I ingored his flaws, we were together for the summer last year and then broke up. now for a year we’re back to situationship. My feelings got mixed in cause we were doing everything a real relation would be except the label. At first i treated like a fwb. But i became suspicious and jealous when i found there were other girls he was hooking up with. Last night i cut it off. His response was i love you, but im not in love with you. I have no one to blame but myself for letting it go this long. I thought for a minute i could win him back š he said i dont want you to hate me but i dont want to loose you. Now what do i say
When the person you settled for doesnt want you..
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He just didnāt want to lose the convenience of you not the commitment. You did the hard but the right thing by walking away.
Heās not ready to commit and heās hurting you. Heās very selfish; heās not in love with you but he doesnāt want to loose you. If he actually loved you like he says, heād want more for you.
You say, āokay, have a nice life, byeā. Trust me, I know how hard it is but you have to move on. Youāll only continue being hurt. You ignored his flaws and it got you here, donāt ignore the red flags now, because further down the line youāll be wishing you didnāt continue to ignore the obvious.