I just have to be in the same general area as one and that’s enough. Obviously I’m not doing anything strange besides happening to be in the presence of a woman. There aren’t any gaps in my hygiene either. I think it’s probably to do with the way I look.
It doesn’t happen more than the first few times though so when women I see regularly (my teachers) see me, they don’t react
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You’re not cursed just misread. Hold your ground confidence kills false judgment.
What do you look like lol
Fuck them. Live your life. You ain’t here to please them.
I’m not sure what you mean by ‘stank face’
You might just be overthinking.. I mean people are gonna look around with their eyeballs lol. But for the “stank” face if it’s MULTIPLE people girl something’s up
Cuz people can be assholes
Does your face look like a butt?
If you’re noticing it this often, you’re probably staring. You might not think you’re staring, but you’re staring. Just don’t look at strangers in the face if you’re not interacting with them.
Yeah just avoid eye contact with randoms look above or around.
Idk, I have that face naturally when im deep in thought. People always ask if im mad. Maybe they arent paying attention to you amd you only notice the FEW stank faces since youre on the look ojt for them.
Ie, if I am looking for red cars, I will start to think most of the cars I saw are red
Is it the majority of women?
Some women can be well bitches. Some men can be as well. Not everyone will like you, tolerate you, or want to be in your presence. That’s life. I’ve met people who thought I was an asshole from the moment I met them. I try my best to be the nicest person I can be and have friends who state me as such. I’m a much larger guy at 6’5 and sometimes I get looks by people that makes me feel like I’m scary. I garden and am currently working on getting my tomatoes to ripen. I have never been violent and always help friends and family out without question. Point is I consider myself a really calm guy and I haven’t ever been violent or “scary”. Peoples first impressions are always wrong and sometimes peoples experiences has brought them to conclude drastically off. You can’t control how people see you. You can only control how you act. I’m sorry people are getting you down but remember that’s how they see you not how you actually are.
Ok, I’ve told this story before, but I’ve time I was having a debate with myself about a topic that made me really angry. I was concentrating and I’m sure making a really intense stank face. I was staring straight ahead but I was totally lost in the internal debate.
When I looked up, this guy was looking at me with the saddest face. I realized I’d been looking in his direction, even though I have been looking at him. I’m sure he thought o was making the face at him.
He left really quickly and I should have told him I wasnt making the face at him but I was embarrassed and didn’t think.
Anyway that’s my story
I doubt this is happening not because I don’t believe you feel it is – but – Unless you’re looking at them like you’re checking them out in which case maybe, because that’s uncomfortable for us, but you said you aren’t doing anything. If you’re just being and minding your own business that would be rude and highly unusual. Maybe you worry and if they aren’t looking at you in an open, reassuring and friendly way you feel judged, and they wouldn’t look at you like this when you’re a stranger to them.
It could be what’s called “projection” – when you feel a certain way, worry, assume and your brain kind of creates an illusion that it is something coming from the other person, only it’s not. Then when you get comfortable with them and know for certain they have no issue with you, your projection fades away. It sounds kind of weird but it is so common! A lot of people assume right off the bat that they are disliked or someone is rude – but it’s only that they’re projecting their own feelings about themselves and not allowing for the other person to have a particular style.
I know that when I was still in my 20’s men felt dissed if I didn’t smile at them when they looked at me because I was pretty and it was exhausting and I felt obligated and knew if I didn’t smile they’d think, “B*tch”, all because of not being ugly. Now I don’t need to worry, being less noticeable, and it’s such a relief.
Do you have a good posture? Hairstyle affects your looks. I recommend avoiding looking at anyone.
It probably isn’t personal. Some people make snap judgments based on appearance, posture, or even just their mood in the moment. If it stops after a few encounters, it’s likely they just didn’t know how to read you at first
Is there anything unusual about the way you present yourself?