When you are with a m partner, do you ever see his bits when flaccid or usually only when erect?

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When you are with a m partner, do you ever see his bits when flaccid or usually only when erect?

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  1. Eastiegirl333 Avatar

    You see it every which way.

  2. Winnersammich Avatar

    Yea definitely both. And its normal so its whatever 🤷🏼‍♀️I just like looking at it

  3. Some_Dog_9491 Avatar

    You see them anyway they could possibly be, you see each other naked often and if they do tricks they might show you that too

  4. biochamberr Avatar

    All of the above

  5. Rjforbes90 Avatar

    Once you’re in a relationship you see everything. Girls poop, men cry, people fight, you see shit piss and blood. You pretty much love your life with someone beside you!

  6. GCC_Pluribus_Anus Avatar

    You’ll likely see him try to take flight with it

  7. 5krunner Avatar

    This is such a weird question.

  8. guaip Avatar

    mostly flaccid

  9. FayrisDraconis Avatar

    I’ve seen all possible stages do the helicopter

  10. v7ce Avatar

    Yes, because (spoiler alert): men usually get soft after they orgasm. Erect is only ever a temporary state, and if it lasts more than 4 hours requires medical attention. So, unless you’re only getting naked when he’s already ready to go and he’s getting dressed again the moment he’s done, you’re gonna see some flaccid ween.

  11. Kakirax Avatar

    Guy here. My partner has seen it erect, in the middle, regularly flaccid, and after many hard runs in cold rain where it shrinks beyond comprehension.

    If she’s not willing to be there for your shrinkage, she’s not worthy of your magnum dong

  12. radioactive-sperm Avatar

    i like to flop it around. makes me giggle

  13. Solvely_ Avatar

    Idk I be looking at it anyway

  14. Snowconetypebanana Avatar

    I know it better than he does

  15. Onlyhereforapost Avatar

    M here, my fiance prefers to sleep skin to skin and now I’m more used to being naked in my own home than not🤷‍♂️

  16. ForTheLoveOfPhotos Avatar

    If he’s doing what nost males do, he’s showing it to you every day in every way.

  17. useless-millenial Avatar

    Husband has watched two babies exit me, I have most certainly seen his flaccid dick

  18. massaBeard Avatar

    We sleep naked. Hard not to show it

  19. Syntania Avatar

    All the ways. Flaccid, erect, hiding because it’s cold, peeing, getting washed, etc. Also if you are together long enough, you might get the, "Honey, look at this. Does it look weird? "

    Married 16 years.

  20. Kysman95 Avatar

    My gf randomly pull down my pants. Just to see it. To smirk when it’s flaccid and to tease when it’s not.

    (At home in private)

  21. -Tigg- Avatar

    I’ve lived with my hubby for over 10 years and we share a bedroom. I think it would be nearly impossible to never see it flaccid.

  22. Historical-Jelly-639 Avatar

    I see it every which way! And love all of them 🙂

  23. gmallory24 Avatar

    Dude here and any girl that has been with me has seen it in every way. One girl got me so excited that she would tell me “don’t get hard, I want to see it soft” 😂

  24. codename_pariah Avatar

    I’m not with anyone and yet people somehow always see my bits, both erect and flaccid.

    I’m still trying to find the camera…..

  25. sgtbluefire77 Avatar

    Unfortunately mine is so small she can’t tell the difference….

  26. sundaywwood Avatar

    i be flopping that shit around while we watching tv

  27. peglegprincess Avatar

    I’ve been with my husband 11 years, 5 of them married.

    It would be really funny if I’d NEVER seen his dick flaccid. Like it was a life mission for me to catch him soft

  28. chicharrofrito Avatar

    I’ve seen it in all stages, cold water tiny to extremely hard and huge lol.

    It’s part of being in a relationship lol

  29. oldfogey12345 Avatar

    Well you can’t really play games by using it as a lasso if it’s hard all the time.

  30. lilredcorsette Avatar

    Each and every stage. Sometimes I ask my man to put his tallywhacker in various things so I may vicariously experience it. He’s not thrilled with it, but obliges 🙂

  31. peaceloveandkitties Avatar

    We see all the bits. Up, down, all around it be flappin & flying. No judgement tho he sees my long boobs.

  32. ancientcartoons Avatar

    gf has seen every part and state of it. I mean, taking showers together is an easy way to see it in all states.

  33. ExtendedHand Avatar

    Just wait till you see a flaccid one twist or bend backwards (safely, of course)

  34. curveofthespine Avatar

    Male here with a female partner. When we are together we spend a fair amount of time unclothed.

    Initially I was self conscious with being unclothed, as I am a grower and not a shower.

    She eased my insecurities and showed me she was being honest by her actions, and that was the end of my insecurity

  35. Gutel1800 Avatar

    Yes. 🚁 🚁 🚁

  36. CityGirl0000 Avatar

    Yes, sometimes I (softly) bite it just for fun. Idk it’s kinda satisfying to me & he doesn’t mind

  37. Impossible-Road9445 Avatar

    I feel like there’s so many variables to this question.
    I think it depends on the sexual situation. I never saw my high school boyfriend’s penis. We were together 9 months, had sex for about 5 of those months and I never saw what he was working with, he never even let me touch it 🤷🏻‍♀️

    Come to think of it, the guy I lost my virginity to never showed me his penis either. Him and I had sex probably 6-8 times.

    I guess I’ve only seen my husbands penis during sexual activities. 🤨

  38. prettydotty_ Avatar

    Yeah, of course

  39. lilangelleftbehind Avatar

    I’ve seen it in all states and enjoy them all

  40. MxQueer Avatar

    I’m aromantic so I don’t date. I wouldn’t have fuckbuddy who would hide their genitals from me. So yes, if they have penis, I see it as flaccid.

  41. leomff Avatar

    i’ve seen it in every different stage of flaccid to erect lol. from every angle. sometimes i play with it while it’s soft like a stress ball 🙂

  42. MeowFrozi Avatar

    We live together so seeing it flaccid is much more common than erect in my case