I mean I am a mom myself and I am 27, but it’s easier to find a 20-22 yo guy who is all happy to meet than a guy of my own age or older. It leaves me confused with this question
Why do many guys find milfs attractive?
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I mean I am a mom myself and I am 27, but it’s easier to find a 20-22 yo guy who is all happy to meet than a guy of my own age or older. It leaves me confused with this question
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I mean I am a mom myself and I am 27, but it’s easier to find a 20-22 yo guy who is all happy to meet than a guy of my own age or older. It leaves me confused with this question
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Milfs know what to do with a dick and are a great time. But I also think in addition to the fun , milfs have some natural nurturing aspect that is soothing.
i’m 31 and I would love to meet a milf, even if she’s younger than me. Just saying 🤷🏻♂️.
Porn and American pie… lol
MILFs are easy sex, know what they want, and don’t ask for commitment. That’s why young guys who are into casual sex love them and older guys who want a relationship don’t go anywhere near them
I’m 19 and there’s something about dating a mature woman that just makes sense. Ive always been more mature for my age so I need someone who can be the same way
>it’s easier to find a 20-22 yo guy who is all happy to meet than a guy of my own age or older
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>I am a mom
Beause the young guys are probably more open about this, maybe aren’t even expected to engage with the children. While men in their late 20s may also just go out with childless women in their early 20s, looking for a relationship rather than sex. And maybe they want to start a family, which you already did so they just prefer a woman who is single and childless.
Can I has a crumb of milf?
Because single mothers are easier to smash and get with then single women.
A single mother has a child that she needs to provide for and a man needs to fill that void, so she has fewer options right out the gate.
It’s why I can message a 18-30 year old single mom and instantly get a reply on a dating app or Facebook, I’m talking within the same day. If I message a woman the same age with no kids then I will get a reply 1/10 times.
Most 20-22 men believe that they like someone with experience but eventually they realise that its not all physical there’s a lot of responsibility, emotionally intelligence and maturity is involved for which they are not ready. Whereas 28-29 men would go for women around 20 because they don’t want to be involved in a mature relationship they just want to have fun. That’s what my opinion is.
There just something satisfying about banging some kids mom. then smashing him in COD too.
They know what they want hopefully and hopefully can regulate their emotions
they have experience and she has to actually be attractive to be found attractive
Women who went through childbirth and embrace getting older are sexy. Broadly, they have realistic expectations (outside of tik tok), and are more down to earth.
Young guys are stupid, more hormonally charged and see them as more experienced and fun in bed. Also instinctual looking to mate and a woman who has a kid is attractive due to the ability to procreate so on an instinctual level it would be attractive. As we get older and want to settle down more we realize the headaches of settling down with a woman who has kids already and all the drama that entails dealing with custody, house rules and parenting someone else’s kid. I chose a single mom but, her son was young and had no dad in the picture. Now I view him as my own son and glad I chose her. Honestly would’ve not gotten involved if the ex was in the picture.
have just always been attracted to older women physically, (30s-40s)… I don’t really give a fuck about the sex aspect and them actually having a kid makes them less attractive so its not actually about them being a mom
however the answer to your question is probably more that there’s just more younger guys looking because they haven’t found people or given up yet… you’re not even really milf age tbh, older guys are probably just more often looking for serious relationships and a woman with a kid is a bad time for that
I mean, I am at the age where all my contemporaries are essentially mothers, single mothers, or of the age MILFs are depicted in porn.
Finding people of the same age as I am attractive is not a stretch.
I’m a virgin but a milf knows what she’s doing so I’d much rather an older woman who knows what she’s doing than someone my age who knows what she’s doing bc ppl my age are judgemental
Multiple different causes.
Psycho assholes can string single moms along with money and commitment that doesn’t exist. The most dangerous sexual predators are more interested in your kid(s).
Some younger guys would prefer someone with experience. Some guys are lactation fetishists.
Plenty of moms break up with partner due to ppd and sleepless nights and crazy judgement, eventually hit the bars clubs apps, are deeply insecure because they haven’t lost all the weight or have stretch marks, very easy partner for guys who don’t mind any of that, especially because she has a time limit to return to kid.
Umm yes
MILF is a bit of a meme that rings true once in a blue moon in hook-up culture.
Mom’s in the dating scene is often seen as “baggage” for anyone in a serious relationship search.
Surely you already know that single men your own age or older looking for a relationship doesn’t look for raising someone else’s kid.
Are the younger guys you see interested in relationships or just sex?
When people talk about attraction to “milfs” they’re more so referring to a very stereotypical aesthetic of a mature voluptuous woman rather than the literal fact that a child went through her vaginal canal sometime in her past. For example in porn it’s basically any woman over the age of 30, and in media (e.g. America Pie) they’re always portrayed as being very busty with mature characteristics. I don’t think it’s that much of a mystery why some guys are drawn to that.
Psychologically there might be something to do with the idea of “proven fertility” or a “nurturing personality” or a woman who is “experienced and sexually assertive” but I think a lot of it is just aesthetics.