I met this guy a while ago. He’s younger than me by about 3 years. When I met him he was single. He discussed his break up with me. Long story short we got intimate.
Shortly there after I found out he got back with his ex. He thinks I don’t know. He was told that I do in fact know but he didn’t believe it.
Anytime he is going to mention her he says “my friend” “I was at a friends house”
I get along with his family so I occasionally spend the night. Sometimes two nights in a row. He’s never there. He comes home at 8am in the surprised to see me there. It’s usually I’m leaving as he’s coming In so it’s just hi and bye. I mean where else would you be but your girlfriend’s house?
I saw him last week and he had a hickey on his face and said he got burned by a catalytic converter. When I saw him yesterday there was no mark on his cheek. No scar. Nothing.
Im genuinely curious. I mean, yeah we slept together—big deal. It’s your personal life and you don’t have to tell me anything but why hide your girlfriend??????
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Cause he has underlying motives. Guy friends tend to develop feelings and hide them. They will hide parts of their love life or get jealous about yours.
If his girlfriend finds out that a girl (especially one he hooked up with!) Is sleeping over at his house, even when he isn’t there (which kind of makes it more weird), she’s gonna be mad. And you’ll probably have to stop being friends. Or he thinks you’ll stop wanting to be “friends”