Would you trade lives with a women, if so, why/why not?

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If a divine power offered you the option to go through life as a 100% woman- would you?

Same question to any women reading (obviously the trade is to be a man though)

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  1. Cyanora Avatar

    No, I don’t think I could survive as a shared hive mind /s

    Honestly, nah I don’t think I could. Most women I know require way more patience and social awareness than I am capable of possessing.

  2. Adaptation44 Avatar

    No way. Don’t need that kind of drama

  3. AleksandrNevsky Avatar

    Would I relive my life as one or just like continue on from here as one?

  4. HookerHenry Avatar

    Look, I know we have it much harder in dating. But you couldn’t pay me a billion dollars to trade lives with a woman. Count your blessings boys.

  5. pantz86 Avatar

    No, my penis is awesome

  6. LagGyeHumare Avatar

    Nope. They have it rough from childhood (in my country)

    Maybe I could swap lives with my partner just to let her live my privileged life.

  7. furutam Avatar

    Be generally more capable, less lonely, and live longer? Sign me the hell up.

  8. MoistConnoisseur Avatar

    I would if I could keep my identity and my wife. She’s bi and would be cool with it. And I’d be rid of my man body that I hate.

  9. jmon__ Avatar

    I can’t imagine I would trade my life for anyone with a different trait to be honest. I wouldnt choose being a woman, not black, a different country, or someone in a different social class than I started as

  10. Common_Juggernaut724 Avatar

    I mean, I’d like to live this life out though. But if I could be reborn as one I’d definitely do that

  11. KYRawDawg Avatar

    No, I don’t think that I would be interested in doing this. I enjoy being a man, and although I don’t know what it’s like to be a woman, I’m not sure I would want to.

  12. crossplanetriple Avatar

    Yes.

    I would just marry up and not have to work. And if the guy does not like it, I would use our western laws to divorce, take half of his assets and repeat.

  13. Dweebzy Avatar

    I would absolutely want to live my next life as a man. Not even a question. Even if I was short and had a small d.

    Being a woman sucks in pretty much every aspect. Mentally emotionally and physically

  14. Efficient-Log8009 Avatar

    I’m too used to being who I am but there are some factors that I just look at and can’t believe how easy it is for women these days.

  15. MisogenesXL Avatar

    I’d much rather some sorcery happens where everyone views me as a woman, but I get to keep my stats.

  16. 5ft6manlet Avatar

    I’m not even finished with this life as a man.

  17. SaraDee1224 Avatar

    Obviously if you know anything about me. But I have always totally admired women

  18. MindlessDouchebag Avatar

    No. If I had the choice, I would live all my lives as a man. Every. Single. One. I disliked the idea of being a woman long before I ever really thought I was a man. It was only as an adult that I understood that most men don’t actually feel this way. To me, being a man has so few downsides compared to being a woman. Being a woman seems like 95% downsides to me (no offense), while being a man is like, 10% downsides.

    Though I honestly really dislike the idea of “past lives” or whatever, it makes me feel like less of an individual and more of just a faceless cog in a machine. Idk why so many people are caught up with the idea. I am much more comfortable with being one person, one being, one life. Why should there be more than that?

  19. StradlinX Avatar

    Haha very interesting. Out of curiosity I’ve asked several men and women if they would switch to the opposite gender in the past years and the near total majority said that they would not (I’d guestimate I’ve probably asked about 20ish people this question in the past 10 years about same for both male and female).

    I am a male and would not give up standing to pee and not having to deal with periods. But that is because that is what I am used to. People are used to their physical attributes, hormones, and developmental differences that, in my experience and curiosity of this question, make it very hard to give up your own cisgender.

    That being said, my sample size was very low and obviously everyone has their unique experience.

  20. Wide_Ad_7607 Avatar

    Respectfully, helllll no

  21. IrregularBastard Avatar

    I couldn’t last with the constant need to socialize and weaponize information.

  22. KM_WIMD Avatar

    Nope. I prefer the company of men for everything whether it be friendship, romance, or sex. Men are absolutely amazing.

  23. Impossible_Cry_4301 Avatar

    I don’t think so. Being a man is fulfilling. I’m not saying that it isn’t being a woman. Bodily functions like periods and child rearing are not processes I want to deal with. Dating would be easier but that’s something you can grow in as a man.

  24. SgtSplacker Avatar

    I would love the idea of unlimited sex. But hate the idea of not wanting it.

  25. rooftopworld Avatar

    The way the title reads, I get to do some Freaky Friday shit. Do I get to be Oprah?

  26. wheredidmySUVgogh Avatar

    babae ako. id rather be a man. like, same person just with male genitelia, ganon. there’s so much responsibilities, obligations, and expectations from women from beauty and their capacity to build a life and their skills. sa lalaki, they’re just expected to be something “great”. i mean, most of men r just expected to provide. kahit magulo yan sa bahay, okay lang, basta “nag aabot”. expected lang sakanila e maging magaling sa isang bagay at kumita ng malaki. sa babae, bata pa lang, andami nang kailangan matutunan hindi lang para hasain yong kakayahan para buhayin ang sarili kundi buhayin at pangalagaan lahat ng nasa paligid niya. haha

  27. RulesBeDamned Avatar

    No because if I was a woman, I wouldn’t have a beard like I have

  28. AggregatedParadigm Avatar

    I live in a western country in the 21st century. Literally no better time or place to take that deal. Onlyfans millionaire into passive investor. Then start university and become so accomplished people assume the onlyfans account is a look-a-like because nobody with a doctorate would do onlyfans surely.

  29. Just4MTthissiteblows Avatar

    Lol no of course not. You mean to tell me that every society on earth has commodified my body years before I’m old enough to understand why? And every time I pass through my front door I have to consider my basic safety?

  30. ZeubeuWantsBeu Avatar

    Yes because that way my partner will never ask me if I would still love him if he were a worm

  31. ZZoMBiEXIII Avatar

    I’d do it for a day, sure. A week, maybe? But to just swap out? No thanks. I’m too accustomed to life as a dude, I’m sure the culture shock alone would be mind breaking.

    I like opening my own jars and lifting my own stuff. I like opening doors for older ladies who always say thank you and call me “sweet”. I wouldn’t want to give up dudehood.

  32. Old_Weight_4036 Avatar

    Hell no, to have no actual power and to not live in objective reality doesn’t sound great long term

  33. No_Salad_68 Avatar

    Nope. Fuck periods and menopause.

  34. Golden-Valentin Avatar

    Nope. I already lived as a woman once, I’ve had enough of it (Trans guy)

  35. ScoutieJer Avatar

    Yes. I really hate being a woman. Just getting rid of periods and boobs and more than likely my autoimmine condition would make the trade worth it.

  36. orlybatman Avatar

    Depends on the woman I’d be trading with.

    There are good and bad things about being a man, and there are good and bad things about being a woman. Depending on who you are (rather than what gender) will determine whether there’s more good than bad or not.

  37. Brother_To_Coyotes Avatar

    I’m a walking stereotype. I’d be fine as my equal opposite stereotype but no thanks.

  38. BoxFar6969 Avatar

    The entire comment section experiencing gender dysphoria

  39. bigscottius Avatar

    Bleeding every month? Hormone swings? Not penetrating women with my penis? Less athletic ability?

    No thanks I will pass.

  40. ManaPotionArtisan Avatar

    Throw in character customization and I’m in.

  41. MariusDarkblade Avatar

    So you’re saying I as a man could live life in easy mode? Yes. 100%. Women think their lives are so hard when 99% of their problems are self inflicted or just nonsense they make up to victimize themselves for sympathy. They have no clue what it’s like to be a man, to live knowing your only value is how much you make. To live life knowing that you can make every right choice, fully support your woman, and she’ll still run off with some other dude then divorce you and take half your shit. If I could be a woman id be rich and retired at 25 onto starting a family.

  42. Heavenonearth12 Avatar

    Nah Im fine with being myself. Being a woman is awesome and all but being yourself is the best.

  43. rayjaymor85 Avatar

    Periods, menopause, an endless barrage of guys constantly trying to get me to talk to them with varying ranges of threat from non-existent to get-ready-to-be-stabbed at all hours?

    Pregnancy?

    F*** no.

    Don’t get me wrong I maintain guys have plenty of issues and dramas just for being men too, obviously.
    But I still maintain chicks get the shorter end of the stick.

  44. I-live-in-room-101 Avatar

    Fucking hell no!!
    Can you imagine some hairy guy trying to mount you?!? Fuck dat shit.

    On a serious note though, no. Seems like generally too much of a faff and spend half your life your pissing around wasting energy sweating the small stuff at the expense of achieving big stuff.

  45. CerealExprmntz Avatar

    Are we talking reincarnation? Sure. I don’t have any particular reason.

  46. optionalhero Avatar

    Depends if im
    Pretty or not. I wouldn’t wanna be an ugly girl but a pretty girl for a couple of months sounds fun.

  47. YesIAmRightWing Avatar

    Nah

    But then again I wouldn’t trade lives with any other man so…

  48. FixingNews Avatar

    At first I thought yes, just so I could try to understand why they, lie, they cheat, and steal. Then I was reminded of an old friend, and realized we all the same…

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  49. SecTeff Avatar

    If I were re-born then yes as I’d want the experience and different perspectives as it would be interesting