Wife’s friend cheating on husband

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My wife has a colleague who lives in another state and has recent confided that she is sleeping with a guy that she knows through church. Yes, church lol. Got to love the Deep South. My wife’s friend is married and has two young kids, refuses marriage counseling and generally seems unhappy. I hear about this shit all the time and my reaction is get help for the situation or divorce. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. I know the husband who is being cheated on. I don’t know the guy from church but apparently he is single. The whole situation is fucked up. Apparently there are more guys this floozy is talking with and might be sleeping with. I feel terrible for her husband and want to say something but am afraid of blowback and possibly ending a friendship. Any thoughts would be helpful.

Comments

  1. AssistanceOk3669 Avatar

    You really want to be friends with a person like that?

    Her husband deserves to know. If he stays so be it, but he has the right to have that agency.

  2. PurpleSandwiches Avatar

    definitely tell them, i’m sure you’d want to know if you were in this situation

  3. Medicus825 Avatar

    Honestly this poor husband. If I was you I would inform him about his wife’s foul play. This woman is just so disgusting, instead of being honest to her husband telling him that she’s apparently not happy, she’s playing him for a fool, mocking him and letting him pay everything for her so that she can have her cake eaten! The only reason why she doesn’t want to leave her husband is because he’s supporting her financially. Both (wife+ap) are disgusting and both should suffer for their betrayal. You should absolutely inform this poor husband!

  4. MrWright62 Avatar

    If a person is willing to lie and maintain infidelity with their spouse, imagine how little they care about being truthful with YOU. Also, I would want someone to tell me if my spouse was cheating. Especially if I was also friends with the person that knows

  5. ZenKoko Avatar

    You can plot and let them know I’m subtle ways. Hehe fuck cheaters to hell

  6. thousandhooks Avatar

    If roles were reversed would you want him to tell you? I think we all would brother. Don’t forget the bro code.

  7. Ok_Dealer8113 Avatar

    What the hell these people saying “tell him”
    NOOOO
    mind your business, do not get caught up in other people’s domestic issues. You are gonna get shot lmao