Women with guy best friends, what makes him a good friend and what are the traits and boundaries in your friendship?

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🙂 asking to see from the other perspective.

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  1. indiangoi Avatar

    It’s a myth🤣

  2. Money-Beginning747 Avatar

    He’s honestly like another brother. He’s someone I know I can count on. 

    We have mostly the same boundaries as I have with my same-sex friendships. I may share a room on vacation with a female friend and I wouldn’t do that with him, for optics. That’s the only difference in boundaries I can think of.

  3. Honest_Point4176 Avatar

    They like to listen without judging much, can handle my tantrums and can always count on them in emergency. What else one want.

  4. Cautious_Ice_884 Avatar

    Hes like a brother to me. He gives me opinions of my guy issues and visa versa. Its good to have an outside guy prospective on relationship issues. We also talk about stuff I could NEVER talk about with my girlfriends. Like dumb toilet humor and inside jokes from over the years. Or we’ll talk about deep shit like depression. Theres a real bond there where we can talk about the real shit with no judgement and a safe space. Theres no boundaires in that way, like I would never ever hook up with him. I’m also bi and would also never ever hook up with any of my girlfriends so I dont know if that makes a difference either to mention that lol. Hes a good person and like a brother to me.