My nephews biological father who chose to abandon his son because he was going to become a big country music star. Two years later he was found dead on the side of some “Breaking Bad” kind of back country road in New Mexico mostly eaten by buzzards. Cause of death was determined later to be acute alcohol poisoning.
My ex. He SAed me,i broke up with him. He told everyone that i SAed him and turned himself an SA victim. Hes also a weeb, the one that whines and cries if you insult his waifu
I knew a guy who drank 5-7 steel reserve cans a day, was 300 pounds and a nazi( he would defend Hitler /hated jews a lot). He was basically a grown up Eric cartman.
I knew him because he was that guy who was in his mid 20’s who would buy high school kids booze so he could hit on high school girls.
I don’t know losers, I only know people who struggle. Everyone’s lived experience and psychological makeup is so incredibly complex it seems unfair to judge people. We all do it at some stage and to a certain extent it’s human nature. But if loser means someone who isn’t successful by western standards, I would say the biggest loser the one passing judgement.
Honestly, the people who refuse to help themselves. I’m not saying this in a ‘loser’ name tag way… more the act of… these are the people who lose… the people who don’t even try.
My biological dad. Waited until the day I was born to tell my mom he’d changed his mind about being a dad, left that same day. Evaded child support like the plague by job-hopping. Tried to reconnect with him in my teens before I knew all of this, thought he was cool until he took me off of his health insurance without telling me (I easily got my own insurance, it was just the principle of him not letting me know that upset me). He didn’t even really want to talk to me. His wife had to convince him to do it in the first place. I ended up cutting him off.
Aside from that mess I’m extremely grateful for my step-dad who stepped in when I was around 3-4. He’s the type of guy I don’t even have to refer to as my step-dad, and I never had that awkward step-kid phase where I’d call him by his name. He’s always been Dad.
Biggest, I’d have to think harder about. But the other day a dude-bro at the bar was trying to give me unsolicited relationship and life advice. He was in his late 30’s, unemployed, and never married. I’m early 40’s, married, and have a very successful career.
Peter Szigeti. Wannabe pro Magic the Gathering player who killed himself with an overdose when he was 26 after he got a life time ban from Magic the Gathering competitive tournaments. Dude was a mess.
My best friends abusive ex boyfriend. The guy is an untalented woman strangler with no interests, skills or redeemable qualities beyond being ever so slightly good looking
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The man in the mirror circa 2021
Jack spontane Curry
I don’t judge people like that—everyone’s got a story
I don’t see I’m better than them, lucky
My child’s father. Hands down.
My nephews biological father who chose to abandon his son because he was going to become a big country music star. Two years later he was found dead on the side of some “Breaking Bad” kind of back country road in New Mexico mostly eaten by buzzards. Cause of death was determined later to be acute alcohol poisoning.
My ex. He SAed me,i broke up with him. He told everyone that i SAed him and turned himself an SA victim. Hes also a weeb, the one that whines and cries if you insult his waifu
A friend now ex boyfriend. Last time I saw him he was 60 and still thieving and scamming and using. A whole life wasted
My dad.
I knew a guy who drank 5-7 steel reserve cans a day, was 300 pounds and a nazi( he would defend Hitler /hated jews a lot). He was basically a grown up Eric cartman.
I knew him because he was that guy who was in his mid 20’s who would buy high school kids booze so he could hit on high school girls.
Their aren’t many people I care to remember
Anyone who thinks being cruel makes them powerful.
I don’t know losers, I only know people who struggle. Everyone’s lived experience and psychological makeup is so incredibly complex it seems unfair to judge people. We all do it at some stage and to a certain extent it’s human nature. But if loser means someone who isn’t successful by western standards, I would say the biggest loser the one passing judgement.
Liberals
Honestly, the people who refuse to help themselves. I’m not saying this in a ‘loser’ name tag way… more the act of… these are the people who lose… the people who don’t even try.
Male feminists and straight male liberals.
My biological dad. Waited until the day I was born to tell my mom he’d changed his mind about being a dad, left that same day. Evaded child support like the plague by job-hopping. Tried to reconnect with him in my teens before I knew all of this, thought he was cool until he took me off of his health insurance without telling me (I easily got my own insurance, it was just the principle of him not letting me know that upset me). He didn’t even really want to talk to me. His wife had to convince him to do it in the first place. I ended up cutting him off.
Aside from that mess I’m extremely grateful for my step-dad who stepped in when I was around 3-4. He’s the type of guy I don’t even have to refer to as my step-dad, and I never had that awkward step-kid phase where I’d call him by his name. He’s always been Dad.
of course i know him, he’s me!
I really can’t say just one, instead, there is a group of people with similar characters as below.
Biggest, I’d have to think harder about. But the other day a dude-bro at the bar was trying to give me unsolicited relationship and life advice. He was in his late 30’s, unemployed, and never married. I’m early 40’s, married, and have a very successful career.
On second thought, maybe I’m the loser…
After my 2024, me.
Peter Szigeti. Wannabe pro Magic the Gathering player who killed himself with an overdose when he was 26 after he got a life time ban from Magic the Gathering competitive tournaments. Dude was a mess.
My father
Myself.
My best friends abusive ex boyfriend. The guy is an untalented woman strangler with no interests, skills or redeemable qualities beyond being ever so slightly good looking
Hello….
Someone who thought mind games and lies were the only way to get what they were asking for.
Trump