Why do some men like unstable women?

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I noticed it attracts men more when the woman is crazy.

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  2. Lemmy_Axe_U_Sumphin Avatar

    Savior complex. “I can fix her.”

  3. steak-n-jake Avatar

    It’s kinda the same for everyone. Men like manic women because in their mind it looks like unbridled positivity and sexuality. Women like narcissists because it appears as self confidence. It’s all limerance. We see what we want to see when we’re lonely. Also I should point out that this question appears a little biased

  4. Opheliastouch Avatar

    Easier to control

  5. Slugginator_3385 Avatar

    There is some correlation with “crazy in the head means she is crazy in bed.”

  6. Bright-Invite-9141 Avatar

    Two reasons, bad guy easy to get in bed. Good guy to hold your hand and help you back up. The issue is have you got the knowledge to know the difference

  7. HowsTheBeef Avatar

    I think the phrase “we accept the love we think we deserve” has a place here.

    I think many times people are raised in unstable families, and so coping with that instability is seen as love.

    Maybe someone’s mom is very dramatic, and their dad has unrelenting patience. This dynamic is the child’s model for love, and will seek out unstable people to be patient for.

    Everyone has thier own reasons for love, though. There’s no single answer.

  8. TheOneSmall Avatar

    I hear they are good in the sack

  9. DryFoundation2323 Avatar

    Mostly because they have boobs and a vagina. Sometimes the little head doesn’t think very clearly.

  10. elnusa Avatar

    I doubt they really like them (at the very least not for a long term thing). I’d say there are two types of guys who enter into this type of relationship:

    1. The deseperate guys who would take anyone (usually their only requirements is their own physical attraction to the woman) even if they must “fix” them.

    2. The assholes who know these women are unstable and want to take advantage.

  11. Round_Caregiver2380 Avatar

    All the grip they lose on reality moves to their vagina.

  12. Not_Cool_Ice_Cold Avatar

    Because they tend to be better at sex.