I’d rather be last. My girlfriend lost a close family member recently and I wouldn’t want her again (or any of my family members) to go through that because of my death.
I want to be the last between me and my wife, I do not want her to feel the pain of losing a life partner, friend and mate. I want to go before either of my children. No parent should ever have to bury their children. The thought alone terrifies me. Of my siblings it does not really matter and I assume that I’ll go somewhere in the middle.
this is kind of hard, if you’re First, everyone around you has to deal with that pain, but you don’t, but if you’re last you have to deal with ALL of the pain.
Personally I’ll say first, I don’t like loss or having to help others while I’m feeling exactly what they are, it may be selfish but if I’m mourning I don’t want to console others.
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I’d rather be last. My girlfriend lost a close family member recently and I wouldn’t want her again (or any of my family members) to go through that because of my death.
I’m hoping my husband and I go together. Neither of us will be able to live easily without the other.
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Why would I go to other people’s funerals, if they won’t come to mine?
This may be selfish, but I would definitely want to be first because I cant stand the thought of going through the death of a loved one.
As long as I go before my kids (touch wood) I’m okay with however it plays out
Last. I am a story teller at heart. I would tell their story.
Depends. What is the situation?
In what context?
I want to be the last between me and my wife, I do not want her to feel the pain of losing a life partner, friend and mate. I want to go before either of my children. No parent should ever have to bury their children. The thought alone terrifies me. Of my siblings it does not really matter and I assume that I’ll go somewhere in the middle.
I would prefer first… seeing the others who are no longer here is terrible
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Last to watch the world die……..everything on it…..witness..
First, it’s very painful for those left behind
this is kind of hard, if you’re First, everyone around you has to deal with that pain, but you don’t, but if you’re last you have to deal with ALL of the pain.
Personally I’ll say first, I don’t like loss or having to help others while I’m feeling exactly what they are, it may be selfish but if I’m mourning I don’t want to console others.