I (37F) use to own a cafe and a (44m)man would often come in and presue me. To cut a long story short, he told me he’s separated with his wife and that he wants to start something sexual with me. I refused that arrangement and haven’t spoken to him for months.
Anyway his wife randomly called me and asked how I knew her husband and wanted screenshots of our conversations bcos he has deleted the whatsapp chat. Let me be VERY clear. Him and I did nothing sexual etc and he was presuing me for almost a year. Our conversations have him saying he wants to F-ck me in a hotel etc and also has me rejecting him.
Should I send the wife the screenshots? I don’t want choas or drama .
TL/DR wife if a man wants screenshots of him presuing me. Do I send?
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Yes do the right thing and help her not loose more years of her life on this man
Do not get involved idiot
Help a fellow woman out
I wouldn’t send those to her unsolicited but if she’s asking you directly why not? Personally I’m always ready to help a woman leave a man!
Nothing wrong with saying you’re side and not getting involved emotionally.
From a woman to another woman send that screenshot to her woman should support woman .
Tell her you’ll send her the texts of your convo on the condition that she never ever texts or contacts you again.
Someday maybe women will learn that a man — a complete stranger — wanting to f*ck (us) isn’t a compliment. It’s no different than a man wanting to use the toilet, and it’s gross.
You already know this.
Women need to know their worth, and to not let themselves be used as toilets.
If she has kids, she deserves financial support from him in the divorce. Give her what she needs to get it.
I would send them, you don’t owe him anything and it’s his fault anyway.
There’s definitely an argument to be made that sending screenshots is the right thing to do. If you’re comfortable, that’s what I would do.
But it does seem like a lot of drama. It’s perfectly understandable if you’d rather not be involved.
Personally, I think I’d send her screenshots of everything plus a fairly detailed account of what happened in person and then block them both to avoid being pulled in any further.
Honestly, I’d just send them. Along with a message that they can figure out whatever is going on with them among themselves, without you. If need be, block the both of them afterward to keep your own peace.
Be ready for retaliatory reviews on your cafe.