When did you realize you were married to an emotionally unavailable individual?

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If not, do you consider it a hindrance?

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  1. chandbibi Avatar

    When I was going through an incredibly stressful experience and instead of holding me and reassuring me he said nothing. He supported me in other ways but he doesn’t meet my emotional needs.

  2. leogrr44 Avatar

    A few years in. My empathy for his past trauma kept me in denial for a while and then the feelings of being emotionally starved overtook the denial. I love him and he is a good person but it’s very hard