Why do men like attention from other women when they already get it from their partners already ? Speaking from a husband that just admitted to it and he doesn’t know why .
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Why do men like attention from other women when they already get it from their partners already ? Speaking from a husband that just admitted to it and he doesn’t know why .
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There are 2 reasons
Psychological needs – if you are desired, it is an indication that you are a potential mate and that gives a certain stature in the society.
Biological – getting attention could be a leading indicator of the woman wanting to mate with you. And men are programmed to procreate.
idk man but like pls go therapy and get to the root of this before it because a big issue in the marriage
I’m a female who also feels this way but about men. I’m always looking at other men and enjoy the attention.
I think it’s a feeling of acceptance. Like a I still got it type of thing. And everyone likes looking good.
Because women stop trying and use sex as a weapon in 100% of relationships
I don’t know but as a single woman it bothers me, they have love and commitment from a woman and they want my fleeting attention for validation? They need to get a hobby or join a gym if they have low self esteem. And then buy their wives flowers and thank the lord she gave him a chance. If a grown man is that insecure he needs to do something to fix it. Otherwise he’s gonna be that creepy married dude trying to sadly hit on every woman he sees. If he doesn’t know why he better figure it out, men always want to blame “biology” instead of going to therapy.