In my particular situation, there’s guy in my friend group who I really can’t stand but I’m civil with him because he’s always around. My problem with him is frankly his overly sexual nature with women which becomes downright creepy and gross. I mean yeah we’re guys but I don’t wanna hear every expletive comment about some chick he finds attractive and the way he stares at them is just weird. All my friends acknowledge this too but it seems theres really no changing him. Whenever I bring I girl I liked around my friend group I’ve had to have my friends become a barrier between us so he doesn’t do anything to make her uncomfortable. Feel free to rant about that particular person and I’d leave their names out obviously
Who is that person in your friend group you wonder why you’re friends with them?
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I don’t have people like this in my friend group.
I am not friends with creepy assholes.
Everyone in my friend group is a gem. I stopped hanging out with bad people in my early 30s. Don’t miss them at all.
Put this creep in his place. If not someone else will. Id honestly rather not associate myself with him. These people who were once in my life are not anymore, and I keep all the women in my life away from them. He acts the way he acts probably cus he keeps getting away with it. Yall keep side-eyeing him, and he thinks what hes doing is ok. Dont make me take out your trash.
We cut this person out after we became adults and realized we didnt need to be friends with them if we didnt want to.
OP. If you’re above 25, time to “trim some deadwood”. Trust me, guys like that hardly ever change. Before you know it, there will be a SA or harassment charge against him and he’ll ask you to defend his character.
Hey I’m right here.
Nah hes always there because someone else in the group is always bringing them. If one wont go, both need to.