Why do men call themselves lone wolves when bears, lynxes, pumas and others are actually lone?

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Ignoring the whole alpha wolf thing that’s been proven false by the very man who wrote about this.

But most other predators like bears, lynx’s, pumas and big cats in general are all solitary.

Why don’t they just choose an actual animal that matches their “I want to be alone” phase?

Comments

  1. i_exist_somehow123 Avatar
  2. StormFireX001 Avatar

    Probably specifically because wolves are typically pack animals, so it’s unusual or unique for wolves to survive outside of a pack

  3. ConsciousnessWizard Avatar

    That is the point really. Wolves normally live in pack, so if you are a lone wolve you have detached from the pack and go your own way. Your examples would not work because those are animals that are naturally solitary, so there would be nothing special about being alone.

  4. ghostwillows Avatar

    I like to think they’re just all really into a/b/o werewolf fiction but really they just all look at the same memes

  5. flstcjay Avatar

    Wolves generally hunt in packs, and live communal lives. They follow a pack. Strength in numbers.

    A lone wolf is solitary. Follows no one. Has a solitary existence. Strength from solitary determination and self reliance.

    Lone bear, lone beaver, lone otter just doesn’t have that ring.

  6. iamkristo Avatar

    That’s so alpha bro

  7. ToughSpirited6698 Avatar

    I don’t think you get the phrase.

  8. newEnglander17 Avatar

    Because Lynxes are super lame-looking obviously!

  9. Kian_568 Avatar

    Fck that I’m lone medusa

  10. SexyWampa Avatar

    Because “Bear” and “Cougar” have very specific meanings…

  11. Stranger_404 Avatar

    Lone puma? Lone lynx
    Doesnt sound as cool

  12. Individual-Crew-6102 Avatar

    Aren’t lone wolves usually lone because their own family couldn’t stand having them around?

  13. Patient_Chocolate830 Avatar

    Cause lone squirrel just doesn’t have the same ring to it.

  14. jacobissimus Avatar

    Lone wolf is supposed to be a bad thing—it’s someone who should be a part of a group but isn’t. Usually it’s someone who’s anti-social instead of someone who’s reclusive. People who call themselves lone wolves are just using the expression wrong

  15. MacGuilo Avatar

    Most lones wolves didn’t choose this way to live, it was chosen for them. They made it their own until they find a pack that is worth it to die for.
    That’s what my uncle posted to Facebook so you can have it directly from a, arguably weird, source.

  16. Leashypooo Avatar

    Lone sloth 🦥

  17. BatBeast_29 Avatar

    Which name sounds and looks cooler (besides Lynxes, Idk how those look)

    Nvm, very creepy cats.

  18. ninjette847 Avatar

    The whole point of the saying is that you stray from pack mentality you’re supposed to belong to. Naturally not belonging to a pack would be the opposite of the meaning, you’re doing what you’re supposed to do.

  19. Congregator Avatar

    They aren’t choosing the term “lone wolf”. This is a term used by society, ie, “chances of meeting a girl at a bar while you’re going lone wolf are slip to none”

  20. Henderson-McHastur Avatar

    Because gay dudes got bears, women got cougars, and “lone lynx” just doesn’t sound quite so nice.

  21. numbnom Avatar

    I once got a death stare from this dude calling himself a lone wolf. “Pack left you behind, huh?” Not my smartest move.

  22. tony22233 Avatar

    I’m a lone Lynx.

  23. yourstruly912 Avatar

    They are fans of the classic manga series Lone wolf and club

  24. Major_Twang Avatar

    Because ‘lone wolf’ sounds better than ‘socially awkward incel living in parents basement, watching hentai porn’

  25. IceCrystalSmoke Avatar

    Speciesm. The animal version of racism. Wolves are “cool.”

  26. Ok_Pangolin_180 Avatar

    The whole alpha male; wolf, bear, lion, etc thing is just ridiculous immature sophomoric bull. A bunch of insecure man-babies.

  27. BigDaddyReptar Avatar

    Same reason the phrase fish out of water exists despite birds being the ones in the air

  28. Xxx11q Avatar

    Because men are stupid af

  29. NightmareGorilla Avatar

    Because cultural grifters co-opted it in order to sell dumbass t-shirts to even dumber people and well, there’s a lot of dumb people who buy t-shirts.

  30. aimlessnameless Avatar

    I’m a lone panda. Probably eating or falling over. No clue about anything. Not dangerous at all. Amazed im not dead yet✌️

  31. DesperatePaperWriter Avatar

    I’m a lone puma! Growl 🐯

  32. Pleasant-Newt5805 Avatar

    It’s actually a “loan” wolf. Like a loan shark, but they operate on land.

  33. The_C0u5 Avatar

    The Internet has taught me all men actually have two wolves in them. So even if one of them is lone it’s never truly alone.

  34. boomstick1985 Avatar

    Depends on the convo. Mainly self reliance and figuring it out on your own. Not relying on anyone or have anyone to confide in. Not use to asking for help or knowing what to ask or do.

  35. EngineFace Avatar

    Because a lone bear would just be a bear

  36. Wareve Avatar

    Because bears are gay, lynxes are feminine, pumas are black, and the guys going around calling themselves wolves usually dislike those things.

  37. gucknbuck Avatar

    I mean I consider myself a bear but I’m a big hairy gay guy so that tracks