Women around my age (late 20s) that seem to have it all. Husband, pets, a house etc. Meanwhile I decided to go back to school for my masters. I am single, broke from being a mature student. I see them post multiple times a day on social media on how perfect their lives are. I’m happy for them. No ill wishes upon them. I just wonder if I could’ve had that and chose not to
Women who are good runners. I have a lot of leg pain that I have to manage. I am pregnant right now which has dialed the mobility issues up to 11. Post partum I want to do more for myself to get my legs back to where I want them.
My cats!
Like they dont even know what bills or taxes or rent is! Never worked a day in their lives. Has no idea whats going on in this country (America) they just lounge around the house they have someone (me) give them everything they want and need. No thoughts just meow meow. God I wanna be them so much i am so serious.
People who have careers they enjoy and make good money out off. Jobs that require special skills. I’m at Year 2 out of college and finding it very hard to get interviews.
Women who are with good men( that they’re unworthy of ) and sabotage the relationship every single time. Give me a good man, I’d be honoured to be with him.
Women who have a close knit support system. Can be friend/family/spouse/whoever. I miss having someone who genuinely likes me, cares for me and is interested in spending time with me.
Influencers that can afford houses and designer things and lux vacations just by endorsing a brand on social media. While others work tirelessly all day just to pay rent and bills
People who experienced a normal youth (especially the teenage and young adult years) instead of having their lives derailed by mental and/or physical illness. People in general good health currently, regardless of their age. People with educational and career accomplishments. People who have healthy relationships with their families. People with close groups of friends. People who’ve found a hobby or pastime or some sort of purpose or cause that they’re passionate about. Neurotypicals, sometimes.
People who are naturally skinny. Tall, slender builds. People who don’t struggle with food noise and emotional eating. People who genuinely enjoy healthy options and don’t crave sweets. I have struggled all my life and I’m so so tired.
People who are naturally skinny. Tall, slender builds. People who don’t struggle with food noise and emotional eating. People who genuinely enjoy healthy options and don’t crave sweets. I have struggled all my life and I’m so so tired.
Jealousy is an emotion I don’t really understand as much as I did when I was 15. I am not jealous of anyone, but I’d love to have had the opportunity to make different choices in my life than the ones I had from the hand I was dealt.
People who have a loving, supportive spouse. Women who were able to pull down a man who has his act together, who doesn’t just want to be taken care of and catered to.
My daughter. She has gorgeous skin and hair. She has all her meals prepared for her. All her laundry is washed and put away for her. She has no idea the state of the world. She’s never stressed. She can eat cookies without worrying about the calories. Lucky girl.
Well, I’m 33/F/disabled/about to be divorced, live in NYC, and I’m terribly jealous of the gorgeous, rich young women who get to live in the West Village, Soho, etc. Also jealous of women who became doctors. So, overall, women who can pay for their own lives!
I made the mistake of being financially dependent on a man and now most likely have to return to the rural hellhole I came from where I get to water down my shampoo and shit in a grocery store bag.
Sarah J Maas. Got mega rich from writing fun adventure stories for girls. Has a hot husband and two kids. Not online much. Loads of fans but not mega famous so she’s able to live a normal life.
Emilia Fart. She is so unbothered and free, doing whatever she likes, is very honest with life and pushes her comfortzone and limits to explore the unknown. I wish I was half as brave as her in doing new things.
My hairdresser. She is tall and thin with insanely long legs, has a long, thick head of hair, huge eyes and long eyelashes and is just all around gorgeous. I told her once that in my next life I’m gonna come back as her 😆
People (even some of my friends) with generational wealth. I’m a homeowner, I have multiple degrees and a job/ comfortable salary. I’m definitely doing well for myself compared to a lot of other people… and my parents are doing very well financially. But they’re immigrants and had to start with less than nothing only a few decades ago.
Sometimes it’s hard to look at my friends with generational wealth and feel like I have to work twice as hard just to earn half of what’s going to be handed to them. And sometimes it sucks feeling like even though my parents have become successful, they would have twice as much to show for it if they were not immigrants and they had generational wealth passed down to them..
People who grew up with loving parents who were emotionally mature, emotionally stable, and expressed love towards each other… oh what I would pay to have grown up with that. If I think about this for too long I will cry
Women that aren’t scared to speak their minds or use their voices. My whole life I’ve struggled to stand up for myself and I have no idea why – probably because I’m so poorly spoken.
The women that don’t give a flying freak what you think of them (and not in the fake-confident “I do no wrong” kind of way, but in the “this is authentically who I am, and it’s okay if you don’t like it” kind of way). They’re kind of like a homecoming of sorts, because they usually accept you for exactly who you are too – no pretenses
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Evy Pomporous. Absolute real life bad ass and also looks like a real life barbie doll lol
Women around my age (late 20s) that seem to have it all. Husband, pets, a house etc. Meanwhile I decided to go back to school for my masters. I am single, broke from being a mature student. I see them post multiple times a day on social media on how perfect their lives are. I’m happy for them. No ill wishes upon them. I just wonder if I could’ve had that and chose not to
Professional tennis players! I wish I got that far!
How men seem to look so effortlessly cool but when I dress the same I look greasy and weird
people who bought their houses before 2021.
nepo babies
Anyone whose knees work
Women who are good runners. I have a lot of leg pain that I have to manage. I am pregnant right now which has dialed the mobility issues up to 11. Post partum I want to do more for myself to get my legs back to where I want them.
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The version of me who accomplished all the goals I’m working on.
My cats!
Like they dont even know what bills or taxes or rent is! Never worked a day in their lives. Has no idea whats going on in this country (America) they just lounge around the house they have someone (me) give them everything they want and need. No thoughts just meow meow. God I wanna be them so much i am so serious.
Teenage me. She was so carefree and had hardly any responsibilities. I should have enjoyed that time more.
People that don’t live pay check to paycheck
People you didn’t have to spend a fortune on making their teeth beautiful.
75+ year old women who can say they’ve lived a happy life so far.
Idiotic jerks. They go through life without the weight of morals, understanding, or self awareness while exhausting everyone around them.
Anyone who’s not in pain 24/7.
People who own a house
People who have careers they enjoy and make good money out off. Jobs that require special skills. I’m at Year 2 out of college and finding it very hard to get interviews.
My cat.
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Women who are with good men( that they’re unworthy of ) and sabotage the relationship every single time. Give me a good man, I’d be honoured to be with him.
People who’ve never had a mental health disorder
People who don’t have PCOS
People who don’t have to work!
Also people who live by all their favorite friends and family because many of mine are far.
Women who have a close knit support system. Can be friend/family/spouse/whoever. I miss having someone who genuinely likes me, cares for me and is interested in spending time with me.
Influencers that can afford houses and designer things and lux vacations just by endorsing a brand on social media. While others work tirelessly all day just to pay rent and bills
People who are financially supported. The freedom to take risks knowing that you have a cushion.
Women who bounce back after giving birth and look like they were never pregnant 🥲
Women who are confident and can get men’s attention
People who are naturally thin
People who have an unlimited budget for clothes, bags and shoes
Anyone who can afford a house without a partner 🥲
My celebrity crush’s wife
Neurotypicals. Having a normal, functional brain is underrated.
My sibling who lacks empathy, self awareness, and basic critical thinking skills. I can’t turn my brain off to fall asleep at a reasonable hour.
People who experienced a normal youth (especially the teenage and young adult years) instead of having their lives derailed by mental and/or physical illness. People in general good health currently, regardless of their age. People with educational and career accomplishments. People who have healthy relationships with their families. People with close groups of friends. People who’ve found a hobby or pastime or some sort of purpose or cause that they’re passionate about. Neurotypicals, sometimes.
People who are naturally skinny. Tall, slender builds. People who don’t struggle with food noise and emotional eating. People who genuinely enjoy healthy options and don’t crave sweets. I have struggled all my life and I’m so so tired.
People who are naturally skinny. Tall, slender builds. People who don’t struggle with food noise and emotional eating. People who genuinely enjoy healthy options and don’t crave sweets. I have struggled all my life and I’m so so tired.
I am a little jealous of the army wives that live in Georgia etc⛈️🌧️🌦️
They have love family a home boundaries and adequate therapy also edu
Anyone with good, strong, healthy teeth. Truely, you don’t know how lucky you are. I’ve had nothing but issues and have spent a fortune on dentists.
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People who can do standing back tucks! That shit is impressive
Women with wide hips 🧍🏻♀️ I got nerfed with hip dips that aren’t even hot like everyone else’s 😭
Jealousy is an emotion I don’t really understand as much as I did when I was 15. I am not jealous of anyone, but I’d love to have had the opportunity to make different choices in my life than the ones I had from the hand I was dealt.
Henry Cavill’s girlfriend.
People who go through life without mental health issues.
Nobody tbh, I’m content with what I’ve got
In life? No one. In love? Everyone.
People who have a loving, supportive spouse. Women who were able to pull down a man who has his act together, who doesn’t just want to be taken care of and catered to.
My daughter. She has gorgeous skin and hair. She has all her meals prepared for her. All her laundry is washed and put away for her. She has no idea the state of the world. She’s never stressed. She can eat cookies without worrying about the calories. Lucky girl.
People who can eat and not gain weight
Married lesbians. In my circle of friends they seem to have the happiest relationships and best social circles/communities of support.
people who have self discipline and don’t procrastinate their lives away 😭😭😭
People who are in a healthy long-term relationship. People who got to experience relationship stuff in their teens
Vanna White. She works something like 34 days a year and makes bank
i don’t mean to sound egotistical – but myself and my unmet potential
it’s like i see her and i want to be her
okay but how long will it take to BECOME her?
People who have their own homes. All I want is a little house for me and my two kids but it’s just not a possibility
Well, I’m 33/F/disabled/about to be divorced, live in NYC, and I’m terribly jealous of the gorgeous, rich young women who get to live in the West Village, Soho, etc. Also jealous of women who became doctors. So, overall, women who can pay for their own lives!
I made the mistake of being financially dependent on a man and now most likely have to return to the rural hellhole I came from where I get to water down my shampoo and shit in a grocery store bag.
Women who have husbands who work and make good money. Mine is unemployed while I’m working as much as I can to keep the lights on.
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Sarah J Maas. Got mega rich from writing fun adventure stories for girls. Has a hot husband and two kids. Not online much. Loads of fans but not mega famous so she’s able to live a normal life.
That my dream right there.
Emilia Fart. She is so unbothered and free, doing whatever she likes, is very honest with life and pushes her comfortzone and limits to explore the unknown. I wish I was half as brave as her in doing new things.
the girl who gets all my bfs attention
confident people – i always have this shadow of self doubt and fear of not doing something right that it makes things worst
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My hairdresser. She is tall and thin with insanely long legs, has a long, thick head of hair, huge eyes and long eyelashes and is just all around gorgeous. I told her once that in my next life I’m gonna come back as her 😆
Anyone who can work and go to school full time
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Pregnant women who don’t develop gestational diabetes.
Neurotypical people with stable, loving upbringings
People that can sleep as soon as their head touches the pillow
Neurotypical cis confident feminist woman with a strong friend group or even a single strong friendship.
People that have strong will power.
They just decide to go on a diet and then just….do it…
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rich attractive white men
People who want things and just go for it. I’m such a coward. There’s so many things I could’ve done had I not been afraid.
People who have both parents and they’re rich. Like they have absolutely no concept of true hardship and they probably never will.
People that don’t overthink, lol. People who are unphased and unattached so nothing can destroy them mentally.
people who can exercise without their chest hurting
White women and women that know how to swim.
Right now? People who own houses overseas.
People with a strong sense of identity and a healthy level of self esteem.
Can’t relate.
At all
Rich people that don’t have to work
People (even some of my friends) with generational wealth. I’m a homeowner, I have multiple degrees and a job/ comfortable salary. I’m definitely doing well for myself compared to a lot of other people… and my parents are doing very well financially. But they’re immigrants and had to start with less than nothing only a few decades ago.
Sometimes it’s hard to look at my friends with generational wealth and feel like I have to work twice as hard just to earn half of what’s going to be handed to them. And sometimes it sucks feeling like even though my parents have become successful, they would have twice as much to show for it if they were not immigrants and they had generational wealth passed down to them..
Anyone with high self esteem
People who bought land before inflation…
Jealousy is a scary thing.
People who grew up with loving parents who were emotionally mature, emotionally stable, and expressed love towards each other… oh what I would pay to have grown up with that. If I think about this for too long I will cry
People’s free time. That is literally the only time I feel jealous.
anyone who has good health!! suffer from endometriosis and getting fed up with being in pain
Women who can stay naturally thin with very little effort to maintain it.
I’ve been plus-size my whole life and it is just sad how badly people treat me compared to my thinner friends and neighbors and co-workers
Women with big jugs!!!
People who had a good childhood & great parents their whole life
People who have a village of support and or people around them who are just great influences (family, mentors, friendship wise)
I’ll get there one day.
People who are not socially awkward
My beautiful, smart, strong, amazing best friend. No one else like her. I feel like she elevates everyone she comes into contact with.
Such a blessing to be loved by her, but damn am I jealous of her!!
People born to families with generational wealth.
Women that aren’t scared to speak their minds or use their voices. My whole life I’ve struggled to stand up for myself and I have no idea why – probably because I’m so poorly spoken.
The women that don’t give a flying freak what you think of them (and not in the fake-confident “I do no wrong” kind of way, but in the “this is authentically who I am, and it’s okay if you don’t like it” kind of way). They’re kind of like a homecoming of sorts, because they usually accept you for exactly who you are too – no pretenses
Honestly just anyone who didn’t live paycheck to paycheck
People who have a healthy relationship with food.
Also, Natalie Viscuso.
True confidence
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The girl that’s dating my crush