Why the fuck would you do this?

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Why the fuck would you show signs of liking me if you’ve been in a relationship this entire time? Why the fuck would you do this?

Turns out i was delusional this whole fucking time even though i knew we would never be a possibility. It’s no wonder i felt strange whenever you showed signs of liking me.
Good thing i never responded to those signs.

One whole year of knowing each other and turns out you’ve been in a relationship this whole time. What the hell is wrong with me

It’s 4am and i just want some sleep. I’m so tired.

I’m so confused.

Comments

  1. Narrow-Can-6832 Avatar

    Why you acting like I did it

  2. gooberfaced Avatar

    You responding would have provided them validation of their attractiveness/desirability.

  3. Eliusesreddit Avatar

    I love Reddit crashouts

  4. Addicted1_42 Avatar

    People be crazy.
    That’s why.

  5. psycharious Avatar

    I’m curious, could you have misinterpreted those signs? Maybe she was just being chill with a person she thought was friendly.

  6. ThrowAwayDkGuy Avatar

    Block and move on

  7. 43verskys Avatar

    Makes me wonder if this a “She said she was single and led me on” OR a “We never talked about relationships, never really brought it up for some weird reason, we’re friends, we’re vibing, we’re having a good time, and then she brings up her spouse.” Cue the crashout

    Genuinely just curious because both have happened to me too

  8. SillyStallion Avatar

    If a year on you didn’t know they were in a relationship, then you were never anything.

    Stop confusing politeness with flirting.

  9. EverythingBOffensive Avatar

    You were next in line. Some women like to keep backup.

  10. forestfairygremlin Avatar

    Unless this person told you they were interested in you, they did not lead you on.

    Sometimes people are just nice. Why the fuck do so many folks misinterpret kindness for attraction?

  11. Patrickgotback Avatar

    How can you know someone for a year and not know they’re in a relationship?

  12. urmommalol07 Avatar

    yeah i’m sorry. i’ve been on a 2-3 hr sleep schedule for a few weeks now because of my breakup. keep your head up.

  13. TheNameless00 Avatar

    I’m sorry. I won’t do it again