They enrich my life. They bring me joy and support me. They communicate well and often. We have cross over hobbies. There is respect and honesty galore. We have fun together and can rely on and trust each other. We hold similar values. I’m attracted to everything about them. They’re my best friends.
Positives: Our daughter, I do love him when he doesn’t suck, we can have a nice time together when he doesn’t suck, we can laugh, we can play games, he makes me feel safe when I’m in his arms, his smell encapsulates me (indescribable), he always reminds me that he loves me, he works hard to take care of us, he loves me even with my many flaws, he calls me babe or baby every day, I love how he kisses my neck, he’s a good lay, he entertains my cooking “experiments”, will go to restaurants he doesn’t like just to make me smile, buys me a Pokémon plush on special occasions just to see me smile, got me kittens just for “emotional support animals”, I love to cuddle him. Probably could think of more.
Cons: Our daughter (neither of us could take care of her alone right now so we may lose her to the state, financial stability (I’m on disability), codependency.
Because we love and support each other. We are the other’s best friend and confidant. We want to continue to build our lives together.
There are too many reasons to stay. But there are likely reasons to leave too. I won’t mention mine here, but that’s because they are far out shined by the reasons to stay. Just be sure to know what’s both good and bad for your relationship.
She’s shown me that everything in life doesn’t have to be miserable, she’s given me a reason to live, she’s shown me how I should’ve been treated all along, that I deserve better, and she just feels not only like home, but like magic
He has stuck with me through literally everything. My “best” where I felt on top of the word and also my lowest where I was in the mental hospital. He asks no questions when it comes to loving me . He simply loves me. He doesn’t base his affection and feelings on the current situation. He got to know my soul to the deepest level and has stuck around since.
She makes me want to be better, and she treats me amazingly. Also, I find her insanely attractive physically and mentally, and I can’t stop smiling when I think of her.
In the meantime, because it is simply far too stressful, financially difficult and associated with so much pain to leave her. Too many lives would be too disadvantaged by it on too many levels. Maybe I’ll find a suitable opportunity in the near future.
If the circumstances weren’t so complicated, I probably would have left her easily and much sooner.
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Well, she is smart, funny, makes my life a lot better and she is definitely attractive in my eyes.
So she has both an amazing personality and great looks which is a combo I need to date.
They enrich my life. They bring me joy and support me. They communicate well and often. We have cross over hobbies. There is respect and honesty galore. We have fun together and can rely on and trust each other. We hold similar values. I’m attracted to everything about them. They’re my best friends.
She does anal.
She touches my pee pee
Positives: Our daughter, I do love him when he doesn’t suck, we can have a nice time together when he doesn’t suck, we can laugh, we can play games, he makes me feel safe when I’m in his arms, his smell encapsulates me (indescribable), he always reminds me that he loves me, he works hard to take care of us, he loves me even with my many flaws, he calls me babe or baby every day, I love how he kisses my neck, he’s a good lay, he entertains my cooking “experiments”, will go to restaurants he doesn’t like just to make me smile, buys me a Pokémon plush on special occasions just to see me smile, got me kittens just for “emotional support animals”, I love to cuddle him. Probably could think of more.
Cons: Our daughter (neither of us could take care of her alone right now so we may lose her to the state, financial stability (I’m on disability), codependency.
Because we love and support each other. We are the other’s best friend and confidant. We want to continue to build our lives together.
There are too many reasons to stay. But there are likely reasons to leave too. I won’t mention mine here, but that’s because they are far out shined by the reasons to stay. Just be sure to know what’s both good and bad for your relationship.
Communicate compassionately cans and can’ts.
She’s shown me that everything in life doesn’t have to be miserable, she’s given me a reason to live, she’s shown me how I should’ve been treated all along, that I deserve better, and she just feels not only like home, but like magic
He has stuck with me through literally everything. My “best” where I felt on top of the word and also my lowest where I was in the mental hospital. He asks no questions when it comes to loving me . He simply loves me. He doesn’t base his affection and feelings on the current situation. He got to know my soul to the deepest level and has stuck around since.
They are way better than me and out of my league.
She’s my peace and my best half.
She makes me want to be better, and she treats me amazingly. Also, I find her insanely attractive physically and mentally, and I can’t stop smiling when I think of her.
In the meantime, because it is simply far too stressful, financially difficult and associated with so much pain to leave her. Too many lives would be too disadvantaged by it on too many levels. Maybe I’ll find a suitable opportunity in the near future.
If the circumstances weren’t so complicated, I probably would have left her easily and much sooner.