why do some men hate lesbians so much?

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I don’t really know what to put here.

Edit: I did not say all men.

Another edit: talking about those “wellll you haven’t tried it 🤓” types. I also don’t care if it’s not common. It still happens.

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  2. Cyberfaust11 Avatar

    Lesbians hate men so much.

  3. cheshire666_ Avatar

    They can’t stand that it’s not about them

  4. Ahshitbackagain Avatar

    Bigger question is, who in your life is making you think this is a thing?

  5. DenyNowBragLater Avatar

    Presumably, because in their minds, women exist for their pleasure, not each other’s.

  6. potcake80 Avatar

    Why do people do what they do? I’ve never come across this but I’m sure there is a few out there

  7. IskanderOK Avatar

    Iam pretty sure that 90% of men like to watch girl on girl porn. So its probably not about lesbians, but personality.

  8. catcat1986 Avatar

    I don’t think any man hates lesbians. There is a segment of men who are at odds with women who are generally discuss patriarchy, and woke stuff. I think lesbians have a tendency to be on the more “women are oppressed” spectrum which probably irritates a portion of men.

  9. GeorgeGiffIV Avatar

    I live by the idea of love who you love. As long as you both are consenting adults, what business is it of mine.

  10. Hanjaro31 Avatar

    I would assume this is more of a right wing men thing. They get upset when women are “not out to fuck them, or not required to”.

  11. No_Egg3139 Avatar

    I would counter – why do so many women hate bisexual men so much? probably similar reasons.

    people are ignorant af, in every group.

  12. Nephilim6853 Avatar

    I completely understand the attraction of lesbianism. I love women, love poontang. The only thing that annoys me, is meeting an attractive lesbian, being able to joke and laugh with them, but there not be any interest sexually reciprocated.

    I worked with a lesbian, I was so into her, I even told her straight up that I wanted her, she was like a buddy. She liked hanging out with me, but she didn’t see me like that and I couldn’t handle the unrequited interest.

  13. BiggieTwiggy1two3 Avatar

    One stole his girl.

  14. Automatic_Teach1271 Avatar

    It’s the Republican, conservative cults

  15. MuthaPlucka Avatar

    Holy craperoonie OP wins “most likely to troll” class prize .

  16. Praetorian80 Avatar

    Why does anyone hate anyone?

  17. poormansRex Avatar

    I would imagine this is a thing, since their are all types. But most men dont care enough to care. I lived with 2 when I was younger, and didn’t really think much about it at all.

  18. freekin-bats11 Avatar

    Misogyny and homophobia most likely

  19. veritas_quaesitor2 Avatar

    I’ve never met a guy that hates lesbians.

  20. KyorlSadei Avatar

    Why do some women hate captain crunch cereal? Its such a thing to ask why some men hate something. Can be lots of different reasons. Bad experiences with lesbians. Could be religious reasons. Could be disgust. Pick which ever one makes you feel better.

  21. Educational_Scar_933 Avatar

    The real question is why do lesbians hate men so much? Cuz that is for sure a thing

  22. stacey1771 Avatar

    because they can’t ‘convert’ them.

  23. Dismal-Diet9958 Avatar

    I don’t I have frequently identified as a lesbian trapped in a mans body.

    I was once asked how I viewed lesbian women. I answered in 1080P.

  24. 19ghost89 Avatar

    I’m not sure that many men hate lesbians, but I do think a lot of men really do not like women who are not “feminine.” So lesbians who present with masculine characteristics draw a lot of ire from more traditional, conservative men because they feel like women should be a certain way and it makes them mad that they aren’t. These same men probably have a strong dislike for other men who present in feminine ways.

  25. BigMax Avatar

    Is that a thing? I’ve never heard it even once.

    Other that the few general bigots who hate all LGBTQ people, but never specifically lesbians…

  26. Pumbaasliferaft Avatar

    You might as well ask why do some people hate some people

  27. Edcrfvh Avatar

    I would guess some men hate lesbians because they have set up a home where men aren’t the center of the family. I imagine these men are very patriarical. And yes there are men who hate lesbians. Just because you don’t know any doesn’t mean they don’t exist.

  28. PointToTheDamage Avatar

    Makes wild claim

    Doesn’t back it up or elaborate at all

  29. LarkScarlett Avatar

    There is a segment of men who feel entitled to female attention, who are used to being catered to with media etc. centring the “male gaze”. Lesbians are not doing ANYTHING to satisfy the male gaze, or to appear sexually attractive to men. And that segment of men is outraged that lesbians don’t give an F about what the menfolk want (beyond safety or career impacts). Those men can’t accept that it’s not about them.

    Think about the discourse around some men telling women “you should smile more”, generally because the example man considers women more beautiful or approachable when they smile. But why is the women supposed to conform to random stranger man’s expectations and fulfil his beauty ideas? Why is her mood ABOUT HIM? I feel that this segment of men are frequently among those that get outraged over/with lesbians.

  30. Md655321 Avatar

    The first three reasons to come to mind would be religion. Lesbians violate their preconceived hierarchy of gender relations or they got rejected by one and are holding a grudge.

  31. SnoopyisCute Avatar

    Heterosexual men are brainwashed to believe that any and all vaginas should be accessible to them.

    Therefore, they hate ALL threats to that nonsense.

    LGBTQ
    Asexual
    Vows of celibacy
    Childless by Choice
    Happily unattached
    Uninterested in being bangmaids
    Uninterested in being breeding heifers
    Partners unwilling to tolerate abuse, cheating and liars
    Independent women that don’t need a damn thing from them

    Don’t believe me? Watch any news clip of a halfway pretty woman of childbearing age. Almost always, a cop will be quoted as saying “What a waste”.

    Still don’t believe me? Why did men have to whine to their elected lawmakers to silence girls and women in their own healthcare so rapists can choose the mothers of their kids (even if she’s a kid)?

    Still dont’ believe me? Why did so called “concerned fathers” bitch and moan about tampon machines in school bathrooms with the argument they don’t want anything in their daughter’s vaginas until she gets married. Non-pervertsnon-pedophiles aren’t thinking about their daughter’s vaginas.

    Still don’t believe me? Check out the sub When Women Refuse.

    Notice how the current pedo in office runs to his helicopter parents in SCOTUS to whine? Look at how many of them were confirmed despite a mountain of testimonies from their alleged victims.

  32. CountessLyoness Avatar

    Some guys think lesbians need ‘fixing’. That they haven’t met the right guy or found the right dick. They can’t stand that a woman doesn’t see a man as the center of her universe. They can’t understand how she can find happiness with a woman and he can’t.

    Guys like that have the emotional range of a teaspoon and the intellect of a koala.