So I have a third date tomorrow with this girl from work. She initially told me she wants us to take things slow which makes sense to me. But I am inexperienced and my fear is I will wait too long before asking and she will become uninterested.
Not sure what kind of other details would be good to share to help better answer my question but I just don’t want to mess this up lol
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I dont wanna say never as there are always exceptions, but most likely…never. Wait until she asks you “what are we?” and then answer what you want it to be.
EDIT: I see you are saying you are inexperienced, so it may not apply. I was assuming you were already intimate.
After she agrees to do anal.
Let her ask you.
its got to be romantic, so anytime as long as you are certain she’ll say yes and the environment is romantic. third date is not it though i can almost promise you. exceptions would be if youve known her for a really long time or some kind of trauma bonded
Assuming you engage in the traditional 3rd date activity, that would probably be a really good time
Let her ask you. There’s no need for you to bring up the question. Let her put in the effort to lock you down.