When you tell your girlfriend/wife she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Do you actually mean it or are you just saying it to make her happy?

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When you tell your girlfriend/wife she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Do you actually mean it or are you just saying it to make her happy?

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  2. Ratakoa Avatar

    I truly mean it

  3. EstablishmentHot1092 Avatar

    Don’t answer this fellas, it’s a trap!

  4. DoctorFrick Avatar

    When I talk to my wife, I say what I mean and I mean what I say.

  5. I_am_Reddit_Tom Avatar

    Both mate. And I’m probably horny or want something

  6. welovegv Avatar

    Christ sakes Linda. I said it and I mean it. Stop posting our drama to Reddit.

  7. PM_ME_YOUR_TITS80085 Avatar

    Beautiful is subjective, the most beautiful to you may not be the most beautiful to someone else. We all have our truths, that are unique to us.

    Take that as you will.

  8. Cross_22 Avatar

    I mean it, but I don’t like talking. Saying it out loud is for her benefit.

  9. reddit_tard Avatar

    Most beautiful in the world (to me). Yes, I absolutely mean it.

  10. SmokeySFW Avatar

    The (to me) is implied, but yea. It’s true and being said to make her happy.

  11. PillsburyToasters Avatar

    She thinks I’m joking because I’ll say it in corny or funny moments, but it doesn’t mean that I don’t mean it

  12. rottencitrus Avatar

    I don’t say things I don’t mean

  13. EfficientFile9929 Avatar

    i mean it, in my eyes she is idc about rest world

  14. riffraffbri Avatar

    Really? Do you think your wife believes she’s the most beautiful woman in the world? We both know I’m just saying it because I love her and would never leave her for another woman.

  15. t00sl0w Avatar

    I mean, every time I look at my wife I think “God damnnnnnn” so yes, I mean it the 600x a month I say it.

  16. Godsbestjokeonhumans Avatar

    Do you know what happens if you say things you dont mean in a relationship?

    Ps – don’t say things you don’t mean in general.

  17. ColdHardPocketChange Avatar

    I don’t say that anymore. She doubles down on insecurity then and we end up having a bad time. I have better results with cruder compliments, if she rejects them, I remind her that my penis will do the thinking for both of us.

  18. as1126 Avatar

    We all say it, we all mean it, and we all believe it to be true.

  19. ArtichokeWorking870 Avatar

    Usually we mean it, especially if actions match the words.

  20. Doubledip123 Avatar

    I’m too logical to think that. Or maybe just never been in love

  21. 44035 Avatar

    In my case, I mean it. She’s stunning.

  22. locklochlackluck Avatar

    Most beautiful is probably not the right way to put it. But yes it’s true.

    I would rather look at her then any other woman alive. 

    When I close my eyes is her smiling face that gives me comfort 

    When I get those butterflies, it’s always her

    Most beautiful implies there’s some objective measure but the truth is she all and everything I want (romantically… I need my kids lol) 

  23. zipcodekidd Avatar

    I don’t lie to my wife. I give and demand the gut wrenching truth.

  24. JeffreyStryker Avatar

    I don’t say that but I tell her she is beautiful often, and I mean it because she is.

  25. StrangerDeep7109 Avatar

    I meant it. Because she was the one and only woman I had remotely any emotions for, but she screwed that all up be taking the infidelity route. Dumped her almost 2 years ago but I loved her. Before I found out I was actually looking for rings.

  26. 1EyedFatGuy Avatar

    My question is, why would say something to your wife you don’t mean? That’s how people start questioning their partners trust. If you’d lie about their beauty, you’ll lie about anything.

  27. Ok_Noise7655 Avatar

    I don’t marry a woman who would seriously scrutinize me on this matter.

  28. Inner-Egg-6731 Avatar

    Absolutely mean it without a doubt

  29. Neutreality1 Avatar

    I prefer to avoid comparative compliments. 

  30. UKnowDamnRight Avatar

    For me I mean it. There is something about my wife’s eyes that just make me absolutely melt. No other woman can do that to me.

  31. FArufe Avatar

    Nice try. She is. End of discussion.

  32. HeDuMSD Avatar

    Dude my wife is perfect. The only thing I would question is her taste for men.

  33. B3ZZle Avatar

    She is. Hi, Beautiful 😍

  34. Merc_MCMLXXXVIII Avatar

    To my wife I definitely mean it.

    To my girlfriend it’s just something to make her feel good about herself.

  35. Efficient-Log8009 Avatar

    I definitely mean it. I wouldn’t be with anyone if I didn’t believe they are the best there is. Then it’s so unfortunate when she dissapoints me in the end and we have to break up.

  36. onehandedbraunlocker Avatar

    I mean it. But I don’t mean it strictly physical. I mean most beautiful when looking at the entire person, both outside and inside. I’m aware that there are more beautiful women in the world than my wife, on the outside. But when I look at both her personality and her looks.. Damn I have a hard time believing someone else might beat her. And either way I’m fine.

  37. PussWuss-Studio Avatar

    To make her happy, ofcourse there are tons of prettier woman out there.

  38. pandemic944 Avatar

    Sometimes she’s just sitting on the couch looking relaxed and just happy, content. She looks beautiful.

  39. onceuponascotty Avatar

    I find it interesting the men that say yes because she is the most beautiful. The ones who say this. If your wife said youre the most handsome man in the world. Would you believe it?

  40. Superman246o1 Avatar

    If I could give only one piece of advice to a young person today…that advice would be to start up a Roth IRA as early as possible and maximize your contributions to the best of your ability. Your future self will love you for it!

    If I could two pieces of advice to a young person, however, the second piece of advice would be to only marry someone if you genuinely feel this way. If you’re lucky, you’ll marry someone who you think is way out of your league, while they’ll inexplicably feel you’re way out of theirs.

  41. trowawaywork Avatar

    Not a man but when I tell my boyfriend he’s the most beautiful guy in the world, I mean it for me, knowing others may disagree with my opinion.

    He’s my type to a T. Lean without being skinny, natural muscle definition, medium length, full tidy hair (for a guy), little body hair, his face is pretty without being overly masculine or feminine. Melon-shaped ass. Elegant hands, never smells. 

    I’ve compared him visually with other guys I see on TV or in the streets or my friends, to see if I was delulu but none of them fit my type as well as he does. His personality matches his body so definitely there on the attraction scale. 

  42. Henry5321 Avatar

    Figure of speech. I’m aromantic and don’t feel love but I’ll still tell her I love her. I love her with my actions. No feelings necessary. Same difference.

  43. Shababajoe Avatar

    Attraction is a fully subjective scale. There is no one in the world who makes me feel the way my wife does

  44. GorillaPhoneman65 Avatar

    I’ve been married for over 29 years and together for 32 years. I’m 65 and she’s 58. Yes she still gets it 100% for me every day. And when I say it I mean it. No one holds a candle to her. Not even close.

  45. NoEntertainment8486 Avatar

    When I say it, what I’m really saying is “I only have eyes for you.” – to ME you are the most beautiful woman in the world. And I mean it.

  46. MarsicanBear Avatar

    I don’t tell her that. She’s not the most beautiful woman in the world, and I’m not a liar.

    I tell her she is beautiful, which is true. And I tell her she is my favourite woman in the world, which is also true.

  47. MrMackSir Avatar

    There is physical attractiveness and emotional attractiveness. I am using them both in my assessment.

  48. iLoveAllTacos Avatar

    I won’t give a compliment unless I actually mean it. If she wants me to tell her she looks good, she better look good.

  49. GameofPorcelainThron Avatar

    That’s going to depend on the person. Some people say it because they think it’s romantic to say. Some people say it because they think it’s what their partner wants to hear, some people say it because they genuinely mean it.

    I truly think my partner is the most beautiful woman in the world *to me*. If we put her in a lineup with other women that media considers the most beautiful women in the world and had everyone vote on it, do I actually think she’d win? No. But she’d still get my vote. Not because I think she is Helen of Troy, but because I look at her and I feel like I’m home. I see all the things she does in how she lives her life, I think of the way she listens to me and actually sees me, I think of how hard she works at being healthy both emotionally and physically, and I am just in awe. And she has a righteous set of boobs.

    So yes, some of us mean it. But that doesn’t mean that everyone who says it will mean it.

  50. NoEntertainment8486 Avatar

    Also, not only do I mean it, but I THINK it even more often than I vocalize it.

  51. MartyFreeze Avatar

    I told my ex-wife that she was the most beautiful woman in the world every day, because it was true to me.

    She worried about her legs, her waist, her chest, her cystic acne and her eczema but when I looked at her, even after 8 years, my heart leapt in my chest.

  52. dhffxiv Avatar

    I think my Mrs would give me a side eye if I said it in those words. We just aren’t like that

  53. mr_jinxxx Avatar

    It’s kind of a 50/50 thing. Like empirically speaking she’s not doing but the feeling in admiration you have towards her is what puts her above all. You can look at her at her worse and still think the sun shines out her ass to go to movie

  54. onekinkyusername Avatar

    When I complement my wife, or anyone, I genuinely mean it. Compliments should come from a place of sincerity. If you say something just to make someone happy without truly feeling it, it is insincere. Authenticity is very important to me and so compliments are a reflection of my true feelings, not what I think someone wants to hear. I’m not fond of people who are disingenuous; its patronizing, so I would never call a woman beautiful if I didn’t mean it.

  55. SleepParalysisKing Avatar

    I mean it, whoever I am in love with becomes the most beautiful woman to me.

  56. OnePair1 Avatar

    I mean it with all my being. If my mind manifested Venus, it would be her.

  57. 1oneaway Avatar

    Definitely mean it. No shit.

  58. Redcarborundum Avatar

    Beauty comes from both physical traits and expression. When a woman looks at me with a combination of love and genuine admiration, her beauty to me increases tremendously.

  59. soulangelic Avatar

    I know that there’s probably some other woman on the whole planet who my husband may find objectively more attractive than me. But when he tells me I’m beautiful, I know he means it. That’s enough for me!

  60. KrispyKingTheProphet Avatar

    My girlfriend and soon to be fiancee IS the most beautiful woman in the world. I take care of my appearance, am considered good looking, and have dated very attractive women in the past but she is a whole new level.

    Her eyes, her smile, everything about her is the definition of beauty, her body is perfection. She’s a 10/10 for anyone with eyes.

    I remind of her how beautiful/attractive she is constantly, multiple times an hour usually, and mean every word of it.

  61. Fossil_Relocator Avatar

    You know how every kid in the world thinks that their dog is the goodest boy and they are all right? Same thing.

  62. EatingCoooolo Avatar

    Don’t say it if you don’t mean it. Only say it if that’s how you feel

  63. berge7f9 Avatar

    Of course not

  64. Particular_Sock_2864 Avatar

    I only say it when I mean it

  65. Star_Ninja_ Avatar
    1. I never mean it because it’s just not true
    2. Hence I never say it, because I’m not a liar
    3. If you like liars, enjoy the consequences

    EZ

    No need to compare your partner or other people anyway. You can just tell then you love them, or that you love aspects of them (I love your eyes, I love your mind, I love your body etc.). After all when we love someone we love them for themselves, for their uniqueness, NOT because they’re somehow “better than everyone else.”

    Hence there is zero need to be doing comparisons like “the most X in the Y!” That’s just ego games and it will inevitably blow up in your faces.

  66. Mr-PumpAndDump Avatar

    You know what you look like. What do you think the answer is?

  67. Intelligent_Corner41 Avatar

    Bro I say it to safe my relationship because truth be told we haven’t seen all the women in the world to make that kind of a comparison. Most women make us to lie because of you say they’re very beautiful but not the most beautiful person in the world it’s an issue. I had a big fight cuz I was honest to say you’re very beautiful but I can’t draw that conclusion of being the most beautiful since I haven’t seen every woman on earth. It led to a big fight with her saying that means I’ll cheat on her if I should see another woman more beautiful. For my sanity I started telling her she’s the most beautiful woman in the whole wide world even though I know it’s a lie.

  68. spicy_jamaica Avatar

    If they accepted me with all my faults and we are happy, that makes them beautiful. Looks and bodies will fade.

  69. Traveshamockery27 Avatar

    What I am saying is that she is the woman I most desire in the entire world, and I absolutely mean it.

  70. Traveshamockery27 Avatar

    What I am saying is that she is the woman I most desire in the entire world, and I absolutely mean it.

  71. CertainTragedy87 Avatar

    I absolutely 100% mean it. Honestly