I’m trying to figure out what to do. I spend probably 4500 a month paying for all are bills. When she makes decent money not as much a me but she complains about a truck payment and expects me to buy everything when I’m maxed out I can’t even buy anything. I’m so sick of it but when I try to talk to her about it just turns in to a big fight. Plus we don’t sleep together or do anything else.
I just want to leave an find someone that is better then her. But I love my Kids even though they are 27 and 23. I don’t want to hurt them and are family members.
Please give me advice!
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I can feel how exhausted and alone you are in all of this. You’re doing everything you can to keep things together, and it hurts when it feels like your effort isn’t seen or appreciated. That kind of weight is so heavy, especially when there’s love for your kids and fear of breaking the family. But please remember your peace matters too. You deserve support, connection, and someone who truly meets you halfway. It’s okay to want more, to need more. Maybe it’s time to have a real conversation, or even bring in help like a counselor to figure out the next steps.
You’re not selfish for wanting to be happy, you’re human.