I’m asking out of genuine curiosity. A friend shared that she’s experienced deeper emotional intimacy with women than she ever has with men.
If you’ve ever felt this way, what helped those connections feel more emotionally fulfilling or comfortable for you?
Totally okay if this is a personal or nuanced thing-just trying to understand different perspectives better
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It’s hard to describe. There is something much more intimate about the entire experience. Dates don’t feel like they have to be a prelude to sex, but if they are, I’ve found the sex way more passionate and fulfilling (on average). I Andino have a 100% orgasm rate with women, whereas men are…less than 100% to say the least lol
I’ve also enjoyed spending time with women a lot more because it’s easier to find shared hobbies and make a connection. One of my better dates was with a woman where we got a museum, came back to my place, reported some plants, made a little impromptu charcuterie and cuddled while we watched a movie. I’m not super experienced, but the to times that I’ve been with women have been like a completely different type of encounter altogether.
There’s just “more.” Loving a woman is free-falling with no ground. With men, there’s always a limit to how much they can love. With women, there isn’t.