Why am i unlovable ?

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Every girl i meet tells me im really kind and they want to be my friend but no one is attracted to me . And trust me i dont want sex , i dont ” fuck zone ” them , all I want is love . I want to come home and hug someone, i want someone to play with my hair , i want to buy someone roses , i wamt someone to buy me roses , i want to watch cheesy rom coms together, i want to make her breakfast while she sits on the kitchen counter and laughs at my dumb jokes , i want to be wanted , i want to be loved , i want someone to hold me and tell me that its all gonna be al right when im scared , i want someone to tell me that im attractive, i want someone to write me a love letter , i want someone to remember my birthday eventhough i think birthdays are stupid . I want to desired , i just want love . I promise ill be a good partner , ill try my best , What i want is Not sex , not BJs just a fckin forehead kiss , a hug and a love letter , ALL I WANT IS TO BE WANTED !

Am i really that fat , ugly , repulsive and annoying to be around that no one wants me , no one can even comprehend me as someone who can be loved , romantically ? Im not blaming these women , they dont feel attracted thats not their fauot , but i feel like destiny , life is so cruel to me , why not make me aromantic if i wasnt gonna get love anyways ?

Comments

  1. VeronikaFjord Avatar

    The world can be incredibly cruel to those who feel deeply and openly, like you.
    But you are already inherently worthy, not because you’re “kind” or “reliable,”
    but because you want to give warmth. And in that alone, there is already love.

  2. National-Cucumber-28 Avatar

    This might sound like a bold question, but I’m genuinely curious what kind of women do you usually approach?
    Are they typically conventionally attractive?
    Or do you tend to go for people who are in the same “league” as you, so to speak?
    Sorry if that comes off a bit blunt I’m not sure how else to phrase it.

  3. TheUnknownWonderer Avatar

    I feel you buddy. You’re a good man. Probably just have that old school love in you like I do. Hard to come by. Good on you man. I just feel like we aren’t wanted anymore tbh.

  4. DAYAWOODARD2000 Avatar

    I love men like you

    Men like you should be cherished

    Men like you are my type ❤️😍 🤗