im confused on why my ‘27M’ ex gf ‘25F’ kept asking if i love her
we work together
she broke up with her ex and pursued me
talked a ton of shit on him then we broke up amicably
few months later after we broke up she got back with him and are living together
then she was mad/jealous etc when i got in a relationship
which im no longer in
we have talked a bit more and more and yesterday she called me super drunk asking if i could pick her and her friends up this isnt the first time.
i went there and she was very flirty and constantly hugging me and stuff and she kept asking as well as her friends kept asking if i love her.
i told her i deeply care about her and love her as a friend but idk they kept asking me and her friend said that she thinks we are meant to be.
i feel as though she is taking advantage of me and i dont know what to do.
I told her ill always be there for her cause we’ve gone through a lot together but at the end of the day her “boyfriend” is the one she goes home to.
idk if she wanted validation as well or what?? so many thoughts are going through my brain and im simply just tired. i got cheated on in the recent relationship and i feel im just stuck in a constant wheel of getting mentally fucked.
any input is greatly appreciated as i dont know what to do.
tldr; ex gf and her friends drunkenly asked me multiple times if i love her