when you dont stand up for yourself you enable bad treatment.

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seen this way too much, especially recently. i know too many people in relationship and friends, who always complain about how they are treated. i always ask them the same question, when was the first time the person did this to you. And the answer is always the person been doing in for a long period of time and the friend did not speak up. yet they expect the behavior to change. its like giving a child candy everytime they throw a tantrum then get mad when they keep throwing a tantrum to get candy. What you accept you are enabling

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  2. MikeRadical Avatar

    they’re called boundaries and its not an unpopular concept at all.