yes the title is my question with the context that the guy is 100% loyal and honest one women guy would live in same boundaries in which he is keeping you
( there is much things from last few weeks going on with me actually i want a pov of women and suggestion on my situation because i already had men advice so if there is anyone who don’t mind could freely dm )
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Insecurities can be tough to handle, communication is key to making it work.
No because insecure people do the craziest shit
I mean it depends on what you mean buy insecure
Yes but only if his insecurity doesn’t cage you. Loyalty means nothing if love feels like surveillance a good man protects without controlling, and trusts without testing.
If the guy is trying to do something about it to change, yes. But if they just use it as excuses, no.
If I love him, Yes. As long as I see progress.
Depends on how he deals with his insecurities.
If he tries to deal with *his* insecurities by controlling *my* behavior, I’m out of there! And if he tries to deal with his insecurities by demanding constant reassurance, well, I don’t want to spend my life dealing with another person’s insecurities, not unless they’re putting as much effort into dealing with mine.
Can you give me examples of how this insecurity manifests itself? What kind of boundaries are you talking about?
Are you actively working on the insecurity?
No, living with a controlling insecure guy will drain you emotionally
Is grass green and water blue?
I was pretty insecure during my first relationship, and i can understand why some people wouldn’t want to life with someone like that as i needed a lot of reassuring. HOWEVER, i also am a firm believer in that, if someone is very insecure, the right person can also make that person more confident, if she (in my case) is willing to work on it together and tries to give him different perspectives on things.