from everybody. As a result there was zero opportunity to meet anyone, and even if I had met anyone I wasn’t in any position to be in a relationship.
Now I’m healthy and dealt with my shit, but at this age around 3/4 of women are married, and many of those who aren’t have children – which I don’t want kids.
So the biggest reason I’m single is because I wasn’t ready for relationships when I was young enough to easily find a partner.
To lazy to go to social events or any occasion where I meet women. When your life consists of work at school, gym, and going to the stadium, you’re not gonna meet a lot of women
Hope died.
I hate being around people.
I’m educated, financially secure, gainfully employed, physically active, well liked by most people I meet, respectful to others, and regularly out of the house trying new things and exploring new places.
But I’m kind of socially awkward, and as far as women are concerned, that undoes every single good quality I have.
Broken heart. Enjoying the moments and myself as a priority
The woman who brought me into this world abused the shit out of me and now I am supposed to trust a woman?
I’m seeing a girl right now, and I’d fucking love to be able to trust her. She has done absolutely nothing to warrant a lack of trust. But, I don’t trust her.
constant rejection can even get a first date.nobody prepares you for how much rejection you have to endure as a man.
I stopped caring. I’ve gone on multiple dates in the past few years I’ve been single. All nice attractive girls that I’m sure would make great partners but as of right now I’m just not about that life and honestly really not much of a relationship guy. I just like doing my own thing, on my own time, on my own.
Not finding the right person and not being able to find new people
Never been interested
A certain idea of freedom. Unfortunately, we can quickly fall in love and question this ideology. Or fortunately?
No one wants me.
It’s probably a combination of things. I’m good looking, am fit, average to below average height, and have a really prestigious job.
It’s probably because of the type of women i am interested in. The women I am interested in are usually very physically attractive but, perhaps as a result, act entitled to special treatment because of it, which is a turn off since I come from very humble roots (I was food insecure as a child). And those are the ones that even consider me since I am under 6 feet tall. That and I don’t want to date a single mother.
I really don’t want a partner. Still stomaching the last one and won’t waste someone’s time by being my rebound.
I don’t compromise.
I was born with the ’tism, like my father before me, and his father before him. The difference with then is that a woman chose them.
I haven’t tried to actually date someone.
A few reasons. I’m not that attractive so I don’t get much attention to start beyond basic politeness. Hard to flirt if you’re pretty much ignored.
And a bit bigger reason is my own hang ups. And not about my looks. I struggle to open up simply because I’ve been hurt too many times, I suck at texting and talking until I’m comfortable, I know I’m not an interesting person anymore. The list goes on and on. And it’s not conducive to a healthy relationship to have these hangups to begin with. Therapy helped, but it’s only helped me just be normal around women. I basically give off the “I’m your older brother, so you can always talk to me!” Vibes now and not seen beyond that. It’s kind of my lot in life I suppose. At least I can support my friends better even if I’m probably not finding anyone. It’s got a silver lining
I cannot subject a woman to a world where she cannot benefit.
I’m happy.
Choice ko.
It’s draining, suffocating and at the end mag hihiwalay lang din
I’m depressed, socially inept and boring. Got the personality of a cardboard.
It’s a choice.
Other people’s choice. 😅
I don’t approach.
I’m a handsome man I do get looks my way, I got a lot of things going for me career wise, I make a genuinely good boyfriend judging by the past women I dated. But, I just don’t approach. Not because of confidence issues necessarily but, because I assume every girl will leave me eventually so why even try? I need to see something that makes me think she is worth it and looks aren’t enough
Some guys are happy chasing everything that moves im not.
If I sleep with her and she leaves I feel that’s a loss not a win
I don’t like spending every bit of my free time impressing someone who might not even be with me after a few days/month
No interest from women
I honestly don’t even try though but yeah I might as well be invisible (28M)
Because after experiencing and exploring dating and folks, most are so lame and without real self knowledge and experiences.
When you are well traveled, full of life and self sufficient your own company is more than enough without wasting time and energy on wasted folks whatever cute or sexy they can be, lack of dept is the real problem.
My ex wife managed to chase my fiancé away.
Don’t put myself out there.
Because I wanted the last one and didn’t handle things how I should have and know that she deserved better than that. so if I can’t fix and correct it, then I’m not ready and have more work to do so I don’t hurt someone else.
I’m the dirt they walk on
Because of a brain tumour, and i have to do weird shit to rehabilitate and the ‘normal’ shit people do, I do a bit different.
I somehow got one female friend who I’m close with, and there’s no attraction there, and she says I’m putting way too much pressure on myself, but I’m literally just talking to people and if I’m attracted to a woman then I go for it.
I’m 6’2 in shape decent looking, have my own place, earn six figures, have a bunch of hobbies and speak multiple languages and even I find dating rough. I’ve been on two dates in 2 years.
The biggest reason might be I don’t have a large social circle. If you’re reliant on dating apps or approaching women it’s an uphill struggle.
I’m not happy with my body or financial status yet. I’m a college student with no real stable job but I get by. I think I’m too mediocre to entertain the idea of talking to a girl. As for the second factor of my body, I keep saying when I’m happier with my frame I’ll likely get my game up, I probably can considering my facial features aren’t cracked but I can’t shake off the mediocrity I have in my self validation in getting with a women.
TLDR: I want to offer the best me before I give myself to someone that isn’t a one night stand as I think that’s the least they deserve from me. Internet psychologist I’m all ears if I’m right to do this or ease up or I can elaborate further.
Got my own shit going on and a relationship disrupts that no matter how good.
i genuinely don’t want to be in a relationship. i like my freedom and the expectations that are held on me in a relationship make me feel trapped. i just prefer it alone. although i will say there are perks that i do miss sometimes.
Met a girl I could’ve spent my life with, then my visa expired and long distance doesn’t work, so I’m still getting over that