we’ve been dating 6 months and I notice whenever we’re parting ways he doesn’t initiate a goodbye hug or kiss, just says “see ya!” and starts walking away. I have to say “where do you think you’re going??” and run after him to which he acts confused until I try to kiss him. It’s really weird and I can’t think of a reason why he’d be this way, especially bc he’s affectionate while we’re hanging out. He just came back from a work trip so I haven’t seen him in days and after hanging out he went to go home, not even then did he want to hug/kiss me goodbye. Now we won’t see each other until tomorrow night. Does this mean he doesn’t like me anymore?
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Everyone is different and that specific thing might not come naturally to him.
Just ask him. I don’t think reddit has the answer for this one.
Ask him.
definitely ask him why he does that to make sure there is no weird or ill intentions. i do think it’s weird that multiple times you’ve had to ask for a kiss. cause most men 16-25 i feel like can’t keep their hands and lips off their partner. but everyone’s different maybe he is just less experienced with this stuff !