I (22F) recently moved in with my boyfriend (26M) and ever since I moved in almost 5 months ago we’ve has sex maybe 3 times. This wasn’t a normal pace for us before, so I’m confused what’s changed.
I’ve asked if he dislikes me, lost interest, anything.. He’s started saying he doesn’t look at me and think to have sex as a “close thing to be physically intimate”, that climaxing for him is just to, “get the job done”… It was never like this before.
We were very close, and regularly intimate. I don’t greatly understand what’s happening.
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Porn addiction?
Hes cheating
As a woman I don’t know, but have you two explored all the things he’d like to? Is he okay? It’s weird he can masturbate but not want sex… maybe your cooch isn’t compatible? I’m sorry if that’s not help… I’ve never had this kind of problem. If you had a conversation about it, your feelings, his feelings and what you expect in the future I bet you’d find the information you’re hoping for. I hope it works out! Kegel exercises are awesome!!
Many men are pigs. I’m sorry.
girl is moving back out an option?
Literally dealing with this issue rn lol so I can totally relate it’s so odd and disappointing , I feel so insecure
100% too much masturbation.
It’s crazy to me that anytime a man gets on here complaining that his wife doesn’t want to sleep with him the comments are all about what’s wrong with him and how he should treat her better or help around the house more etc. etc. but when a woman makes the same complaint the comments are also all about what’s wrong with him and he must be cheating and it’s all his fault. Do not come to Reddit for advice. These are not real people with life experience upon which they’re basing any advice they give. Reddit comments are a cesspool.
You need to help him out of the closet. He should be boning you senseless.
Buy a comicly large dildo and say ” guess where this is going”.