Why do men just seemingly want to just sleep with me f33 & not anything serious? Believe me, I don’t portray myself in a way to show I am interested in just sex so I don’t know why it keeps happening to me. M33 then an M32 and a M34 all pretended they were seriously wanting to date me

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Comments

  1. Funny_War5883 Avatar

    That’s the reality of dating. Keep looking, you’ll find a decent guy eventually.

  2. Spare_Bus_6362 Avatar

    Men are assholes. Don’t let them discourage you. Good ones are out there.

  3. Sea-Reveal-1379 Avatar

    Because men 🤷‍♀️

    It’s not just you, personally I’m not the least but attractive and I have this problem. They have one thing on their mind only a female can satisfy and they will pretend they like you just to get it most of the time.

  4. BambiMuffy Avatar

    That seems to be the way men are. And that’s a big drag. Try to be just platonic friends with them for as long as possible. If any of them stick around, and you know you can trust them, and if you still have romantic feelings for them, and if they’re good to you, then give it a go. It took me forever to learn this.

  5. Expensive_Magician97 Avatar

    From what I read on Reddit, your experience is not at all unusual.

    And it almost certainly has nothing to do with you, although certainly your own behavior is always worth examining.

    I’m in my mid 60s, a father to two adult kids, one of whom is your age…I spent a very long career managing thousands of people in a professional environment.

    During that time, I worked with very, very few men in their 30s who were mature enough to be ready for any sort of committed relationship.

    There were obviously exceptions.

    I’d be happy to share more with you if you’re interested, but without attempting to explain the behavior of these guys — because that would be unfair in the absence of any additional commentary from you — that is what I would share with you at the moment.

  6. Safe_Scar_4769 Avatar

    you are probably a really pretty girl you need to find someone genuine and try not to have sex for a while until your comfortable and know they really do want you

  7. isamiddelbosch Avatar

    Its because youre not young enough for them anymore.
    Why would you want to be with someone who will only like you for youre youth in the first place.
    Men will always desire younger there is no point in romantically loving a man

  8. MagpieKaz Avatar

    I doubt it has anything to do with you, per se. This is, has been, and will continue to be extremely common.