In my previous relationship one of the things that got on my nerves was whether or not I could be friends with somebody based off of their gender. It got to the point that I’d hide that I have friends from him. Well, the same is starting to happen again in my current relationship. It is very new, not even a month yet.
Regardless of how innocent it is or what happened before I even met him, he’s voiced that he doesn’t like it. Which is valid of course, it’s just the entire time I have known him I’ve said how I believe men and women can be friends depending on the individuals themselves.
I’ve told him numerous times I would rather him meet them which he is ok with. I play a lot of video games so sometimes I’ll get a message asking if I’m free to play, he doesn’t like that other people can message me but it’s basically always just about games.
One of my friends in particular, we used to play games and talk on the phone a lot earlier this year. I’ve been asked to block this friend specifically because of that. I lied about doing so and now I’m just wondering why I would do that to myself. I was really happy with our relationship and how it was going until that. Now I just feel weird with myself and everything.
TL;DR,
Said I would block a friend, lied about it and now things just don’t feel right.