I do love sex talk but having my partner call me “daddy” or anything like that creeps and weirdos me out a little bit. I usually don’t remark on it or pretend I don’t hear it until it goes too far and it usually doesn’t. I don’t have any daughters but I think my reaction would be worse if I did
For women that call their guys daddy during sex, why do you do it, and what does it mean? đł
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Just tell her youâre not into it dude.
Some people find it hot, some donât.
I’m guessing it has to do with power play
it means you’re doing good
ETA daddy is a function of energy, not age. it means you make them feel safe enough to be the sexual beings that they are. potentially they also want to be dominated. believe me, they think you have old man energy they wouldn’t be having sex with you at all.
I slipped up during sex shortly after our first kid was born and said it on a whim. Now he likes it. Something between a slight dom/sub dynamic and the reminder of successful breeding. He called it “primal”. We never used it before the kid.
For the record I, the mom, call him dad in front of our kid, and our kid oddly calls him father, so no one uses “daddy” in the house….so there’s no overlap. I, personally, think an overlap would make it weird for both of us.
Edit: I say slipped up cuz its never a good idea to introduce new things mid game.
Most, but not all of the time, it stems from a troubled relationship with their father’s or father figures in their life.
I cant speak for those women who come from physically or sexually abusive background, though the kink does often apply to those situations as well, but my wife and her father have a strange relationship. Hes very overbearing, protective and occassionally emotionally abusive.
She loves him and they talk on the phone for a few mins almost everyday but he definitely messed her up in some ways. And so she has a hard time with male authority and standing up for herself sometimes. Especially with past relationships
Enter: me. I am dominant, masculine and protective BUT I am absolutely an emotionally intelligent person; she can feel safe with me in all aspect of life and so that leaked into our sex life too. The “daddy” thing came very naturally not long after we started dating. I can understand why some aren’t into it but we found out quickly that our kinks line up REALLY well, and this was just the tip of the iceberg.
Tldr most women with a “daddy kink” have problems with their own male familial relationships and feeling safe with someone in and outside the bedroom can lead to being called ‘daddy’ in bed.
I can understand why some find it creepy and strange but we find it strange and hot so whatever floated your boat!!!
Don’t forget though that a fom-sub relationship requires care outside if sex!!! Aftercare is important for sub and dom!!!
I love it in porn, hate it in real life.
It’s just a less-sexy, less-worldly version of “papi”.
Ya that definitely doesnât work for me. It is creepy as hell. I canât even count how many otherwise decent porn videos that âdaddyâ shit has ruined.
It’s the new form slang of master or dom or someone with control over you. that’s all really nothing more to read into about it.