Would you hate your child if they were me?

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I went through medical treatments as a kid that left me disabled and were probably malpractice, now that the treatments have actually stopped my health is better but some things still aren’t right, like still really wrong. I’m going everything I can to fix what the treatments broke but it is slow and I feel like I am running out of time. I am afraid if I don’t fix myself now I won’t be able to care for my mom as she gets older and more disabled herself.

Would you hate/resent your child for them not being able to fix themselves after doctors negligence made your child sick? Especially if they couldn’t fix it now that they’re an adult? I’m so scared my mom hates me for being broken, that her life would have been easier if she could have filed a wrongful death lawsuit instead of having a disabled adult child.

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  2. Substantial-Spare501 Avatar

    No. A parents love is limitless. (I mean most kind loving parents).