I’m not tripping out over being upset at this right..?
My guy friend M25 has made me feel upset over some of the things he says or does and I F25 feel like he forgets some of the hurtful things and proceeds to act in certain ways.
Some of those things are taking a week to reply (but is active on social media) when I respond to him about serious family matters after he asks how things are going. I understand everyone is busy and has things going on & I always keep telling him to lmk if he’s too busy to talk instead of leaving me on read bc otherwise he makes me feel ignored. He always says sorry and he won’t do it again but ends up doing it anyway.
Another time was when he got super c*ked up and blasted my phone 7 times in the middle of the night asking me to come over and spend time time with him bc he likes talking to me and being open with me. I told him that was disrespectful to me and my time, and if he really enjoyed my company he would’ve made more of an effort to be with me sober and that I also don’t condone this use. I told him that I care about his well being and shouldn’t be doing those things. (This was not the first time he’s done this wasted)
He said sorry and he would try more.
A few months later I suggested to hang out on a weekend since we’re both busy especially him and it would be nice to plan a beach day for the one time. I was trying to mend things and take the friendship in a different turn since the whole incident with the c*ke made things upsetting. He told me, “but I like doing stuff on weekends.”
🙃 I got really hurt he disregarded me in that way and he thought I was tripping over it lol. He still hasn’t said sorry or doesn’t see how what he said was hurtful and that hurts me even more.
I feel like such a fool for still holding the door open for a friendship. But at the same time I can’t help but wonder am I tripping over these things???