Would you confess this?

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All the men I have dated have said they’ve never been this attracted to anyone. I know it sounds like bragging but please hear my doubt. I genuinely don’t think I present myself / fit a sexual archetype. I can see it in other women, but I look nothing like them apart from the basics.

My question comes from the two men I have dated have said the same thing to me. That they have never been so sexually attracted to someone… I honestly don’t know if this is a super common pickup line but please tell me if it is or I might actually believe it lol.

I tried searching if others have experienced this and I can’t find anything. Tell me, as a man, would you use this as a pick up line or is it a genuine confession? Have you experienced this with a partner?

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  2. MourdineTheViking Avatar

    As a sort of pickup line, I might say I’ve never felt so strongly about someone than I have about you, but not that I have never felt something for anyone else. Just me tho

  3. SadSickSoul Avatar

    I mean, it sounds like it could be a real thing. Sometimes it’s not a matter of aesthetic beauty or something, just a combination of factors – physically, emotionally, in personality – that rev’s someone engine a lot more than they’ve ever experienced. I could see it being something that people feel the need to confess to if they can’t put a specific finger on exactly what about a partner drives them so wild – it’s not just “hey, I think you’re hotter than anyone I’ve ever dated”, it’s about electricity and connection. Is it common? I don’t know, I’m not exactly surveying dudes’ pickup lines. I feel like it’s an admission of pretty personal investment to just be a random throwaway line in a date, though, especially from multiple people. So…I guess just take people at face value, but keep your eyes peeled for anything else that seems particularly shady, manipulative, love-bomby or insincere. Otherwise, keep doing what you’re doing I guess!

  4. Ready-Studio5714 Avatar

    It doesnt have to be true, it can just mean a way of saying hey… you’re super attractive. That’s all. In mh eyes my wife is that woman

  5. mollywhopperz Avatar

    As a women, every man I’ve ever been with has said something along these lines to me, pick up line for sure

  6. Excellent_Speed6929 Avatar

    Could just be that your more tolerant than some of the other girls in their past who they have also had interest in, so considering your hot and accepting of them they could be infatuated.

    For example I always had girlfriends who were double to triple my size, up until my last ex, she essentially looked like Jwow, More tattoos, and I was infatuated with her.

  7. Material_Disaster638 Avatar
  8. Gullible_Egg_6539 Avatar

    Maybe it just means you’re so fat you have a big gravitational pull, who knows. Have you ever experienced signs of becoming a black hole or neutron star?

  9. GTTrush Avatar

    They use the term, “Sexually attracted.” It’s a boots call.. They want to “hit it and quit it.” I mean, what else you got going on?